Close Please enter your Username and Password
Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
Password reset link sent to
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service

NoNonsenseFromU 74M  
70 posts
4/30/2023 10:09 am
Views, Flirts, and Hotlists - Real Interest or Not?


It is flattering to receive Flirts and Hotlists. Theoretically, it means someone - some real person - has seen your picture and decided to signal an interest. Alas, it does not mean they have actually read your profile.

So why flirt? why hotlist? I mean, this is such a Lazy way to proceed. But maybe there is something else. Maybe there is an algorithm and bots that crawl the sight and create what turn out to be spurious view, flirts, and hotlists. I would hate to think that is true but it does provide a plausible explanation for behavior that seems counter-intuitive.

It cannot be me alone who has experienced this and wondered about it. Comments? Thoughts? Primal screams?


Become a member to comment on this blog