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All about me Hi!  My name is Vincent and this blog post is for women who want to know more about me, my taste, my vibe all that. I know that there are as many players on this site targeting women as there are scams and fakes targeting men. I hope this blog post will reassure women about me. Also, I apologize in advance my English skills are good but not perfect.Generalities I am 28 years old. I am 1.73m tall or 5 ft8. I have 3 siblings and my parents are divorced. I am ginger/red-haired but shaven. I am more than chubby but working on losing that covid fat. I am unemployed right now seeking my first job after graduating. While I seek a job, I live with my mother, sorry can't take you in right now. I have one dream/goal, to create, with a friend, my own video game studio and make games, simple in theory, but hard in practice XD. Personality I am calm and reasoned but also a dreamer and philosopher (or I think I am XD). I am emotional and creative but pragmatic first. Other than that I have also been called a cynical altruist. I would say that I would like to get with someone that can balance me somewhat. I am a geek, I love roleplaying games, manga/anime, fantasy and sci-fi (Elder Scrolls is my fav universe), all that good stuff. I even made video games my job. However I am not a shut-in, I like to go out and do stuff, just not alone (that's where you come in I guess  I particularly like walking/trekking in the forest, museums, and going to the bar with my friends. I love learning stuff and particularly history. I like all types of music though I am more attracted to metal and hard rock. The way I experience music (and other artistic media) is I found different than most. I try to have as least bias and expectation as possible and just go where the music guides me and feel its soul in a way. That's how I can enjoy everything from classical to electro. I don't have many dislikes. I hate hypocrisy, especially mine. I don't like complaining; as a French, you are either a huge complainer or you are sick of it. With that comes the fact that I don't like ingratitude, you can ask for more or changes but be grateful for what you have. On the silly side, I don't like seafood very much. Politically I vote generally center-left by French standards, not Americans. I do like to debate things political or not, and I mean debate not just expose our pov and say "I don't agree with you you're a meany". Generally speaking, I don't like ideologies from all sides because "If you fight for ideals you can only save ideals" +1 if know where that comes from. Ask me for more details if you want. I do have an ecology sensibility and I am very much anti-wasting. I believe in ecology the science and not the ideology so to speak. I am not religious, as in I do not believe in any religion and yes I have read the Bible and Coran which made me even less religious. However, I am fascinated by the story aspect of it, like the stories from the religions of antiquity. The same goes for all esoterical things. Me vanilla I am a romantic. I am a strong believer that anything in too much quantity is bad for you, and that includes the BDSM lifestyle. A relationship that is only DOM/SUB is not good for people long-term. You need to splash a reasonable amount of vanilla into it to make it work. That means 1 that LOVE is essential and 2 I will show I love you. My love languages are touch and affirmation, so you can expect lots of cuddling, kisses, soft touches, and lots of "I love you". How ether if you're not a good girl, you will be punished. I am also looking to have a family at some point, so marriage and are part of it. To our families and friends, we are a happy, "normal" couple (if such a thing exists). We may tell our close friends, but in this day and age of radical feminism and neo-puritanism let's keep it low. We are a couple so we will do couple things, like going out, traveling (if we have the money XD), and sharing our passions. On that, we must share a least one passion, which is absolutely necessary to me. I have seen many couples break because they liked each other but they had nothing in common in the end. Goals and dreams are important to me, and you should be to you. My dream is to create my own video game studio. And you need to have a dream too and we will support each other towards our dreams. Dreams, projects, that brings me to an other point, you will work. I don't want just a stay-at-home salve. I want a woman that makes a living. You can work part-time (if we have the money XD) but you will work. I want to dom a woman that can leave if she wants but chooses to stay. Vanilla sex is good too My ideal date would be a pick-nick in a beautiful location like a clearing in a forest, talking, playing a board game, and making love until sunset and then star gazing cuddled up in a blanket while drinking rhum or whisky (I like mixing cocktails btw) Me as a Dom How would I treat my slave? it is a complex question. I will just say how I see things working you can ask me why I do things like this or that. 0-I am not very experienced so, I expect total honesty from my sub to help me learn to dom her better 1-I do not have a strict way of how things work, I take my sub's input, her wants and needs into consideration. All that follows is my ideal thing I know how to compromise, the most important thing for me is that we are both happy. 2-I have some general rules for 24/7 Sub/slaves: -I have a strong libido and while some men find it uncomfortable to orgasm without ejaculation (when you got no more sperm to give) I do not. So you can expect to be used a lot at all hours of the day. -the sub wears a collar (or another sign of submission) at all times. The collar is not really for pet play. -she can take it off at any time, which means I will treat her as my vanilla GF. However, she has to tell me why she took it off. I don't want you to be my slave if you're not in the mood. -You are to address me in a way that shows your submission, like master, sir, etc... you can add a loving adjective with it like dear master or darling master. -When outside you are to behave as my regular GF but my orders still count -When you have finished executing your orders/duties you can do as you want or come back and sit next to me, I like having my sub close. -You will be rewarded as well as punished, I need to know your likes/dislikes to do that efficiently -I will not control your social life, because I believe that the BDSM lifestyle is between the master and the sub only. If I were to "take you away" from your friends, it will start impacting them. But I do require to know what you are doing with who at all times. -Even if I do not give you an order I expect you to do things in a manner so as to not disappoint me or you can be punished. This one will take time to learn of course. 3- I am a loving man and only take a sub that I love. So, my sub can expect, if she's been a good girl, to be hugged, kissed, pat on the head, and told "I love you, slut" often. 4-The sexual part, I have a few limits. I have a strong libido so my sub can expect to be used sexually, sometimes without warning, multiple times a day. I love to experiment and try all sorts of kinks and roleplays. I love dirty talk and expect my sub to excite me with her words. 5-I am not against having a second sub as part of a trouple. Trouples are the only polyamory stuff that makes sense to me for an LTR. 6-Since I am both loving and sadist, it can seem sometimes as if I have mood swings, hugging and saying I love you a moment and forcing my sub on her knees and calling her a slut the next. 7-I know a lot of masters expect their sub/slave silent I do not. We will talk about stuff as all couples do. You can ask for anything at any time and I can say yes or no or ignore it. And regularly we will have a sitting down and talk honestly about everything regarding our relationship. My likes dislikes and kinks Absolute limits: Sharing my sub with another man or whoring my sub (she is my XD). That triggers a primal instinct in me, just the idea makes me angry and nauseous. I know it is an animal instinct, the same as most primates, because I don't have the same gut reaction to sharing with another woman. Scat Heavy animalistic roleplay/costumes, like furry suits or just more than a tail plug and ears. I like hucow stuff but because of the human in human-cow Dislikes (could make an exception from time to time): Blood Knife play Father/ roleplay Big kinks: Breeding roleplay (and one day for real) Costumes Dirty talk (the most important one) Collar Markings (temporary and permanent) Smaller kinks: Orgasm control and denial (on my sub of course) Breast/nipple torture (I admit I am a tits man) Exhibition/fear of getting caught in public Humiliation Bondage CNC (mainly as in I don't have to ask and can just take you) Curious about: Basically everything else XD Other things When we start to live together and you truly become my sub/slave, we will have a "ceremony" or "ritual" in which we will pledge to abide by our duties to one another. You will receive your collar and of course, it will be highly sexual I abore cheating, if you cheat on me you can 1 expect me to know 2 I'll immediately break up with you 3 I will do as much damage to your's and the AP's life as I legally can get away with. So you better break up than cheat And I think that's it. You liked what you read? Comment or message me. |
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