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Welcome to the blogs. A good lace to get info.Best to you. Some quick answers fo your six questions: 1, People who are inclined to be submissive in personal relationships.. Which is different from Bottoming. 2.People who are inclined to be dominant in personal relationships. It also attracts people who want a partner that bends to their will. Many seem this as an opportunistic situation. 3. In a long term relationship, the power belongs to both parties. It may ebb and flow for various life circumstances , such as ill health, loss of job, difficulties with family/children and so forth. It often appears that the dominant is the one, hold the power but it is a mutually beneficial arrangement.If one party become unhappy long term, it would likely fall apart. 4.Backgrounds are all over the place. No one specific indicator. 5. Not too much in the past, but now days with the internet there are prostitutes who find submissive as easy marks. 6. Psychology over the years has generally had bias in research. I have not found that there is a psychologist who does not live in the lifestyle to be purely objective. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Its a symbiotic relationship. Your work as you put it should stand on its own as opposed to leaning on and giving credence to others.
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How do you intend to experience the D/s and B&D dynamic for yourself? I assume you would prefer to experience it LIVE and IN real time ACTION. Would you be the "elephant" in the room--a mere witness to a session, if allowed-- taking notes and photos/videos, or would you rather assume the persona of a femdom in one session, and the persona of a submissive in another,in order to more tangibly experience the interaction--one on one--from both ends of the power spectrum (i.e.,as an active participant from each power orientation--D and s-- on separate occasions, respectively)? In such a case, perhaps you could bring along your own videographer for a reasonable fee, if your partner was agreeable to this slight invasion of a customarily private session. I would add, in closing, that if you chose to actively participate in the (at least) two sessions, as part of your research, you would have to decide, for both occasions, whether your dominant and then your submissive partner/complement was to be a male or a female. On both occasions, regardless, a preliminary discussion of hard limits would be advisable. Good luck!
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