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Not4onenightonly 65M  
18 posts
11/18/2023 7:57 am
Finding the fit P6


It's been an interesting few weeks, no real success, but that's not unexpected as I know I'm looking for something pretty specific with a fairly difficult connection to establish due to circumstances. Everyone on here has an agenda, no point in being here otherwise, and many profiles are rather vague. So it's important to have an idea of who you are, you need to know that, Not who other people want you to be, think you are and so on. Who you are and why ( if you can get that far). There are no right answers of course, fore me personally a long journey to get here, Many years of denial 'to fit in; many false starts and here we are retired from other pressures but not retired from life.

It's also important to understand that business of agenda form others, some profiles could be fake, aimed at catching the unwary, I've had a couple who made contact but soon displayed signs that made me think, no further. Others are 'false' by accident the creators not being entirely 'honest; with themselves, this of course is very human, we are all flawed in many ways, paradoxically one of the many ways in which variety is achieved, Mostly though it is that I don't fit to the the person checking out my profile, I'm sure I get why and that is one factor in the need to be a little wary of certain approaches.
N4ONO x
Not4onenightonly

Not4onenightonly 65M  
25 posts
11/18/2023 8:53 am

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n_Tryst 50F  
289 posts
11/18/2023 9:44 am

Not4onenightonly, all the best to you getting your fit. Be well.

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