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11/17/2023 8:41 am

Training a Sub

This a description of a new subs first day with me.
Lisa worked with me at school. She was a 1st grade teacher. She was 42 yo and her husband had just left her for a<b> younger </font></b>woman. We ate lunch at school at the same time usually in my classroom. So, the 30-minute lunches became a grief session for her. Sometimes she would be angry at her ex but mostly she was angry and disappointed with herself. Our conversation became more frequently about her and her shortcomings, her constant miscues, and her immaturity. Finally, after several months of these conversations, I told her that she needed discipline and direction in her life. First, she laughed that nervous laugh where a sub realizes that discipline may be for real. She agreed. And I invited her to come to my apartment for breakfast on the next Saturday and we could discuss where this could go.
That Saturday she came to my apartment, and we had coffee and toast and eggs. We cleaned up the kitchen and went out to sit in the living room. She sat on the couch, and I sat on a chair. As she talked about her life and her failed marriage she started to cry. I offered her a glass of wine, which she accepted, to help to calm her down.
Her lament was that she lacked maturity. Her ex told her that she behaved and functioned like a young most of the time. I had her discuss with me those aspects of her behavior which seem to be really juvenile. We then came to the point where she asked me what I would have done if I was her husband. I reminded her of my experiences in the BDSM community and told her that I would have given her bare ass spanking. Her response was that she does not like to be naked. We discussed that aspect, and she came to understand that that alone was probably a turn off for her ex.
She had another glass of wine, and the asked what a spanking might entail. I explained, she would be totally naked, receive a lecture, and then her first spanking would be with my hand and a wooden hairbrush.
Lisa finished her wine and then asked when we could start. I told her right now. She was hesitant and nervous but agreed. I told her if she was very hesitant or refused a command then the session would end. The only way for a sub to submit is through total submission. I told her to stand in front of me and I was sitting on the couch. She stood. She is 5'7" tall and weighs 135 to 140 pounds. I had Lisa remove her jeans and then her top. She was wearing black panties and a black bra. I told her that any discipline will always be with her naked. She reluctantly agreed.
I had her remove her bra, which she did slowly. She is 34A bra size but she seemed smaller. I made her stand with her hands at her side. She offered that she is very self-conscious since her husband would tell her she had girl tits. She was small but not a girl.
Lisa then asked if I was going to take off her panties or if she should take them off. I said that I would take them down. She said that she was very nervous. I instructed to her stand still, hands at her side. I remained seated and she stood in front of me. I put a hand on her pubic mound and then put fingers of both hands in the waist band of the panties. She was breathing heavily. I said they are coming off now. she said yes sir. I pulled her panties down and off. She is a blonde and her pubic hair was bushy, thick, dark blonde and some grey. She said oh god sir I am so humiliated. I said yes as you should be. you are a bad girl expecting to be spanked by her master. I put my hand on her pussy and slipped a finger into her pussy. I said Lisa you are wet. She said yes sir I cannot help myself. I said Lisa you are 42 years old and your pussy is reacting like it is a teenage girl. She said yes sir. I am so embarrassed. I said you should be ashamed. She said I am sir. I then told her I wanted to put a finger on her anus and use that intimate touch on the the ass that I intended to spank and I had her tun around. Lisa has slender legs, tight firm thighs, and a very small, very white ass. I ran my hands over her cheeks and I commented on how white they were. I put a finger on her crack and lingered on her anus. I put a hand on her pussy, and she was very wet.
The first spanking I had her lay face down on the bed. I spanked her ass with my hand and with a hairbrush. I scolded her as I spanked her. It was not a very severe spanking; those came later in the relationship. I did make her cheeks pink and red and she did sob.
When I finished the spanking, I directed Lisa to spread her legs. I then lay down and put my face over her ass, and I put my fingers in her pussy. as my tongue traced her crack and stopped at her anus, she trembled. As my tongue pushed past her anal ring and my fingers pressed on her clit, she just kept saying OMG this isnt happening. she would say oh no this is so private. oh no I hope I am clean. Eventually I made her turnover and spread her legs. I lay face down and put my mouth on her pussy and my hands held her breasts and nipples. For almost an hour we stayed like this, and she was having orgasms some of which were very intense. She held my head, pulled my hair, and would often put her legs over me during an orgasm. She told me after that she had never had oral sex at that intensity. Her ex didnt like to lick her pussy. I told her as we cooled down that if she did become my sub she would have to surrender to my tongue whenever I demanded. She said yes she could do that.
At the end of the month Lisa moved in with me.
I tried to keep a part of every day to a "G" type day with the activities that a "G" couple we do - like house cleaning, meals, and laundry. We usually slept naked at night. However, when her period came the relationship went to another level. This time of the month up until now had been a total private process. The five days of her period for the first time in her life had become a joint enterprise. This brought her to the most intense level of submission. She had been observed by me using the toilet frequently when she peed and pooped, including being wiped by me. When her period began that first time she was in the bathroom, and I opened the door and went over to her. Lisa's reaction was OMG please no. I told her this was not negotiable. I made her stand. I took the used pad and wrapped in tp. I used a wet wash cloth to wash her pussy and then I put on new pad on her and clean underpants. Her period lasts for 5 days with days 3 and 4 being the heaviest. At night she slept with a pad on and white cotton underpants, I bought 12 pairs of "period panties." During the 2nd month of living with me I convinced her that her pussy was easier to clean if it was shaved. Every week on Saturday I groomed her by shaving her legs, underarms, and pussy. I intensified the activity by adding a douche and enema to the activity. The Saturday grooming sessions were intensified during her period. It was not uncommon for her menstruate as her pussy was shaved. This was a very high level of humiliation for her especially if the Saturday came during day 3 or 4 of the cycle. So while Lisa was being shaved by me, she would have a heavy menstrual flow and often she would get the runs. This extended the time of the grooming session and intensified her humiliation and submission. By the end of the second month Lisa had no privacy or personal life with every aspect of her privacy removed.
Soon after she moved in the expectation for her when she returned home from school she had to change in to shorts and a t-shirt or sweats no underwear. She was forbidden to wash her pussy or her ass. Once she did return home and she showered without permission or supervision, and she was seriously spanked and had to do corner time for being disobedient. I believe that after 3 weeks of 24/7 servitude Lisa embraced her role as sub/slave. There is a difference in the submissive role and in the slave role. As an example, when I stay bring your pussy over to me - as a sub she will say I need to wash my pussy first and as a slave she says yes sir right now sir here is your pussy thank you sir.
with Lisa we had specialty days;
There were Saturday birthday suit days. Upon arising Lisa spent the day naked in her birthday suit.
There were bottomless weekends so from Friday afternoon at 4 until 9 Monday morning, Lisa remained naked from the waist down her pussy and ass constantly exposed.


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