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11/19/2023 9:46 pm

Follow up to 15 years of heavy anal

This entry is to cover more practical matters about my Fifteen Years of Heavy Anal journal entry, so that should be read first obviously.

First of all Anja was not her real name. She came and stayed every year over my summer (her winter) for 16 years as already mentioned. Plus there were a few years where she had gaps in her contracts that allowed shorter mid year holidays as well.

I'm not a huge guy, only 5'8" and my hands are probably smaller than most male hands, but larger than most women's. Training with a 3 inch wide plug proved just right for Anja to take my fist anally for the first time.

An obvious question would be "did I have previous experience before Frieda?" Yes, I had already known two women already very experienced in heavy anal play and fisting. The first was just a British tourist in Bali for a one off encounter, so barely counts really. The other was a woman in Sydney I met on alt dot com when I was living in Melbourne, she was also already well experienced in fisting and heavy anal use. I've put together an entry describing those sessions in more detail. Once or twice a year I'd find myself in Sydney and would send her a text to ask if she wanted her arse fisted and she would say yes and come around to the hotel if she was up for it- she was also into very rough vaginal fisting, with a clenched fist that could only be described as punch fisting. She was also the loudest woman I've ever known, getting completely lost in the moment and forgetting where she was as she screamed vulgarities that could be heard through the hotel- or on one warm Sydney day through the open window and down to the open air food court just below, which caused a slight stir. The Sydney trips soon stopped once Anja started her summer holidays.

Initially for Anja's anal training and fisting, we used Crisco as lubricant. Hard to get it in Australia, but it can be purchased online via an American food store in Melbourne. Melting Crisco in the microwave worked really well and the warm greasy lube felt great. But ultimately we didn't like it because it left greasy stains on everything and clogged up the washing machine, drains and anything else it came into contact with. The following summer Frieda herself brought in some mixable powdered lube. I don't know if it was X-Lube back then or something else, but later on she definitely brought over X-Lube and now I'd recommend nothing else. It's so slippery that you have trouble even holding dildo's or plugs without dropping them, it causes no stinging or reactions at all and makes anal fisting feel sensational. The American J-Lube sounds similar, but we never tried it to compare.

Preparation is king, it's the key to a woman enjoying heavy anal or having a bad feeling experience and never doing it again- so do it right. Anyone that thinks they are going to have a great anal fisting experience without cleaning first is mistaken. Don't use the cheap enema kits from sex shops, they are crap. Get a real medical one, they are made of silicone and resist algae buildup inside the tubes and have replaceable nozzles of all shapes.

Deep cleaning may sound logical, but it isn't unless you're really training specifically for extreme depth play. Work out some way of letting your partner know when you're cleaned and ready, by nature extreme anal cannot ever be as spontaneous as vaginal. For Anja it was simple, if she had her favourite butt plug in then she was telling me that she was clean, ready and willing for anything back there- I didn't need to ask and she preferred that I didn't ask.

Butt Plugs are the best tools to gently train and enlarge the woman's hole for extreme play. You really want to use soft silicone toys. silicone causes no allergies that I'm aware of, unlike PVC and even latex. They cost much more, but are seriously worth it. Using really soft plugs are ideal for longer periods of training. The Square Peg plugs are good examples that are usually available locally for me. We found that size gains were permanent, Anja could always open back up to any new size previously trained to. Her largest penetration was a huge egg plug at just over 4 inches wide. Taking my relatively small fist was easy for her by then. After extreme stretching, given time , her hole always recovered and returned to full function- keeping in mind she had 9 months between holidays usually.

Depth play. Frieda became interested in this after watching some porn stars doing ultra deep anal play. I found a medium sized Slink depth trainer to begin such training, but we never got to try that one out for reasons explained in the first journal entry


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