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Do you guys set up a mood? Do you guys set up a mood and the drive to start sex? Or do you jump straight to it with such a passionate libido? Tell me and share! I'm learning from the comments that are being made and you guys have great answers! |
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It depends on the vibe that woman is sending out, but then if she is using a vibe she probably doesn't need a man.
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Not every situation is planned. But, I do like to plan. In my youth, I think I was more driven by raw lust. If i was currently involved with a good woman, I suppose there would be such moments of lust driven interaction. But I surely love to plan encounters that wind up in lust. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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It really depends on what I want from the woman.
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It all depends on the occasion. Sometimes, she can have a lovely set up also. Don't discount what you can bring to the table.
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I think it is MUCH easier to be a sub than a Dom. Being a sub is like an actress showing up on a movie studio set. The Dom is the one that must pick out the wardrobe (is the sub a nurse, a Egyptian princess, a cheerleader, ect), make sure the set design is correct, the props are in place and work right, the lighting and blocking is correct and then go over the speaking parts with the sub if they have any lines at all. Not saying the sub’s job is easy, just a good Dom has a certain production value they want to adhere too and that can be a lot of work! Setting a mood can be fun just in itself if you do it right. I had a girlfriend that we would play “letters”. She would call me to tell me she was on her way home from work, and I would tell her there is a letter with instructions waiting for her on the front door. When she came to the front door, she would grab the letter from the door and then open the letter that would say; “Welcome home! Now come inside and close the door. Do not turn on any additional lights or acknowledge me in any way and keep your gaze down to the floor. Strip off all of your clothes, fold them neatly and place them in front of the door. When you have done that, open and read letter number 2 taped to the inside of the door.” I had virtually all the lights off in the house except the one in the entryway and a dim light on in the hall. I’m pretty sure she knew that I would be watching her the whole time from the upstairs stairway to see what she does, enjoying the show. Soon a naked girlfriend would then open letter number 2 that would say “There is a gift bag on the floor behind you with what I want you to wear. Put every item I provided on your body, then get on all fours and crawl around the corner down the hall for letter #3 on the floor” Sometimes I would put strappy lingerie in the bag, sometimes a see through body suit, sometimes only a collar for her neck. Just watching her strip off her clothes from the dark shadows then putting everything on for me was quite a turn on too. Soon she was all dressed for sex the way I wanted and then crawling on all fours looking for my next letter. Then down the hall to a small cardboard gift box would be the letter she was crawling around looking for. She would open the letter that would read “Inside the box is a blindfold. I want you to put the blindfold on, crawl up the stairs and then crawl into the bedroom, when you are inside the bedroom, stay on all fours and say “Master I await your command” and do not move. You will be punished or rewarded based on how well you have followed my instructions.” Sometimes I would put other things in the box too. Maybe a vibrator with instructions for her to turn it on and put it in her pussy before she crawled upstairs, maybe tell her to put a long leash on her collar and turn the collar around so the leash is on her back and to crawl up the stairs with the leash between her buttcheeks for me. I tried to mix it up a bit to keep her on her toes, or hands and knees as it was. The sight of her on all fours trying to feel her way around the house then up the stairs was extremely erotic too, her breasts swaying and her hard nipples poking out as she crabbed her way down the hall. And as she cautiously worked her way up the stairs, there was just an amazing amount of nice tight ass on display with a nice view of her pussy being generously flashed too. And knowing she was doing as I told her was the cherry on that very erotic cake. When she finally got to the bedroom, I was ready to cum and I didn’t even touch her yet. When she uttered in her best bedroom voice “Master, I await your command” it was always mesmerizing to me. I told her one time- “Don’t move at all” and as I looked at that pussy that was just glistening with moisture in the dim bedroom light. I got down on the floor behind her and slowly slid my finger into her pussy and it felt so amazing. My finger just glided inside her welcomingly female lubricated hole and when she felt her pussy accept the second knuckle of my finger, she shuttered and let out a prize winning porn star moan. That is one way how a Dom can “set the mood” don’t you think?
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Sometimes I do things throughout the day that may set the mood like flirtatious text etc. and sometimes it can just be a spur of the moment thing.
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Also, speaking of "setting the mood", let me throw out another idea. Me and a girlfriend also had a "color code". The code was basically what color her bra and panties were based on what meanings we had given those colors. For instance, if she was wearing bra and panties in the following colors, that meant: Red: Passion, hot, lots of kissing, caressing, can't keep your hands off each other night. Purple: The color of royalty, she wants to be massaged and pampered during the evening, treated like a queen. White: The virgin, go slow, take your time, lots of tenderness, nothing too rough. Black: My favorite, literally, fuck me! Her wearing black panties and a bra was a license for me to pick her up and toss her on the kitchen table rip her clothes off and have my way with her right then and there. There was even a safe "no-go" color too. I hated teal before, but when she was wearing teal, I knew she wasn't feeling good or was having a rough period and basically sex was not on her menu for the night. So teal to me was to tread lightly and be a good boyfriend. Also there was also a special garter she would wear to let me know she was ok with anal sex too. So always check the for the color and the garter!! The fun part was, how we would play the game. I would pick her up for our evening out and she would hop in the passenger seat of my car, say our greetings, then flash me a devilish smile as she raised her skirt to show me her pantie color. Maybe she would want to tease me and wait until we were at a quite part of the parking lot to show me her new bra. Or even quietly sitting at a boring dinner party as she reached for my hand and placed it on her thigh under the table so I could feel the garter on her leg. This way, I knew with just one look, how my evening is going to go. Wearing white didn't mean that the evening would not end up in a animalistic grunting powerful fuck, but it did mean for me not to lead off with that first! Hope this gives you plenty of ideas,.... god luck!
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I should note, setting the mood, is part of the plan every time. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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THE SETTINGS CHANGE BUT THE MOOD REMAINS THE SAME On the search for BLISS there are many roads and ways to get there
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If she's a new conquest, I start with a plan, but no battle plan survives the initial contact with the target. If I've had a chance to explore the terrain I already know what she likes and I and tailor the encounter to what turns her on. How about you, sweetness? What sets your libido to vibrate?
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