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Freakeee 59M/57F  
6 posts
12/2/2023 1:49 am
Dating or Fucking on ALT


Hi!

We are freakeee

I (him/dom) was a member of ALT a few years back with an ex GF & it was great! We had a lot of hardcore anonymous sex! Occasionally we would have a repeat or 3 but mostly we met people who would enter a hotel room & have glorious anonymous hardcore BDSM sex! We got so good at it, once when we had scheduled 4, 1/2 hour apart meetings BUT….we ended up with the most amazing 6 way we ever had! My gf was ecstatically sore for a week!!!



Now, it seems like there is a new mindset around here. It seems like it has changed into a dating site for “true” doms and sincere submissives… I have come across it many times in many forms….. Eleoquently voiced by alwaysassertive in [post 1253629] it goes something like this….

Most people chatting are simps and pretenders looking for someone to fuck. your best bet is to meet someone through your blog. Most men on this sight aren't doms.. They might want to be but they really have no clue how dominant men are. They just make up things as they go along because they have no real frame of reference except what they hold true in their imagination, and from what they see in the movies. I'm mostly making reference to those guys with their deformed dick in their hand trying to impress women that they have a cock. A real dom isn't interested in walking around with his dick in his hand. A dominant should first be interested in exploring your mind before he explores your body. If someone is promoting their dick or pussy as "the" ultimate prize and primary focus to base a relationship. They aren't bringing very much to the table.If guidelines were setup for chatting here it would be more difficult to determine who were the real thing. The way things are now it's quite easy to know who's real an who's looking strictly for sex.



also voiced in another thoughtful & insightful post coming at the same problem from another angle I forgot how Alt works

I just want to break down this mindset, only as a way to open conversation…

Most people chatting are simps and pretenders looking for someone to fuck.

okay, now Im not going to impugn simps or pretenders but is looking for someone to fuck a bad thing??? I never thought it was!!

your best bet is to meet someone through your blog.

i guess, in the context of looking for a relationship, good advice but is alt a dating/relationship site? of course it is….. but is that WHAT it is??

. ” Most men on this sight aren't doms.. They might want to be but they really have no clue how dominant men are. They just make up things as they go along because they have no real frame of reference except what they hold true in their imagination, and from what they see in the movies.

This is understandable…. I believe the true dom apprenticeship program disbanded in ‘63….. the dom intern in 74

“I'm mostly making reference to those guys with their deformed dick in their hand trying to impress women that they have a cock.”



”A real dom isn't interested in walking around with his dick in his hand. A dominant should first be interested in exploring your mind before he explores your body. If someone is promoting their dick or pussy as "the" ultimate prize and primary focus to base a relationship. They aren't bringing very much to the table.

I will agree with that but also question it’s validity. Is that what we’re doing here? Is there no place for straight hardcore anonymous BDSM sex? Is the basis here relationships? Is it not enough to bring your sexuality to the table? To bring your cock or pussy to the table?

If guidelines were setup for chatting here it would be more difficult to determine who were the real thing. The way things are now it's quite easy to know who's real a who's looking strictly for sex.

We agree with that! in our mind, that would be a good thing. Those who are here strictly looking for sex, are the subset of people that we would like to start from. Those looking for other things could find them other places.



Look, I understand that context is important, and Im leaving it out for a reason… because regardless of context, the thought that being here just for the sex, is not being a true dom….

Ignore for a minute that there are as many different doms as there are people. ignore for a minute that simps & pretenders is a JUDGEMENT call! Your judgement call! And just as easily, people can judge YOUR dom credentials pretentious or pretend or made up!

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Is there a place on alt for a couple who arent true doms or true submissives?



Who arent looking for credentials. We’re looking for someone (or more) to strictly have sex with?! Hardcore anonymous role playing scenario acting fucking and sucking?
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So, I’d like to advocate for something a little different! Can you exchange A walk on part in the war, for a lead role in a cage? (Pink Floyd)

Can you role play? Can you play the role of the punisher?



Can you take the ass? Can you smack that ass!



Can you operate the toys?



Can you fuck the mouth and cum on the titties???



Can you play it by ear? Even though there will be an outline, a scenario…. The victim will call the shots….What she says goes…. Could you deal with her sucking you off only? Could you deal with DP ass end only? Could you deal with whatever possibility arises? This will be an unusual encounter… could be a public dogging, could be a hotel fuck, could be a car window fuck…



Obviously you need to be local to NY…(although we do dogging in Maine several times a year)

You MUST be d&d free (Cannabis is not a drug ;^) )
You MUST be secure enough in your ego to understand this is a role playing part in OUR play! We will surely consider & incorporate YOUR fantasy & kink but you will be but an actor (no such thing as an actress, actor is the correct term, male or female) playing a part!

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it will be a fun & interesting scenario…. you will fuck & suck & be fucked & sucked!!! You will have access to three inputs!

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Note from Sub…. I enjoy being tied or bound and gagged & having sex with my hubby… he has introduced me to many new experiences.. Public sex & dogging being the most fun… Understand that I have free choice. If you are a good respectful person you will have access to everything hubby does… but understand that if something feels off, even with a gag & dick in my mouth, I decide…. I 100% trust hubby & his pre-screening but since he decided to write this blog, I thought I should at least express myself..
Hubby is not bi…. Although at my request pegging can be accommodated… And I have pegging experience, so its a possibility..
Also, to start the actor may be asked to use toys….

AND most important…

the actor WILL be required to take a shower! ;^)



If you are looking for a meaningful relationship we wish you the best of luck. There are a lot of people on here who would be a great SO for you… Even if thats what you are looking for… if you still get horny & want to ravish a womans body with a partner…. let us know!!!

Bi-Curious girls, we will supply the (2way) strapon, to feel the power of a DP on a blindfolded, bound & gagged “victim”!!! Should you be a<b> switch </font></b>player wifey & you can change places…. Wifey is notorious with a bullet loaded strapon!!


Soooo, to those who just want to get laid…. those with their genitalia prominently displayed or a little more conservative…..


If alt is a place for hardcore anonymous sex, hit us up…
Maybe we can have some good old fashioned fun!!



msfunfor 63M
10814 posts
12/3/2023 9:19 am

you need to leave a comment to make it onto the main page


rydermantel 69M
25861 posts
12/3/2023 11:53 pm

Welcome back.


Freakeee 59M/57F  
6 posts
12/4/2023 12:17 am

Thanks… Ever use alt just to get laid? Or is it first & foremost a dating site?


3chance 49M
57 posts
4/18/2024 10:32 pm

'Dating'...hmmm. The term/phrase is a bit too...vanilla. My goals are long term. The phrase 'Ownership' will suffice for me.


Freakeee replies on 4/19/2024 7:07 am:
Of course. Ownership! I believe that “thang” would own everything it touches.
A girl can dream!

3chance 49M
57 posts
4/18/2024 10:36 pm

I want to enjoy the work I that put into that body...


Freakeee replies on 4/19/2024 7:24 am:
Reality check indeed!
The question is, how can that be part of my reality!
3Chance is the man every woman fantasizes about. And every man wishes they had 1/100th of his je ne sais quoi.
The man, the myth! Thanks for gracing my page with your presence sir!


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