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Bertfegg 61M
2 posts
12/20/2023 3:05 pm
Newby looking for experience

I'm new to this at 60 now but want to learn. I think I may be Dom but don't know where to start. Does anyone in north east England know of someone or some where who can help develop this side of my life.
I am married and my wife is disabled so I need to be very<b> discreet.
</font></b>I did wonder if, to be a good Dom is it best to sub first and then switch or are you Dom or sub from the outset
Any help would be greatly appreciated

subgirlsadoDaddy 67F
62 posts
12/28/2023 7:16 am

 Many Dom's have told me they began as a sub to a Dom and accepted training. IT is a good way to begin, when you find the RIGHT DOM who is a good guide and mentor. A good sub will also 'train' her Dom by sharing what she needs to be a sub. Your fantasies will guide you in learning to know what you are. I learned later in life. You are wise to continue to be loyal to your wife and see to her needs, but you must also meet your own needs. I wish you well on your journey.


Bertfegg 61M

12/28/2023 8:07 am

 Thank you for the advice I did suspect that was the course to follow. To be a good Dom you first need to sub so you can understand the subs needs.
A local contact for a Dom would be appreciated



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