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1benquick 71M
49 posts
4/9/2024 6:01 am
You ask, WHY, again?


I concur that there are SO many unexplainable situations that occur fairly REGULARLY on this site. And I've thrown my two cents worth of opinions into discussion on VARIOUS subjects in this regard on occasion. I've also experienced a 'FAIR' share of them myself with NO EXPLANATION form the 'powers that be' of this site.
HOW is it that on the 'Home Page' it shows that I have '87 members' in 'My Hotlist', and YET, when I click on 'My Hotlist' there are 6, SIX, the number between 5 and 7, S-I-X, profiles that come up? Click on any number of 'drop down' features you wish, SIX profiles are ALL that are available. And to add insult to injury (okay, I'm not REALLY injured, or hurt, but it does FRUSTRATE the hell out of me!), I've 'Hotlisted' two or three profile in the last three or four days, AND THEY'RE NOT AMONG THE SIX THAT ARE SHOWN! WHY? And here's a BETTER question WHY, WHY AM I STILL ON THIS FORSAKEN SITE? SHEESH....

1benquick 71M
612 posts
4/9/2024 6:02 am

'Feelings are strange, especially when they come true..'


uncommon1 66M  
1434 posts
4/9/2024 7:31 am

This site should only be one of
several tools in your toolbox . .
It is one of the less effective ones
for sure!!


Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
4/9/2024 4:07 pm

Yes, this site is pretty much a waste of time.

Yet here I am, still wasting my time.


meltwill2 72M  
3803 posts
4/9/2024 7:52 pm

    Quoting uncommon1:
    This site should only be one of
    several tools in your toolbox . .
    It is one of the less effective ones
    for sure!!


rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
4/10/2024 10:49 am

Yes, once you could pretty much work with what this site had to offer, even for non paying members.
Now?
Dont get me started.
It is my place to go to, to read blogs and write some too..
and that is about it, for me.

except for the not so often jumps in my inbox, that does not make me any happier at all!
a waste of time, so far...
So, yeah> whY am i still here?
To blog, to read up on my blog friends, to comment on some, to read and not comment... That is about it.

I dont even look at those things as the hotlist or when i do, i dont take that serious at all.
wank fodder....


1benquick 71M
612 posts
4/10/2024 3:01 pm

'Yes, once you could pretty much work with what this site had to offer, even for non paying members.'
Hi Rosa, I agree wholeheartedly, with everything you said, and KNOW that 99% or so on here are scammers, frauds, and fakes, and I really only hang on to read the BLOGS (selectively, though) and the occasional 'polls' that are posted that I find interesting. I've bounced of and on often enough to form the same opinions of the site as you and most others that BLOG here. It's a shame, though, because there was a time, in the past (ALL BE IT a DISTANT past), when it wasn't that way...AHHH, the wave of modern technology, progress, and the influx of the 'get rich quick schemers', ain't it grand?
Joni Mitchell sang about 'Pave Paradise and put up a parking lot...'
Jimmy Buffett sand about his disdain for mobile homes and over building in the Florida, 'Most of the people who retire in Florida are wrinkled and they lean on a crutch, and mobile homes are SMOTHERING the Keys I hate those bastards so much, I wish a Summer squall would blow them all way up to 'Fantasy Land' (Disney World)...and the Eagles sang about 'The Last Resort' when they said, 'Who will provide the grand design?
What is yours and what is mine?
'Cause there is no more new frontier
We have got to make it here

We satisfy our endless needs and
justify our bloody deeds,
in the name of destiny and the name
of God

And you can see them there,
On Sunday morning
They stand up and sing about
what it's like up there
They call it paradise
I don't know why
You call someplace paradise,
kiss it goodbye...' and so it goes with things like this site, as well...



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