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Is it a tattoo that’s obviously “his” or can you make it yours and therefore not have the need to tell future Doms it was his. Does that make sense? Eg you’ve been marked with the initials FE, they were his initials, but you were made of harder stuff and realised he was a total bum head and so your tattoo now stands for iron and if anyone asks, that’s what you tell them. You’re not lying. Can you do the same with your marks? Hidds  (Please be aware, I dont always reply to comments. I dont do this out of rudeness, I just dont always feel that a reply is necessary or your comment has moved so far down the list that other comments have over-ridden it. I hope you dont get offended and am grateful for any comments on my blog posts Thanks)
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I wouldn't think less of the sub who had been marked. It shows that she is experienced and someone thought enough of her service to mark her. Sure it didn't work out, but there's someone out there who will appreciate her and make her submission worthwhile.
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She might regret being marked, but it's not all bad. It shows she has had experience and someone valued that service with a tattoo. She just needs to find the right Dom for her that will not care.
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If the new Dom don't accept your marks then he is not worth to own you.
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2/19/2024 11:20 am |
As a “marked submissive” I feel right ant home commenting here. Just because the submissive/slave wears a mark does not mean they should be shamed, in fact they should be sought after. That level of devotion to their Dominant is not found very often. I was marked by my Dom on both butt cheeks as her property and was ready for a life as their property. Many years into the relationship they lost interest in training/play to point that I just packed all the gear in a trunk and they never used it again. Years later I became Sick with a degenerative nerve disease that started affecting my bladder, eyes and ears, muscle tremors and the whole nine yards. Rather than move to a new chapter of more complete control of me, a MDLB relationship, I was told they did not want a diapered slave and I was told to get out, thrown away by someone that I allowed to mark me as their property. Now I have to deal with shallow doms that cannot understand (because they are to full of themselves) and they always assume it’s the submissive that failed the relationship and not the Dom. If I was a Dom, I would seriously consider a marked submissive and find out why they are searching again before I made a decision that I might regret. Then depending on mark and it’s location I would have it removed and place my mark upon them. This frees their mind of that mark and allowed them to move on mentally into a life as my property.
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Getting marked as slave or sub might be ok i think. But a personlized Mark of the owner ... there can happen so much. I think like "EchteDemut" ... such is not really a good idea.
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2/21/2024 9:39 am |
cut her slack....
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2/21/2024 3:47 pm |
Tattoos revealed….#1
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2/21/2024 3:47 pm |
#2
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2/21/2024 3:56 pm |
I was fully whole heartedly devoted….he was not towards me. He failed me. I am glad to say that I have learned from this experience and have become more vigilant to my own needs in a relationship. Especially a relationship in this lifestyle. I have been called a fake and just recently was told I’m not a submissive at all. I just want to say that I will show respect if respect is shown towards me. In my opinion a submissive does not have to submit to every Dom that shows up in her emails. Our submission is earned not given away so freely to just anyone.
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I would use it for my benefit in a way that would give me an automatic reason to punish you if certain situations arose that would fit the parameters of the situation. Basically if you get lemon's make lemonade. I try to look at a problem and make it the solution my child.
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1 post 2/26/2024 1:20 pm |
I'd accept her, but as Arkangel_Fire said it would be interesting to know why she was rejected.
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2/26/2024 1:42 pm |
Would all You make Your sub feel like she’s less than when she’s done nothing but be devoted even when she is being neglected? A tantrum lashed out on my part was why I was discarded. Basically ghosted for days for the last time, heartbroken for the last time, I threw a fit and said hurtful things because I was tired of being put on the back burner and forgotten about “FOR DAYS” on end. It messes with my mind and my heart….i know I’m worth something but not to be ignored. I put up with it for 6 years and know I’m worth more than how I was treated. Was i wrong to do so? Maybe. But time and time again I communicated to him how it made me feel. Time and time again there was a solution agreed upon. And time and time again for 6 years he failed on his part.
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2/28/2024 2:56 pm |
I think that you meant "accept", not "except".
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I say put a red circle with a line through it around it to show their failure, not yours. The reason all relationships usually fail is from one or both trying. It can be for almost any reason. But with only one trying to keep it going, it's doomed to fail. Good luck in the future...
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3/3/2024 8:10 am |
Maybe I just need to accept my fate and just keep dreaming of being with a “Dom” who accepts me as a whole, flaws and all. Give up on all this because no one can come close to what it is that is needed. So many ask what it is that is needed…if I disclose what it is then all I will receive is many who will pretend and eventually it will take me back to square one, trying again. There are questions and scenarios that will come up in conversations that will give me the answers I seek and if it doesn’t pan out from there I will discontinue my interest and move on. I cannot waiver from my preferences on what I seek, my life will eventually be in their hands.
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3/5/2024 5:57 am |
without reservations
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Easy way to not get into this situation: make tattoos not part of the 'game' as well as any other irreversible modifications.
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3/14/2024 6:00 am |
why not, life changes, if one can rethink ...
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That is definitely a better way to put it as thrown away sounded like you could have been the issue. When I first answered the poll I put depends as I was not sure what the situation was. It wasn't about you being marked by someone else. I was more wondering if you were ready to devote yourself to someone else mentally. After your explanation, I am quite sure most would willingly accept you or anyone else in this situation. Alex
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3/18/2024 7:48 pm |
NO THEY ARE A DISGUSTING USED FILTHY WHORE!!!!!
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3/19/2024 3:22 pm |
IRON HELPS US PLAY!
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of course l would tats can be changed or removed if need be! 
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IRON HELPS US PLAY!
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I've branded over tattoos and other markings, made them my own
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