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subontmale 54M  
11 posts
4/24/2024 2:42 am
fake or real


I've only recently set up this account, have bounced around looking for a dominant for years, but have always been nervous about meeting because most doms i talk with are not from my area, but are moving nearby soon or travel frequently. This sets off red flags for me and i keep flaking out because of trust issues,
Just started talking to someone i find really appealing, claims to be moving to a nearby city soon. They want me to send them money for the purchase of a sextoy for me to use to begin my training. Looking through comments on her photos and 1 person claims the photos are of someone else who is all over the internet, but I can't find the person they say is all over the internet. Tried checking their username on fetlife but the person using the name there is older, submissive and from a different race.
How can i determine if they are real or if it is just another scam?

subontmale 54M  
1 post
4/24/2024 2:44 am

i really need advice on this. I am tired of being a coward but don't want to be a fool


Boggles2001 61M  
405 posts
4/24/2024 4:23 am

Almost certainly a fake or scammer,anyone who asks you to buy stuff is scamming you…


Boggles2001 61M  
405 posts
4/24/2024 4:25 am

Press and hold the pic you think is a fake then tap search google for this pic,usually picks up most pics that are of porn stars etc


DuLiebstDasLeid 47M

4/24/2024 4:30 am

Come on, someone who wants you to send money to start your training cant be real ... use your brain a little


pzkw 63M  
1278 posts
4/24/2024 4:46 am

Anybody asking for money up front, sight unseen, is a scam. Alt seems to be populated by a lot of fakes & scams anymore.


sluttwouse 31F  
765 posts
4/24/2024 8:05 am

Hi, go and check out my friends. At least 97% of the women there are fakes. Everytime a woman emails me lately they want me to go to outside site or send them money. Everytime I ask them to prove themselves they go inactive or act like I am the fake lol. Fake ass wannabes lol.


Dave54321 61M
2715 posts
4/24/2024 1:41 pm

I know it's tempting to believe these things...
but anyone seeking money up front, when you haven't even met,
is almost certainly a scammer.

As has been said, do a search on the photo. It's highly likely you'll
find either it's a photo of a porn star, different stories, different towns, ect.


somthing4new 41F  
142 posts
4/24/2024 6:20 pm

If the person is NOT a paid member then they are fake!


rydermantel 69M
25234 posts
4/27/2024 1:35 pm

    Quoting DuLiebstDasLeid:
    Come on, someone who wants you to send money to start your training cant be real ... use your brain a little
I know. Money up front is ridiculous. They are not real.


rydermantel 69M
25234 posts
4/27/2024 2:39 pm

    Quoting somthing4new:
    If the person is NOT a paid member then they are fake!
There are both "paying members" and "non-paying members" allowed.


myDick4Dog 51M  
2 posts
5/2/2024 12:43 pm

Here's a list of things i find from profiles that are almost always a scammer.

I had two different people on here tell me they are moving near to my location in 48 hours.

If they describe themselves as being a "dominant mistress".

If they start their profile, "Am a... bla bla bla."

"I'm a strict Mistress but can also be kind..."

Also, look at how they write their profile name. You'll see several profile names created all at once that will have similar names, similar with which letters they capitalize and such.

Anyone who asks you to send them money online without meeting in real-life first is almost certainly a scammer. i've been asked to send money for a slave or training kit. i was asked to send money for them to travel to me, but they will never agree to a non-refundable ticket waiting for them to pick up at the airport. I've had people ask for money for some emergency, rent, car broke down, family member in the hospital. Seriously, who asks someone they met online for emergency money after only a few emails?



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