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When to tell him? When you have a past and you know it matters. When do you let your guy know about it? |
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Welcome to the blogs! To answer your question: it depends to WHAT it matters. I would make time to talk to him in private asap. Trust your gut feeling. and don't go further than you can. When you come to a fork in the road, take it. __Yogi Berra
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Everyone has a past. The important thing is if and what we learned from from it. Truth and patience are key.
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The sooner the better......if he is really into you it won't matter at all...... 
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Tell him when it needs to be said. Don't mislead him with not revealing what may be important. Better to find out early than to let thins drag out if they may be an issue. If you are concerned about it, et it off your chest. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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There can be no single correct answer to that. I tend to agree with Incognitomaster up here, trust your gut feeling, but tell him before he hears it from others first.
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You should always be up-front, from the start. 444
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if he offers to tell you about his to.why is it a womens who's the slut/whore and the guy's do the same thing and there a real stud
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Most women reveal their true natures, and usually soon rather than later, so just be honest. Seems that most women are just utterly incapable of honesty. 444
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@bimom, you really need to learn to spell!😝 But I agree completely. You're not the only one with a past. If he's strong enough you should be able to have a skeletons-in-the-closet amnesty. As for timing, I'd aim to make it one Saturday morning on a weekend you both had nothing else planned. It's going to take time for you both to absorb what the other has to say and a whole weekend is probably necessary. Good luck. Tell him about this too. Let us know how it goes.
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Are you sure it matters? Generally you should stick to the mantra of “Less history and more mystery”. Unless it’s something like you’re married or something like that. But if it’s just sexual past, then he probably doesn’t even want to know that, so why would you tell him and get him all thinking about it and stuff? Less history and more mystery.
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Unless you like killed someone.the rest doesn't matter.. Especially if it concerns your sexual, lifestyle past
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honesty is best policy always…best to clear all skeletons early on it also helps the weeding out process!
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Sooner the better
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