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Drdom2024 59M  
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5/10/2024 4:19 pm
The “Hi, I’m New” Gambit


We doms like to instruct subs, of course,<b> training </font></b>being one, if not the, most pleasurable aspect of new relationships for us. No wonder, then, when a supposed newbie alights on the site, we flock to the call of “I’m new. How do I do this?”

Con artists also know we can hardly resist helping a helpless bird, so one of the most prevalent ploys utilized here, as elsewhere, is what could also be called the Barbie Finale (because yes, it was even used near the climax of the recent Barbie film to get the Kens to help). But just take a moment to think it through, and you should see how utterly see-through it is.

Are there truly some red riding hood babes in the woods asking possibly big bad wolves for help? Yes, they might occasionally legitimately reach out amongst us, though their profiles tend to come and go as fast as tourists on a San Francisco street car. (That, or they are so inundated with the wanna-be-dated they shut the show down to regroup (regrope?)). But again, easy to see how this supports my point: how many legitimately gorgeous inexperienced subs-to-be know enough to get on a lifestyle site like this one, but know so little about the lifestyle that they think if they just show up, surely only the doms will come to their rescue, and it will be easy to spot these “real rescuers” when they arrive? Who would advise them to do this? Not this two thumbed ape.

Once doms take the bait, though - which is perhaps more akin to chum in the water in some parts (no offense to sharks) - they get hooked (is this why it’s called hooking?), and the standard reeling in begins, for the same reasons the doms got involved in the first place; they want to help.

It’s sad, really, and again this kind of manipulation for money does real damage to the legitimate community of caring, responsible members who can become jaded if routinely taken advantage of in unfair power shares.

And what dom worth the salt in his/her/their wounds is going to be willing to admit to being owned by a newbie sub? Right. Zero adjacent. And so it is also likely this happens more than is recorded or reported, which does nothing to help put a stop to it.


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