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Old profile here to make room for new one !! :) Note: I am also going over my interest list again to fix all the errors. Note: This profile was written while I had my DaddyDom slippers on. This is my mindset while in the Dominant role. Hello to you, the one reading my profile. This is to help in my search for my little one. I refer to "little one" because I'm a DaddyDom. That means that if you want an abusive Dom or a very severe Dom, then continue with your search. I won't keep you in the cellar, locked in a closet or beat you. It's just not my style. If you want to be loved and understood for who you are, then continue reading. If you object to cuddling, bubble baths, picinics, and movies w/ popcorn while sitting in my lap...then I'm not for you. I'm a nurturer and a Paternal figure. The only leather I own is in the form of Italian dress shoes! I'm not into whips and chains, but restraints of some type can always be integrated. I do enjoy being called "Daddy" or "Sir" and not "Master". I enjoy numerous activities and hope that you will too. Theatre, dining out, concerts, comedy clubs, and charity black tie events. I love anything to do with the outdoors except for hunting which I think is mean. I'm an articulate individual which arms me with sufficient expertise in scolding and lectures. Domestic Discipline, Punishment, and teaching lessons are a part of who I am. You will never be punished for doing something wrong unless I have taught you the proper way first. You can expect to be "raised" as my own and molded into what I think you should be. This does not mean that your individuality will be stripped or that you can't be you. It encompasses your behaviors and attitudes rather then your character. I believe firmly in the Psychological importance of this dynamic of Dom/sub and feel that the psychological aspects are even more important then the physical. For a living, I am a painter/sculptor/artist and I do fairly well for myself. I have a very nice home, a nice car, and a stable environment. A lot of my time is spent doing charity work because I believe in giving back to the community. My little one will also do charity work along my side which makes for good quality time. Romance is something that I can't live without. Picinics on the beach, a walk in the country, holding hands, and cuddling. I'm very open about the details of my little one's yearnings and cravings as I've experienced quite a bit within this realm. Open communication is what I thrive on in a relationship and you will either openly communicate or you will be taught how to openly communicate. The items checked off in my "interest list" are things that I enjoy, have experienced or want to experience or things that I am open to"....some of the things listed are practices that my previous girlfriends have enjoyed. The dynamics of this relationship are not based on one individual, but rather on two. Harmony and balance of needs and wants must be reached to have a happy and fulfilling relationship. Did I mention cuddling?  ***UPDATE*** It's amazing to me that I'm going to share this part of me with the many of you that will read my profile. Having my photo for you to see who I am frightens me inside, now that I'm sharing some of my deepest secrets with you. Life is too short and too complicated to keep it to myself. Yes, I consider myself very dominant in most areas of my life and it seems to be "acceptable" to be a DOM within the context of D/s. Apparently, it's not ok to have a Dom side and a Submissive side. I'm amazed at the number of closed minded individuals that I've met within this realm that tell me that I have to be one or the other, and the amount of submissive woman that tell me that they are not interested because I have a small submissive side. How can you acknowledge your own inner desires and yearnings while admonishing someone else for theirs? I realize that I have "baggage" as they say. An abusive childhood has turned me into a BIG TEDDY BEAR that loves to nurture, protect, guide and cuddle. I've become a dominant because those in charge while growing up didn't handle their roles in a dignified manner, they didn't know how to nurture, protect and guide. Here's the big shocker! As a result, I unfortunately acquired the fetish known as infantilism. It's listed here as a fetish and there are other people that entertain the fetish for a multitude of reasons. I try to put a percentage on how dominant I am verses how submissive I am and so far I would say that I'm about 90% Dom and the rest submissive. I don't fantasize about being beaten, chained, or degraded....My submissive side comes out when I'm stressed or distressed. I fantasize about being treated like a baby! Put into a diaper and cuddled close to someone while they run their fingers through my hair. It's fairly simple......I've experienced it only a few times since I've been a DomDaddy for nearly 16 years. I'm usually the one running my fingers through someone's hair while they are cuddled in my lap. I actually only shared this notion with a select few people because I've taken so many negative comments from within this community about that subject. Too many people just don't understand it. A quick synopsis of it is that the person finds comfort returning to a time when they remember being cared for and nurtured and loved unconditionally. I decided to reveal this part of me because it's just that..........a part of me. I can't get rid of it...I've been to the pro's and I've been told that it's mapped into my head. So, I should find a partner that is accepting and understanding. I thought it only fair to share this with those of you that might consider writing me. I've received quite a few letters and thank you for them, but I'm not being fair by only sharing part of me. My Ideal Person: I'm looking for a good hearted girl. Your lean towards submissive or slave is not as important as your lean towards having a Paternal figure rather then a "whips and chains" Dom. Whether you feel yourself as a submissive or a slave, you will be open to giving yourself and all of your heart to your Dom. I want you to want me to raise you as I see fit. You should enjoy a healthy combination of Discipline, Punishment, and nurturing. You should enjoy being taken care of when you are good and stood in the corner or spanked when you are bad. I'm a creative type and that goes along with coming up with creative punishments...to keep you on your toes and well behaved. You should have good morals and values, if you don't...then you will be taught. You will have many freedoms unless they are revoked for punishment. My little one will enjoy being dressed in an evening gown as well as a t-shirt and jeans, depending on the situation. You will have hobbies and interests of your own, you will be your own person. You should also have your family values in place...as I would like to have a family and one day. This is one of those Capitalized statements, "I would like to have !!!" If you have a or already, don't let that disrupt your willingness to write me. Note: When we communicate, I will expect pictures that are G-rated. I appreciate a pretty smile and I already know what the female body looks like. I'm more interested in the person. If you send me a dirty picture, you can expect a spanking if we ever meet. I will send you a picture for every one that you send me. Eventually, I will also require a phone call. I'm looking for my little one to share the world with. It's no fun going on a journey by yourself. Big Hugs |
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