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What do you get when you Cross ....1950's values with a Man kinkier then a bobby pin.... Old fashioned is how I'm often referred. I believe in opening doors, offering my coat when she's cold, lighting cigarettes, and making it a point that she orders first when dining out. All these ideas revolve around my old fashioned image of what a man should be. I believe that there is absolutely nothing wrong or harmful about having set roles in the house, should the two involved be in agreement with each other. I believe it was the Extremists among the feminist movement that helped to crumble family structure in America. Any relationship is built on love and compromise, but I believe there are situations where the head of the house must stand up and make decisions on what he thinks is best for the entire family unit. ( might catch some slack from my readers, but I also believe in outdoor vs. indoor chores and they are gender based. (ducking from the incoming objects.) Many people confuse this belief with Chauvinism, but it's miles apart. Instance: A woman can mow the yard as good or even better then a man...but, I believe woman are soft petals and shouldn't have to be out there doing that type of work. By all means, if she expressed an interest in mowing the yard...I would get her a pair of overalls and a John Deere!!! I enjoy helping in the kitchen because I enjoy cooking...but, should I not have time to cook, I would expect my other half to instinctively provide the nurturing care of a woman by knowing that I would be getting hungry. A meal cooked by another is a very tender ritual and I enjoy it immensely. I'll help with the Laundry, but I'm not responsible for the outcome....(looking at all the shrunken dress shirts in the closet). Titles don't make a difference..all of them seem to share some of the guidelines of HOH and DD relationships. One more or less extreme then the other. I firmly believe in being in charge of the house and holding the line. I often think and I'm told by others that I have a 1950's mentality at times..I'm very old fashioned and enjoy the dynamics of Head of Household. To provide guidance, support, and motivation is another responsibility of the HOH. Another responsibility is to dole out appropriate punishments and discipline to make sure she stays in line and does her best to be obedient. It's a very satisfying relationship when there are set roles and those roles are both agreed upon by the two in the relationship. What do you get when you cross what's mentioned above with a very open Daddy figure that enjoys the dynamics Age play. I have a wide range of experience since I've been molding myself into the Daddy figure that I am today. My experience includes many, but listed are a few of my favorites; power exchange, age play, diapers, spanking, humiliation, role-playing, chastity device, and spanking ( I listed this one twice for emphasis) I do Identify as a Daddy within the realm of D/s or DD... I enjoy nurturing, guiding, and cuddling. I enjoy providing structure and values that will be abided by with swift punishment coming for those that dont abide. I believe in over the knee spankings, hairbrush spankings, corner time, early to bed, and grounding. The spankings and the subject of spankings will be at the forefront of daily ritual. I believe a well reddened bottom keeps you on your toes and pleasantly obedient. Maintenance spankings can also be useful when someone decides that they can't follow directions. Over the knee bare bottom spankings given to her when she misbehaves, and then treated like the naughty girl she was...stood in the corner to think about why she is there. Cuddling and discussion are generally after corner time. Ok..only those not prone to fainting should read beyond this part...or those without an open mind ( I cant believe that I have to say that on Alt of all places... very humorous) The discussion of age play and diapers. I have a high level of experience on this subject for a reason. As the head of the household, I deem what is to be done...and at times without consultation or discussion. There are no arguments to be made because the decisions are very final. Should I decide that she needs reinforcement, punishment, or just a control device....then I have the authority to put her little hiney in a diaper. I shouldn't have to explain myself or rationalize my decisions. I would hope that at this point in the relationship, we would have a good deal of trust and understanding of one another. To understand you have chosen to give your submissiveness to Daddy and accepted the role of his baby girl. Out of that submissiveness, a underlying desire to do what best pleasures the person you gave it to. Even with all the words in my mind, it's still difficult to explain. humph! Wrapped up in a nut shell.... This Daddy thinks putting a diaper on that hiney is awfully damn cute! Very submissive! and Exquisitely Controlling. I've put a naughty girl or two back into diapers to remind them of their place. It's very hard to not to be submissive when having to do your chores wearing a diaper. Ok, how many fainted? How many of you have driven the spike of your high heel shoe into the monitor? There are many explorations to be had and I'm looking forward to every one of them. I'll write more on this later....oh, and about spanking.. Did I mention that the only thing I like more then spanking is ... breathing! So, you can expect some more elaboration on that one in the future. For those that are waiting for part two of FEEDING THE DUCKS...it's coming soon. |
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Smiles, it's good to see you writing again Sir. I have no qualms about a man ordering for me, holding the door, or helping me into my coat. I am a feminist, this does not diminish my personal power or demean me. These are acts of civility. It is how we get along and show our respect for one another. He opens my car door, I lean over and open his from my seat. Relationships thrive on small acts of thoughtfulness. I do love to mow the lawn though. It's a zen act that gives me a place of mindful emptiness. And you of all people must know how deeply satisfying waging war against weeds can be. Where else in your life can you rend, tear, and destroy? And then look back to see a job well done? Although I will leave the icky trash and bug smooshing to you. I prefer to keep spankings in the erotic realm. I don't like the idea of "punishment" or "maintenance" spankings. As a little girl I find them damaging to my psyche. I am not a brat. I don't enjoy being told I'm a "bad girl". I strive to make my Daddy happy, it literally makes me sick to my stomach to know that I have displeased him. If I have misbehaved, then I do expect there to be consequences. I don't do well with humiliation and degradation. You of all people, with your background, should understand my history. Daddy/daughter provides a safe structured environment. A Daddydom, that I used to bottom to, commented that I was a very serious little girl. It takes a great deal of trust on my part to allow myself to be vulnerable. Having set rules and known consequences allows me to thrive. D/d is akin to a M/s relationship, but unlike a M/s relationship, there is a flexibility that gives me a certain freedom of action. Daddy and I are mutual partners, but it doesn't make me equal to Daddy even though I am a valued contributor to the relationship. As much as Daddy takes care of me, I am responsible for him. Unlike a slave, I am given the leniency of putting my patent maryjane to his backside if I feel it is in his best interest such as matters of health. Daddy sometimes just does not listen. Taps her foot. And in some ways Daddy/daughter is a much deeper more intense emotional connection. Daddy is the polaris of my life. He is the center of my world. At the heart of it you are responsible for the emotional well-being of a little girl. Insert Dylan here. When a Daddy ends the relationship, it isn't just a simple matter of releasing her. It's a small child sitting at the window waiting. It's that devastating. Smiles, I look forward to reading your next story.
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All very good points. Just to clarify, I'm not bashing feminism, just the extremists. I also don't believe in humiliation for the sake of it...but, was referring to the fact that it may be humiliating to some to stand in the corner with a red bottom, or be sent to bed early or grounded like a naughty girl. Thank you for remembering my history and yes, I'm more protective of my baby girl's emotional and psychological well being above all else. Just because Daddy writes it up there, doesn't make it set in stone. Thank you for the wonderfully thought out note. I'm happy to hear that you are looking forward to the next story.
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8/30/2008 6:20 pm |
I am starting to believe in a man who knows how to have manners again, thank you for that. I do have to say who ever becomes your little girl will be one lucky girl. I think I'm jaded but that's me...even thought friends of mine have said otherwise. I hope you enjoy your weekend and I am also waiting for the next installment of the feeding the duckies *smiles and skips off to kick a soccer ball for my pup* I know I just can't stay away for some reason....
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9/4/2008 8:02 am |
You are quit an interesting man, and I use the term "Man" because I believe everything I have read so far proves you are a Man and not just a "Male" you are also a Gentleman and the world could use so many more. How honored any woman would be to have you as there DomDaddy you display all the quality's much needed and wanted in this world, but quality's long forgotten. Thank you for restoring my faith in the "Men" of this world I know now there are still some out there. I look forward to reading so much more.......
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9/4/2008 8:09 am |
Wondering why can't we all live in a world where every woman could have a "Man" like you to take care of her and be her Knight in Shinning Armor?
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