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abletemptress 54F  
262 posts
9/19/2011 11:25 am

Last Read:
9/30/2011 9:43 am

Get educated


Look... I'm not going to do anything with anyone who has no experience in certain things that I am looking for. This lifestyle is all about SAFE SANE and CONSENTUAL.

Find websites to learn about rope rigging, knotty kind of fun, and about the BDSM lifestyle in general. SAFETY always comes first. If you need links to various places to learn things if I have them I will share them with you.

Please be responsible and educated on certain topics if you wish to have anything to do with me.

Knotty fun and rope rigging are 2 things that you MUST understand the dangers and the psychological aspects of. You cannot just say let's do this if you are not at least educated.

Some people..... sheesh... really? Did you ever stop to think that there is a reason many of fantasies have not been made into reality?
Get a brain cell or 2 and stop and think about it. Seriously.

abletemptress 54F  
106 posts
9/19/2011 12:20 pm

    Quoting  :

Seems many MEN in particular with me don't bother to fully read my profile and are just thinking with that thing called a penis cuz all they want is a quick fuck.

I "play" safely. I won't take any unnecessary risks. I know what I want and how I want it. I'm not the stereo-typical individual that has no clue. If people would just talk to me.. they would know this. I don't mince words and yes, of course, I am very blunt to the point of being rude on many occasions.

There is a psychology behind all that we are into and like and want to try. And yes, there are some things that are just meant to stay a fantasy for whatever reason.

I just people would stop and think for a change before opening their mouths or putting fingers on the keyboard.


Captkrispy 60M
1 post
9/26/2011 7:45 am

I would love to learn. Any help you could give me would be appreciated. Drop me a line and leave me some links to these sights you talked about. Thanks for your help.



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