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Blogs > cuzisaid > Swine & Pearls exist even here

cuzisaid 53F  
5548 posts
9/30/2018 3:39 pm
Back To School: Safety&Education Series-2018© Who me? What? Where?

Is there really ever a BAD time to refresh and expand your mind and kink knowledge?

I don't believe so.

Today's Safety & Education tip to close out September and my brief input via VLAD'S safety posts :

Places to go and people to see AKA 'WHERE can I find information about different kinks, d/s, impact play or various types, bondage etc'?

While I would always recommend going to real time local dungeon groups to learn "hands on" when possible, for many that isn't something that they can or want to do for any variety of reasons.

There are quite a few great places to go to find books, manual and videos right from the comfort of your home. This is education not porn but at the same time, some porn sites do advertising with stores that offer all of the above both to purchase or just to view.

Your local library is as hip as you are nowadays, be it paper or e-book. I just checked mine and found more than 10 different categories where books/manuals were available.

DO NOT look under BDSM which is a catch all term just like "sports" is, pick specifics like "bondage' or Rope(will be very broad)

Kink specific websites such as eXtreme restraints and kinky d0t com all have universities with how-to videos you can watch outside of their pay/purchase stuff.

https://www.xruniversity.com
is the how to for eXtremerestraints

kink d0t com
More entertainment than education but there is a good mix and..... (they are looking for writers all you story tellers and creative types)

kinky d0t com
has damn funny "holiday cooking" tutorials as well as a smattering of how-to's. As a heads up, you have to search and pay attention(shouldn't that be a given)....scroll to the bottom of the main page and click BEHIND KINK or try to find TUTORIALS in the header.

The truth and tips are out there. We need only look
Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black.
~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~
cuzisaid 53F  
14987 posts
9/30/2018 3:42 pm

 I cant stress it enough....even if you arent going to use anything you learn R/T, expanding your knowledge using multiple sources is still a great use of otherwise wasted online time.
Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black.
~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~


drmgirl622 68F  
26123 posts
9/30/2018 4:55 pm

 thanks for the website tips


aHedonist 52M
7510 posts
10/1/2018 3:15 am

 I have a friend who is like this walking talking encyclopedia of kink, perversity and depravity.
Who needs books when I have you?


jenny14 75T  
90351 posts
10/1/2018 11:33 am

 cuzi

Thank you for a great reminder and suggestions
A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


cuzisaid 53F  
14987 posts
10/6/2018 9:50 pm

 Thank you, sweetie. Silly alt turned them into 'alt.com' from the originally posted links so I had to go back and just list the sites on 2 of the 3. Hopefully it is still understandable.
Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black.
~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~


cuzisaid 53F  
14987 posts
10/6/2018 9:52 pm
    Quoting  :
While that's the only song by Tavares that I know, that is ok I guess since there isn't a song on the soundtrack that I dont know and love.
Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black.
~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~


cuzisaid 53F  
14987 posts
10/6/2018 10:00 pm
    Quoting  :
Recall is remembrance, yes, but today is tomorrows yesterday so it all works out in the end. and the middle too now that I think 'pon it.

Mindless self indulgence? The true explanation of human nature. We all indulge often, I don't think its a good thing if it becomes a sole purpose though or if it it supersedes personal responsibility or drowns out a common good. Thats just me.

Ive been on a tightly focused intolerance of freedom kick this past week. Human beings aren't high on my list of LIKES.

Wait! What redheads? Now Im confused. Im not around enough to keep up and/or decipher. Please include maps, a syllabus or at least a Charmin Mr Whipple approved and autographed cardboard tube cypher key in future correspondence.
Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black.
~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~


cuzisaid 53F  
14987 posts
10/6/2018 10:01 pm
    Quoting jenny14:
    cuzi

    Thank you for a great reminder and suggestions
Thank YOU for reading
Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black.
~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~


cuzisaid 53F  
14987 posts
10/6/2018 10:04 pm
    Quoting aHedonist:
    I have a friend who is like this walking talking encyclopedia of kink, perversity and depravity.
    Who needs books when I have you?
I have forgotten so much due to non use that I needed the links myself after commenting on your "why are you here" stuff a few months back.

Im so rusty A magnet would run. so I figured maybe others would like refreshers of at least links too
Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black.
~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~


cuzisaid 53F  
14987 posts
10/6/2018 10:06 pm
    Quoting  :
Yeah there are some things that are better...we'll say 'explored and developed' hands on but those other string em up and tie em backwards things...? maybe not so much so seeing and reading aint a bad way to start
Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black.
~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~



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