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Glancing gratitude See post in comment section “If the past never helped you, why would you ever take it into the future with you?” ― Shannon L. Alder Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character. At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached. May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black. ~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~ |
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I wonder sometimes why it is so very hard to let the past go. I don't think anyone disputes the importance of the people and situations of our past that made us who we are today, the family and friends, enemies and choices alike. What though, I frequently wonder, makes us so unwilling or at least what makes it so damn hard to let go of those less than ideal memories that make us feel bad and we WANT to forget. Fear? Shame? Remorse? Guilt? Time is needed for us to resolve and accept things be it weeks or years, so once time has passed, why are there always a few things,that we wont let go of or we hold onto so tightly they cant possibly let go of us. Logically, I know that if I am looking over my shoulder at whats behind me there's no way I can accurately see where I am heading and yet, there's those things that I peek back at over and over again. These aren't the logical ones. These are the feeling driven snippets that linger around the edges that you think you''ve buried. Well, I think of them as dead and buried anyway. Not that I believe myself. I am very thankful that I have more good memories than bad and that I can leave things in the past if they have a better life there than they would with me now, but what I am most grateful for is that I have had the chances and decisions and people and failures that leave little pieces that Ive been able to carry with me. Lessons learned or love that lingered. “If the past never helped you, why would you ever take it into the future with you?” ― Shannon L. Alder Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character. At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached. May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black. ~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~
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cuzi Perhaps a psychologist could answer your question? I too, like you, am thankful for more good than bad memories.... A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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What's behind us has shaped our future...….
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I have 4 things that haunt me - serious moral compromise stuff but given the same choices today I'd probably land on the same side of the equation in 3 of them. Whichever way I'd have had a bad taste in my mouth *shrugs* Life is a bitch sometimes. Aside from that I've got it pretty much all squared away. So fundamentally I have happy memories and lessons learned, and I don't lose sleep over much. I think thats always been a big part of my decision making process... make the hard call and keep a clean conscience so i can get on with siesta unimpeded by bad juju. Sometimes I can take a while to process but once I have.... I let stuff go. And I've learnt how to not own other peoples choices.... because keeping my own shit sorted is a full time job.
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This moment which is already gone as I type this is the only moment to your future , Enjoy your moments and you will enjoy the future ,however the future does not matter , enjoy your moments . (that's the path you seek) MM/~
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“You realize that our mistrust of the future makes it hard to give up the past.”
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cuzi Perhaps a psychologist could answer your question? I too, like you, am thankful for more good than bad memories.... Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character. At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached. May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black. ~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~
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That is certainly true enough. It should be a known building block of who we are, not a stumbling block(hopefully) and place to reflect not reside. Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character. At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached. May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black. ~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~
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What's behind us has shaped our future...…. Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character. At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached. May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black. ~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~
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I have 4 things that haunt me - serious moral compromise stuff but given the same choices today I'd probably land on the same side of the equation in 3 of them. Whichever way I'd have had a bad taste in my mouth *shrugs* Life is a bitch sometimes. Aside from that I've got it pretty much all squared away. So fundamentally I have happy memories and lessons learned, and I don't lose sleep over much. I think thats always been a big part of my decision making process... make the hard call and keep a clean conscience so i can get on with siesta unimpeded by bad juju. Sometimes I can take a while to process but once I have.... I let stuff go. And I've learnt how to not own other peoples choices.... because keeping my own shit sorted is a full time job. Its not the big things I was thinking of so much as its these stupid little ones that pop in out of nowhere that I know others don't even remember( I ask when it gets to be much) and still I cant let them go. Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character. At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached. May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black. ~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~
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This moment which is already gone as I type this is the only moment to your future , Enjoy your moments and you will enjoy the future ,however the future does not matter , enjoy your moments . (that's the path you seek) MM/~ Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character. At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached. May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black. ~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~
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“You realize that our mistrust of the future makes it hard to give up the past.” Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character. At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached. May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black. ~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~
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*chuckles* You are always such a funny clever boy with your kickback comments. 42 is the answer and I was patting myself on the back for NOT saying that the question was the answer! lol NO stinky weed for me, Im a skunk free zone kind of girl, but the rest, lol I can dig it. I am all into the hermeneutically cuzi kinda style now. It ties in beautifully with my love of Mazlow's Hierarchy of Needs religion. Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character. At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached. May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black. ~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~
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