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Blogs > cuzisaid > Swine & Pearls exist even here

cuzisaid 53F  
5551 posts
8/29/2006 8:12 pm
A great post to think about

Even if you don't answer it online (gasp how dare you not support such a fabulous post) everyone should read and think about bbwsub21's question de jour [post 177584].

I answered it even though it meant admitting things I pretend I don't do, but ya know what...I feel a whole lot better admitting it to myself...maybe now that I've put it into words for me to see and hear instead of just hide...maybe I can do something about it and quit wrecking things before they even begin.

It's a start!!!!
Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black.
~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~
bbwsub21 40F

8/30/2006 4:17 am

 Thank you darling for posting a shout out to it

But more importantly, thank you for answering and facing up to the issues at hand. My main intent is to help others with it, and I'm glad that you decided to use it that way. Some, when they're not ready to fix it, will, invariably, become angry and beligerent for it even being implied that they have an issue at all (everyone has had it from time to time!) and maybe even internalise it and make it worse. Thank you for not doing so.

Contact me any time you would like... for whatever reason.

xoxo
Jenny


cuzisaid 53F  
14988 posts
8/31/2006 6:57 pm
    Quoting  :
Thank you angelboy!
Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black.
~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~


cuzisaid 53F  
14988 posts
8/31/2006 7:02 pm
    Quoting bbwsub21:
    Thank you darling for posting a shout out to it

    But more importantly, thank you for answering and facing up to the issues at hand. My main intent is to help others with it, and I'm glad that you decided to use it that way. Some, when they're not ready to fix it, will, invariably, become angry and beligerent for it even being implied that they have an issue at all (everyone has had it from time to time!) and maybe even internalise it and make it worse. Thank you for not doing so.

    Contact me any time you would like... for whatever reason.

    xoxo
    Jenny
Oh hon....you are so very welcome. That is a subject that is very near and dear to my heart.

Sometimes I beat myself up with the best of 'em and other times I'm queen of the galaxy. I guess we all do that and I guess we all have hesitations. I personally do not like to fool myself(for too long anyway) or others, nor do I like others to do it to me, so to me, introspection is a great thing for both heart and soul.

Every topic sounds different coming from a different person and I really enjoyed your take on it jenny and your bravery in even bringing it up without a chip on your shoulder or someone to bash.
Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black.
~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~



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