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Discussing our Hotwife Marriage Our marriage is one like some others out there, it is a hotwife marriage or as we like to think of it, a modified cuckold arrangement. For us, this means we both prefer our sex life to revolve around my (the wife's) sexual needs, which for the most part means variety in partner's, and sometimes the exclusion of my husband from participating.. This is not something that is on my mind 24/7, for the most part In addition to variety in male lovers, I also find i prefer well hung lovers. My husband is of no more than average size in length and girth, so well hung to me means a minimum of 7 inches and thick. Both my husband and I believe I am built to accommodate much larger cocks than my husband's, and nothing turns him on more than to see me choose a bigger cock over his own, and really enjoy myself with it. He is not always present, for many reasons ... sometimes an opportunity may arise and he is not there, or for an initial meeting with a new lover, I may prefer privacy. But there are no secrets ... whatever is happening, my husband knows about it and to him, knowing that I am being fucked by a bigger, better cock is just as powerful as being there and watching it happen. But in the end, this is about strengthening and deepening our bond, so one-on-one meetings with lovers do not usual exceed one or two visits before hubby is right there with us. No matter what I am doing, my husband is always in my thoughts. When he is not present, those thoughts might include the excitement of knowing I am cuckolding my husband, how proud he would be of my ease at taking a bigger cock, what a naughty wife I am for sneaking out alone, and so on. But he in in my thoughts  There is nothing quite like looking into my husband's eyes as I am impaled on a superior cock and under the control of another man. That is my deepest and most passionate desire, involving both the dominant hung lover and my sub husband watching. So if you are the type of man that only wants me alone, then you will not last very long in my sexual life. Sadly, more men than not have gone this route, as they thought they could handle being the "other man" but in the end, couldn't. Usually the person we are looking to include is a well hung, sexually dominant, single man (read my other blog to see what I consider dominant). The men who last longer than one romp with me are those who are not camera shy and those who actually enjoy having my husband there for the same reasons I like him to be present. An alternative fantasy includes single bisexual females in various scenarios, such as my husband and I double teaming her, or my even allowing my husband to perform for me with her. While this is more of a rarity and a "treat" for my husband, I also find it is necessary for me to maintain a balanced and well-rounded view of my husband. He is not a "sissy" nor do I ever want him to be. Seeing that he can still dominate someone else in the bedroom makes it more natural for me to dominate him. This is part of why I say we are a "modified cuckold couple" because most do not allow the husband to interact with other females as we sometimes do. I also find it is therapeutic and beneficial for me to be cuckolded myself, by allowing my husband to be the dominant one in that scenario. Eventually, I could see possibly including that special dominant woman for us both. I do also enjoy satisfying my own bisexual needs, but am VERY VERY selective about the person, and the situation. With the right woman, I definitely enjoy pleasing her orally, and also strapping it on with her. I have been told when I strap it on and fuck another woman, I fuck better and more naturally than some men, with just the right amount of power and aggression, but not too much. As for submissive men, I am not in much need of them. I have my cuckolded husband to submit to me, and any other men being included would have the firepower (cock size) to be the dominant lovers I need. Perhaps a submissive bisexual man would fit in well with us at some point, but for now, the focus is those well-hung, dominant lovers who turn me on so much. Couples are great for friendship with us, and if they themselves are in a Hotwife/Cuckold marriage, or a modified one like we are, all the better. It's fun to have people just to talk about this stuff with! We have definitely considered including a hot bisexual cuckold couple in our adventures, and are still open to finding hot bisexual couples for this purpose, but again: not the main focus. We also are interested in couples where the husband is well hung and dominant, with a submissive wife, as there is definitely an overlap with our favorite scenario.  |
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8/31/2006 10:45 am |
No, I don't need to sneak around. My husband is supportive and excited at the thought of me being "on the prowl". I don't have to hide anything ... he actually enjoys and gets off on hearing about it! As for anyone looking down on you, that's life. That's their small mind controlling their thoughts, when a part of them is probably secretly intrigued and inspired by your being brave enough to be the sub. Being submissive takes WAY more strength than being dominant, though on the surface it would seem the opposite. I'm sure no matter how much you feel someone is looking down on you, your little dick is still hard, so listen to your heart and your body and you'll know what's right for YOU and not anyone else xoxo hotwife
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5/9/2008 9:41 am |
I've been lucky enough to have been with a cuckhold couple before.. It ended out with a good friendship aswell as some of the most hot sex I've ever had.. by having it ongoing we became very trusting to eachother and often her and i would spend the night at my place alone, other times he would be around watching which was a big turn on for him.. he actually told having her here when he was home knowing that we most likely were having sex all night long was such an intense feeling for him... Well what i wanted to say was, after reading you blog I so feel what your saying and I'm very happy for you two. most people live without following their passion..
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great post
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