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softrayne 56F
1825 posts
5/6/2021 2:32 pm

Last Read:
7/23/2021 6:04 pm

Blog Challenge-Tell Me Something Good


*happyandempoweredrayne*

softrayne 56F
3088 posts
5/6/2021 2:34 pm

So I was chatting with a friend today, as you do. And we started talking about how as Dom he is always observing his sub, and I mentioned that I can find scrutiny unnerving because I feel measured, judged and found wanting-even if it’s all in MY mind. I mentioned I was going to blog about it, and he insisted that I focus on the positive.

So in the spirit of that, I ask all you wonderful friends, bloggers and commentors-Tell Me Something Good.

I think you are all awesome and talented and smart. Blog about it, or post it here. What’s fabulous about you? Is it your gorgeous smile? Your tender heart? Ya got great legs? Are you a good friend? Are you growing in your Dominance or submission? Do you snort when you laugh? Are you a great cook? A good listener?

We all tend to focus on the stuff we wish we could change, let’s celebrate the things we never would!!


softrayne 56F
3088 posts
5/6/2021 2:39 pm

I have a smile that will light up a room. And a soft secret one that is reserved just for Him. Perfect teeth. I actually do snort when I laugh. I love puppies and horses. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I have lovely manners, and I'm charming as all get out. A good friend. I throw fabulous parties.


DancingDom 74M
22590 posts
5/6/2021 2:49 pm

I have my health, I am overall a pretty happy and congenial person. I do try to be helpful to others. I am loyal to my friends. I a just an ordinary average guy. Nothing wrong with that.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


softrayne replies on 5/6/2021 2:59 pm:
I think being happy, congenial and helpful is extraordinary DD!! You are all those things and more!!

Yern2lic 67M
1345 posts
5/6/2021 2:51 pm

You are obviously the poster child for “Good &Classy”!!


softrayne replies on 5/6/2021 3:00 pm:
Thank you Yern, that is kind of you to say. Thank you for stopping in and commenting, but I want to hear what makes YOU fabulous!!

Heatseeker696 74M  
128 posts
5/6/2021 3:53 pm

I have never been called fabulous (been called a lot of things that start with F )
Just trying to be loyal to friends , help others when i can ,and enjoy life, just like Dancing Dom...it is the only way to get through life


softrayne replies on 5/6/2021 6:27 pm:
I think your fabulous. Possessing all those qualities just makes you more so!

manni_pr 52T
2609 posts
5/6/2021 4:05 pm

Well, I'll start by saying this is a mighty fine post, Rayne. This might actually be the most positive post I have seen in this site. Just like DacingDom, I'm happy I have my health, and I'm happy to have a job and a few good friends. I agree, we tend to delve in the negs but it is as good a day as ever to celebrate our good fortunes


softrayne replies on 5/6/2021 4:18 pm:
and don't forget your beautiful and kind!!!

drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
5/6/2021 4:19 pm

I'm a very loyal friend, I look good in the color purple, I always carry a beer koozie in my bag for you and me ......


softrayne replies on 5/6/2021 6:09 pm:
and your a beauty, with a warm heart, who always has something positive to say. You're an inspiration to me as submissive as well. And you in purple? ME-OW!!!

Plzrmeister 67M  
10455 posts
5/6/2021 4:21 pm

You make the best cheesecake on the face of the Earth, right?[?COLOR]

Indeed I do. It makes world renowned chefs weep with envy.

Make Women Female Again


softrayne replies on 5/6/2021 6:11 pm:
Sounds delicious Plzr, do you have a secret ingredient that you use? And your an intelligent man with a wonderful sense of humour!

1uncommondom 77M

5/6/2021 4:39 pm

The difference between
a flower and a weed is
judgement . .
If you think of yourself a
weed and I think you are
a flower . . which perspective
nurtures growth . . Neither
mine or yours, but the chemistry
of how we grow our garden.


alwaysassertive 64M

5/6/2021 5:16 pm

I've been a lot of things, but I've never been a lier. I don't fuck people over and I don't rat people out. I've been a confidant for a lot of people because. I don't talk about what's discussed in private.

I can be quick to forgive someone that's talked against me or who has behaved badly towards me, but there is a
limited number of times..sometimes 2...sometimes...more.

I'm trained to analyzing data and look for patterns in processes and people.

I find it easier to trust someone that has more than one dog. if they don't like dogs. I probably won't like them. A horse count's for a lot too.

I prefer to do all the cooking, but im flexible.
I prefer a motorcycle over a car. In a car you're a spectator. On a motorcycle you're a part of what's going on around you.


softrayne replies on 5/7/2021 6:27 pm:
Hello assertive, thank you for popping in and commenting. Your wise counsel is always welcome here. I can tell from this and other posts you've made that your an honorable man-who cooks!! WOOHOO!!

Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
5/6/2021 5:38 pm

Well my list of attributes would be pretty much the same as DancingDoms.
I'm fairly healthy, but I've reached that stage in life where on my last company
medical when testing hearing & lung function. They said they were normal,
then they add those three little words you don't want to hear, "for your age."
Ah well, such is life.
I think I am a good friend, loyal & helpful. I believe I am normally patient &
tolarant & try to see the good in people.

On your comment on being judged & found wanting. In any situation we have
to see the bigger picture & understand where we are, so we can improve.
Any Dom who's any good isn't trying to tear you down or put you down,
he wants to build you up, for you to be the best you, you can be.
But I suspect you know that really anyway.


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4163 posts
5/6/2021 7:12 pm

I’m very artistic creative person thru creative writing landscaping music seX l am truthful honest open openminded comical hard worker l grow more everyday into my DOMness & sometimes it’s projected in vanilla world l don’t play games l call iT as l see iT tell iT like iT is & keep iT real I’m accountable responsible person good Catholic boy w lil bad boy in me I’m no saint but I’m good guy good person good man have my health & a higher power belief foundation l luv sports computer board games outdoors!


softrayne 56F
3088 posts
5/6/2021 7:26 pm

You guys are KILLING it!!! Keep 'em coming!!!


JohnnyLightning 65M  
9672 posts
5/6/2021 8:27 pm

I have my health despite having a Heath bar tonight. I'm a very loyal friend.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


softrayne replies on 5/7/2021 6:22 pm:
Yummm, Heath bars are so delicious!! You are a good friend indeed JL *smiles*

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
5/6/2021 10:37 pm

rayne

This is a great suggestion

I have done it here
:

Blog Challenge

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


softrayne replies on 5/7/2021 6:20 pm:
Hi jen, thanks for taking the ball and running with it. We could all use some reminding about all the wonderful characteristics we already possess.

ADOMISs_Colleen 46F  
169 posts
5/6/2021 11:24 pm

I love to make people smile and be happy,
even if I feel hurt or broken,
by making them happy
I can see a smile, in return, I smile.

happily collared, branded la kajira of MASTER ADOMIS4U2


softrayne replies on 5/7/2021 6:18 pm:
Hello dear colleen, I like to think a smile you give to someone else is actually a gift for yourself, because truly, who does not smile back when graced with one of your beautiful smiles? Take care.

palloncina 40F
31 posts
7/23/2021 5:42 pm

My first thought is that your must have a very good Dom friend!

Good for him for telling you to see the positive!

And good for you for following through and being positive!!


softrayne replies on 7/23/2021 6:06 pm:
Hello pallo, thank you for stopping in and saying hello Yesm he is lovely, and maybe more than friend-we shall see. You have legs to DIE FOR!!!


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