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softrayne 56F
1826 posts
8/7/2022 9:18 am

Last Read:
8/17/2022 8:55 am

Coffee Date Conclusions


*mehrayne*

softrayne 56F
3088 posts
8/7/2022 9:18 am

That would be a nope.


drmgirl622 68F  
26044 posts
8/7/2022 9:24 am

Hey, at least you gave it a try.......it's just like fishing, actually


softrayne replies on 8/8/2022 8:06 am:
*giggles* yeah, this one was a catch and release!

hardtop4you 65M

8/7/2022 9:26 am

The worst is after playing
schedule tag for six months
and you know the instant
they say hi, I'm so in so.


sugen0 65M
68 posts
8/7/2022 9:44 am

mmmm , it is not good


softrayne replies on 8/8/2022 8:07 am:
Hello sugen, thank you for commenting. Better to find out sooner rather than later though.

imcre8ive 64M

8/7/2022 10:19 am

me think not. shake's head ah last drop


ExNameForUse 53F
5735 posts
8/7/2022 10:28 am

Better to find that out sooner, rather than later, Rayne... and waste time, energy, and hopes on someone who is not for you...


softrayne replies on 8/9/2022 6:13 pm:
So very true my dear. Luckily I was not as invested with this one as the previous, so it was fine-no recoup time needed *L*

Crankytoyou 71M
711 posts
8/7/2022 12:52 pm

Thinking 5 or 6 possible ways to mess up coffee. Slurping?


softrayne replies on 8/9/2022 6:15 pm:
That's one possibility. Not at least offering to pay for my coffee is another. Ordering some soy milk, half cafe extra foam concoction is another *L*

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4108 posts
8/7/2022 3:37 pm

sorry girl chin up another door opens!


softrayne replies on 8/9/2022 6:15 pm:
Hey DBDD, I'm not frettin over it. Onward and upward!

ridermantel 68M

8/7/2022 5:35 pm

The coffee might be good, but it needs good conversation to match. There are no guarantees.


softrayne replies on 8/9/2022 7:27 pm:
Hello rider *smiles* I had thought perhaps there might be "something", but no. It was a "thank you, next" situation. *L*

alwaysassertive 64M

8/7/2022 7:47 pm

Get to know the person inside first. I saw a blind man at the store with his wife and 4 kids, and at first felt sorry for him. After giving it some thought. I envied him. He was able to find love without knowing what she physically looked like. Her appearance wasn't even a consideration. I've tried to adopt the same approach to finding someone. If someone is out of shape. There's always a gym, but if their heart is all out of shape you can't do much to change that.


aliljaded 53F
8913 posts
8/8/2022 4:02 am

Rayne, my last coffee date was atrocious. I feel your pain.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


softrayne replies on 8/9/2022 6:50 pm:
I swear, the litany of...."Oh dear God no, becauses..." could fill a blog post on their own. Just so much nope, so, so much.

FleetingThoughts 48M

8/8/2022 10:24 am

I can do you one better...

A few years ago I flew a girl up to see me after meeting on this very site and talking for a few months.

There were several reasons it did not work out but the moment our conversation touched on politics and I found she was fervently on the fringe I was done.


Just My $0.02... Take it for what it cost you...

~FleetingThoughts~
A Place For Fleeting Thoughts


jenny14 75T  
90297 posts
8/8/2022 11:54 pm

rayne

That is a bummer but best to find out early on....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ridermantel 68M

8/9/2022 1:02 pm

    Quoting FleetingThoughts:
    I can do you one better...

    A few years ago I flew a girl up to see me after meeting on this very site and talking for a few months.

    There were several reasons it did not work out but the moment our conversation touched on politics and I found she was fervently on the fringe I was done.
Politics destroys relationships, families and rational thinking. Politicians have only one goal and that is to be re-elected. It's like getting student loans so you can get a job to bay pack the student loans. Where is the logic in all this?


InderioMinx 54F  
19823 posts
8/9/2022 5:33 pm

this one was a catch and release!

Luv, I am so stealing this.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


CtDOM4u2011a 62M  
18 posts
8/12/2022 1:49 pm

I could forgive soy milk. But, I was taught long ago that if it's your invitation, it's your tab. Especially if we are only talking coffee or a drink.


JohnnyLightning 65M  
9641 posts
8/16/2022 3:55 pm

They are worth going on because you just never know.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.



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