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About sizes... and good lovers Isn’t it curious how many people overestimate the size of their sexual attributes? You have only to navigate this website to see pics of males showing pictures of their packages, and then checking what they say about their sizes, to realize there is some need for “check and balance”, ha, ha, ha… Yes, you see some men that have an average size penis saying in the Male Endowment part of the profile that theirs is long/thick... and a few of those who really have long/thick ones are kind of humbles marking average/average in the profile (guess these ones are confidents that their pictures say it all). Great guys! It is great to have self-esteem, and we know that for you guys the size of your package play frequently a big role on that... We women also have dilemmas with sizes to the point that going to surgery for enlarging tits, etc. have become sort of a national sport. But this put me to think on the relativity of the proportions and how overestimated are the sizes in the sexual “lexicology”. Well, I guess we women would agree that size does matter, at least when talking about coitus (which is not all in sex). And I think it matters in the sense that there is a sort of minimum size required for a penis to be able to produce a good “fullness” sensation for a vagina. Lest be honest, a little penis cannot produce that, but an average one, of course. Nature cannot be so wrong, right? Fair enough, this website is somehow about looking for “above average” sex stuff, and so an above average penis is one of the attractions for many people here. But misleading Alt navigators on that could carry some problems, like when the moment comes to pull it out of the pants and... well... is that all? Where is the big stuff? Oh!, of course that goes for all of us that put fake pictures or say misleading things describing ourselves in the profile. Anyway, talking about proportions and “above average” things, I believe that a great lover is more about an above average creativity and sensuality than about having an above average size, don’t you think? If not, please convince me. When you think about the greatest sex you have had in your life, would you say that it was mainly because of the size of the package? How does it work for you? |
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5/14/2006 10:43 am |
I can't speak for others, but I don't really know what "average" means. I mean, I could say something about the typical vagina, since I've seen a fair number. But I'm much less familiar with the typical male endowment, and I guess that might be a not-too-uncommon situation for heterosexuals. So I wouldn't really know what to put in that particular spot on the profile. And there's no real easy way to do the research, if you know what I mean. Porn flicks just don't seem likely to contain a typical sampling of the population...
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InHouston, your comment is interesting. Yeah, there is not easy way to do the research for a heterosexual guy... well, if we are talking about a direct, on the field research.. But I guess you guys have ways to have an idea, don
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5/16/2006 10:45 am |
I can't speak for those guys who rate themselves as 'huge' or whatever - maybe they know more than me about what is average. Personally, I don't particularly care, which is why I've not bothered to seek out those other sources of information that you mention (which I would tend not to believe, anyway). Maybe some people are obsessed by size. I'm not. As you point out, it is really much more about how you use it. That's something I've thought a lot about, and I'll flatter myself to claim a bit of skill in that department, anyway. Of course, I have nothing to compare to in this case, either, so who knows?
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5/17/2006 6:45 am |
Eh I have to say most guys like to stretch the truth, I have an 8 inch penis and I always say its just average because I like to see a woman's face when I pull it out and it is not average at all but a bit above average, classic. But yeah most dudes are majorly insecure.
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5/21/2006 5:20 am |
I agree that many men and women have become obsessed with issues of size...whether it be a penis or breasts...as you point out, I'm sure that each woman has a certain "minimum" requirement that she needs to get the amount of actual physical stimulation required to reach a blissed state...but I feel that "size" is way over-rated in the minds of both men and women...the over all vibe of a person, their creativity, the ability to ascertain what the other wants and needs, etc. are, in my opinion, all far more important to reaching states of ecstasy than how big someone's penis or breasts are...in fact, the ability to engage and sustain foreplay, I feel, will ultimately make the encounter more satisfying and memorable...and that requires more imagination than length or girth...just my two cents...Ciao, Mike
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5/23/2006 3:51 pm |
Here, here, Mike. Having been with both men and women I can tell Mariana that men are definetly more insecure about their bodies than women. Size does matter a bit when it comes to intercourse, the physics of a large penis covers more area, thus stimulates and has greater penetration. That is bound to provide a greater sensation to most females. However, the true sensuality of any encounter lies in the relationship and mental state of the two parties, foreplay and anticipation is the state that we are all trying to sustain. As for the size of a penis I believe I listed myself as short and thick because of my experience that I have had with other men (6" max). Many men perhaps would catagorize my penis as being average and it may be, but having been with truly a well endowed man my standard of measurement may be greater than others. Having said that, I haven't had any complaints to date. For what I don't make up for in physical length, I easily make up in my submissive mannerism and sexual appetite. Remember, all of our real sexual stimulation really occurs in that large organ that lies between our ears. Hope you all have a wet, wild and wonderful kinky day. g
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Hi Pixelslave! Thanks for your comments. I cannot talk for all women but from my experience and talks with girlfriends, you are right in that there is a variance in a woman
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baaroner42... Thanks very much for sharing your experience.. coming from an insider of the matter as you are, It couldn
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2/27/2007 8:37 am |
Ms. Mariana, i luv Your profile pic with the huge dildo  my penis is thick but short, not that it matters lol. jaye
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I just say mine might be small but I have a quite way of geting on and off, wink! jsut kidding Mistress but I do love the size of your Strapon, the sight of it makes me want to kneel in front of you
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