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Osiris682 56M
26 posts
3/14/2009 1:26 pm
Is this a bdsm site ?


I just wonder why its so rare that any chatroom on this site has real discussions about the lifestyle ? And it seems when someone starts one, so many get uncomfortable or giggle or change the subject that is never goes anywhere.

I was under the impression the concept was to meet people and learn to "overcome" the nervousness and be able to accept ourselves for what we really are..no matter how embarrassing.

But, it seems to become just another social network. And those who are so afraid really don't understand what they are missing out on. And their own stubbornness inhibits their own growth. People are so afraid to look foolish or be laughed at. And those things are so unimportant when you really look at it.

And when there is a room that discusses real issues, there may be two or three in there. Maybe its better that way ??

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_huni_d 65F

3/14/2009 2:36 pm

it's more of a social site... a baby-BDSM place. lots of young'ens here that only know how to cyber play. you're fortunate to find some in the chat room that talk seriously. all i ever run across are people who get off on taunting others. *sighs* i hate the chat rooms. rarely go there.


Martha665 58F

4/15/2009 4:24 am

You know it never occurred to me thats one of the reasons I don't like them.





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