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Recent Learnings Recent Learnings I learned about trust, consistency of word and action, support, the difference between a Master, a Dom and others, the effect of being nurtured and guided over being taken and used. or abused. I learned of the value of common sense and discernment - tools or boundaries within which to carefully choose who to become involved with. I learned of my self-value and the happiness and contentment that comes from that, rediscovering my femininity, my sensuality and how liberating and powerful that is – a power, a solid foundation and a driver of further change. I learned of special words I could use to reinforce my value for myself when faltering. I was reminded to like and value myself to have something to offer others. There is a power in self-valuing. I learned that we don’t always have to do everything by ourselves, for ourselves -- there are those out there who are willing to help, to guide, to be a source of strength, a resource available to help us along our journey. I learned about responsibility, what outcomes I own and what are shared with others, and of mutual sharing and giving, the connectivity between two people and the passion it can create. I learned about being safe, not just physically safe, but also mentally. I intuitively expanded it to include all domains to raise my awareness of my personal responsibility to keep myself safe in all aspects of my life – a compass to follow when tempted to do or think something that would not be in my best interests, that would take me towards a different, riskier decision and a possible outcome that might be to my detriment. I learned there are consequences for choices and to be aware of that – some may be positive; some may be negative. I learned about conscious choice, about assessing the possible outcomes, the associated risks, and then consciously choosing whether I was prepared to freely and willingly make the choice to enter the experience. I learned of the value in choosing positive, enriching experiences peppered with fun. I learned I can bring closure to unhealthy situations in my own way, a way that reinforces who I am so that I feel good about it rather than feeling regret: standing within my power with grace and poise, sharing openly in a respectful way despite whether those involved are deserving of that courtesy and respect. I became aware of and faced self-limiting conditions that contribute to my inability to move forward to attain what I desire. I learned about patterns of thought and behaviours that do not contribute to my wellbeing. I learned of the value of consciously and openly expressing the negative, intentional, or subconscious actions that reinforced the patterns. Awareness brings the opportunity to diminish the effect of negative or limiting behaviour. I learned of honest and open communication, of the value in speaking and sharing my truth so that I truly can see and honestly face and own what it is that I do and how I think, that reinforces negative thought and behaviour patterns that continue the cycle. I learned that some of my behaviour patterns were because of poor choices in the past and that the past and those poor choices do not need to predict or shape my future. I learned that change can be in the form of comfortable action and uncomfortable action. I experienced that goals and experiences leading to change and growth, can be energizing and liberating but can also be difficult and challenging. Some changes are hard to implement. The secret to overcoming and accomplishing them will depend solely on how important the goal or change is to me, whether I am truly committed to it and if so, what degree of focus, effort and energy will I consciously choose to invest to achieve them. My biggest realization was this week: the re-affirmation that gifts come in a variety of forms and that in rare moments, they are in the form of special people who appear when we least expect it but most importantly when they are truly needed. They join us on our path, wherever it may be and shine the light as to where we can go and who we can become. As the saying goes, these special rare people, these gifts, leave footprints on our mind, our heart and our soul and we are never the same. And I learned the value of being present, of openly sharing gratitude and appreciation to those who are present with me and who give their time and energy to guide, support and encourage. May you have many learnings on your journey. tasina © January 29, 2023 "like the seas, her depth and power will only be known by He who inspires her into submission” |
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Very nice post. Glad you are writing. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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@DancingDom Thank you your feedback means a lot. "like the seas, her depth and power will only be known by He who inspires her into submission”
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Life is usually pretty darn good to us all. We tend to inflict more pain on ourselves than others do. Although abusive situations are always abusive and never healthy for either party. When we find a special person it is very important to recognize that and ensure both parties know the other recognizes it. A dominant personality does mean they are there to dynamically steer your best as most favorable qualities in ways that help you grow. Uncomfortable is part of growth as long as it is true growth. Be who you are but also be willing to recognize a like soul and enjoy those moments when you find them. Of course this is IMO I am a bad boy, kinky guy. Come chat
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