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ddsorbigger 62M
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8/14/2008 10:41 am

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8/14/2008 3:40 pm

My first few thoughts


I have been on this site of a couple of years. I do have to admit that I have learned a lot and have tried to share not only what I have learned from here but what I have learned from life as well as other places.
I have been lucky and meet a few people that have not only helped me to learn but have remained friends. I have also met those that are only here for amusement and not to learn and practice this as a lifestyle. By doing this it makes it harder for those of us that do want learn, teach, and practice this lifestyle. It means that we have to filter out those who are posers and not practicers. Which means it is harder for us to find what we are looking for.
The next thing I would like to shout out about is testimonials. I find it very upsetting that people use this area of a persons profile to write a note on how to get a hold of them or to say how much they would love to be with the person. A testimonial should be a person writing about having experience with that person. Whether it be from chatting, talking on the phone, or being with each other in person. These should be both good and bad but not use for hurt a persons rep or spite.
The last thing that is upsetting is Owner/Master DOM/DOMME using their Sub/Slave to try to get more. If you are a true Owner/Master Dom/Domme you should do this on your own. Yes I know it is an act of trying to prove that they are worthy but it is also making it hard on those others that are looking. If they are owned that is great and they should be proud and announce that to the world so that the others do not try to take what is yours from you. But you should be able to find your own and not have to use the misleading profiles to get what you can not get on your own.
I would like to thank all that will take the time to read this. I hope that this will give people food for thought help us all make this site a better place. I do well come any and all comments. I hope you have a great day and let us all work together to make this a better place.


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