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Blogs > ddsorbigger > The trouble with this site

ddsorbigger 62M
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8/15/2008 6:29 am
Honesty is the best policy!

I am back for day two of my ranking. As it was pointed out to me yesterday life is not easy and we do have to work at things. Sometime it does take more work than we want, and know and understand that but it still is frustrating to have to deal with stupity.
Now todays topic of my rant. I have had the pleasure of meeting many people thanks to this site but the one thing I have noticed there are alot of people both men and women that can not be honest with themselves. Sometimes it is not helped with the choices we are given.
This problem come into play most of the time when it comes to body size. If you are 5'8" and are over 300 lbs you do not have a few extra pounds, you are ample. I am about 6'5" and 250 lbs I am listed as a few extra pound. I looked in the mirror and can see I am between average and a few extra but the point is I was honest with myself.
It would be nice if the choices were a little more detail or you could give you weight but it is not. So if you are trying to decide just be honest with yourself. Even better when you are filling out the info about yourself put in your height and weight. I would suggest that a picture would be easy to but like myself some of us need to be careful so we can not post pictures for everybody to see.
The other place where this is a problem is all the people use the terms Hot or Sexy. This I understand beauty is in the eye of the beholder but let us be honest. I look in the mirrow and the first words out of my mouth are not Hot or Sexy but damn you need some help.
I figure that it is easy to decide. When you are out in public do you have people staring at you. If you do it could be for a couple of reasons. One is you are Hot & Sexy. If this is the case they will also be some whistles or comments about just how Hot or Sexy you are. You will also get asked out or for your phone # alot.
If you are in public and people are staring and you are not getting whistled at or people are not commenting on how Hot or Sexy you are then you are not. There could be several reason for this but it is not because your are Hot or Sexy. So please do not use those in your title.
My point is that most of us are here for the same reason. Lets try to use a little command sense and be honest with ourselves as well as each other. Thank you for taking the time to read this and have a great day.


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