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Blogs > ddsorbigger > The trouble with this site

ddsorbigger 62M
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8/20/2008 7:54 am
It is a first.

I think that today is a first. It is the first day that I can remember that I did not have some kind of thought or thoughts running through my mine wanting to get out.
Finding something to rant about or just to talk about. But I will try to find something. So here it goes.
Last night I was talking with a woman that is new to this lifestyle. Like a lot of new people they are very excited but at the sametime unsure and even a little scared.
We talk about a lot of different topics but in the end she alway brought the conversation back to these couple of things. One that she was very scare to let herself go. She wants a Dom, no she needs a Dom to help guide her and give her that push or even a good swift kick in the ass to get her to experience life.
As we kept chatting I told her that once she found the Dom that she felt she could work with. As her traing moved forward she would begin to build a trust in her Dom which would in turn start to lessen the fear.
That was easy but then she would bring up the fact that she was a mature woman and also on the large size. I do not know how others feel, but I personaly think that as a DOM it should not matter the size but if the Sub is interested and willing and you think you can work with them why not.
To many of us are out for eye candy when looking for a SLUT. We tend to forget that they desire and need to be a SLUT as much as we desire and need a SLUT.
To have that chance to train and mold a person into what they not only want to be but in most cases need to be is what makes us who we are and we are. We are the people that can with our talent pass on not only the future of this lifestyle but enlighten the world.
It is not only up to us to judge but to be judged. We as the keeper of this realm need to understand that our knowledge is what our Subs, Sluts, Slave, etc. are in need of. Because of that knowledge we should be willing to share it.
I do understand that we all have our likes and dislikes but we also have our own faults. Mine is that I have a tuna can for a cock. I can not go deep but can stretch the hell out of the sides. It is up to us to understand not only others faults but our own.
I would like to say thank to jadedgypse for her blog because without her open and honest opinion and calling me out in her blog as a whinny person just here for all the wrong reasons I would not do this on a daily basis. So read her blog too.
Someday I hope to meet her and either have a debate or a no holds barred naked wrestling match that will not only be fun for us but make us rich because it would be pay for view at 49.95. It would be worth every penny.
Please keep your head up and alway keep moving forward.


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