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Toxicity In the last month or so, I have been camming. I usually go through stages where I will cam for a couple weeks, and then somebody makes a mean, toxic, bullying comment. In the last 2 days, I have seen an awful lot of these. Even if someone is submissive, that does not mean a random person can demand things of them. If you are watching and say something offensive, why the HELL are you watching?? If you need to prop yourself up by bullying someone who is GIVING you a free show, you suck! If you tell a girl "You're just fuck meat to these idiots," you have now shown your true colors. If you believe this, why are you watching, why are you conversing with someone? What does this say about your own character? While I am married, my husband is gone for months at a time. I don't always want to go out and meet someone (STDs, personal safety, odd expectations, etc). That does not mean I am a slut (sluts have LOTS of partners, I don't). I am not cuckolding my husband; he often watches, and he is fully aware of what I do online. He also knows that if I do decide to meet someone; he is informed, and he is definitely one of my safety calls. (I also usually have someone who is a lot closer physically to be my primary safety call.) If you don't understand the reason that women (and others, I don't mean to limit it to women) NEED safety calls and have worries and nerves about meeting people, you should read the news. I also have met some VERY NICE people. Sometimes I like to talk with these people WITHOUT numnuts coming into a room and demanding they be given everything they demand -- and then be insulting when they don't get it. in short, no one who turns on their cam owes you anything. If you can't say something nice, shut your mouth. I realize I might be one of the few women here that are not trying to fleece men out of money, etc. I am exactly what you see. But please know that same truth will be presented to you if you are being a jerk. |
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Very well said and all so true.... respect works both ways and costs nothing ...
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