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kivrin2 50F
76 posts
2/19/2012 3:24 pm
*sigh* so hard to find someone


I want to meet someone who isn't necessarily shopping for an easy submissive right off the bat. What I mean is ... my the sheer fact of meeting someone from alt, they seem to expect that I am easy and will shed my clothes at the snap of their fingers. (Yes, I know about the pronoun errors in my sentence, but I am just blabbing! I can't take someone seriously who seems clueless about grammar. The "ur" or "your" which seems to mean any of the homonyms, just irks me.)

I want to meet someone while I am out and about, who just clicks -- but knows the secret wetness I feel when I hear the deep, dominant voice. I know I come off as distant and not interested -- because I am not a total flirt. I always have my nose in a book because I am not good at starting conversations. But really ... a relatively pretty redhead should be able to find someone, right?

So off I go tonight, to go play poker. Hopefully someone will be there. Well, people will be there, but probably not a dom who can get the secret message (and if you think you are the person, try near the library).

However, I've just met some real "winners" when I have met people from here. Really! One guy wanted to come clean and tell me he was facing murder 1 charges ... eeks! And this is someone who thinks I will let him tie me up! No thanks!

WoodyonSea 68M
52 posts
2/19/2012 4:12 pm

Glad to announce myself one that is happy to be there, real, tangible, not off into the night after intimacy with someone I click with


Brandalynna   

2/19/2012 4:30 pm

you have been working hard but these days in seems a lot of men are players or their married or taken.I meet my last master on here I did meet a guy on here we did become friends but every buddy's gotta be on the same page.I tried bdsm clubs every one taken or they just play with every one.I had to weed out the bad ones on here you want some one that wants to settle down with no games.I have dated a few people of here but its diffident for every one.


Brandalynna   

2/19/2012 4:31 pm

they need to earn your trust before even touching you that mean owning you.let them earn their way I go on cam but I don't take my clothes off I say I'm not here for pervs I'm looking for more.


kivrin2 50F
22 posts
2/19/2012 6:25 pm

Why thank you, for pointing out what you think is the obvious. Play partners do not have to be shallow relationships. For me, it is impossible to play without deep trust, and if you are willing to do so, then all you are doing is physical exercise. I can think of much more efficient ways to burn calories than that -- and ones with much less risk.


Brandalynna   

3/4/2012 10:16 am

trust me being classy you will find the right person you dont want a asshole.


highland6969 66M

3/6/2012 5:02 pm

Class is the most important quality to me.


doingitall4yu 66M
321 posts
6/4/2012 3:21 pm

Relationships always involve risks! You may spend hours writing and talking with someone only to find they move on without giving you so much as a good bye! On the other hand, you may meet someone who you click with right away, with little effort!

In a relationship, you make an emotional investment, and you want a return on your investment, the more you invest, the more return you want, but when you make the investment, you might lose, and it is the most painful type of loss one can suffer. The trick is to control the speed at which you invest your feelings to Hedge against a loss, it is safer, but not as much fun. I was never good at hedging my bets, but if you can master it, you will have fewer heart aches!

What pronoun error?? lol

Serve me!! It is what you crave! jdxafn at hot....



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