Blog : The Ramifications of Kink

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3/10/2012 8:20 am

The Ramifications of Kink

An interesting phenomenon -- looking at email and realizing that people who are solely looking for sex trigger the "immature, stupid" response in my head. Sorry guys, but I am much more than just a pussy and ass. All people have feelings and when you reduce yourself to a single line statement only relating to your physical lust, you do not inspire confidence or interest.

Submission and BDSM is at the very least an exchange of power, an expectation of trust, and a risk for both people involved. To assume instant connection tells me that you are desperate or ridiculously loose with your attention. I guess I would rather resort to Duracell than risk physical and emotional hurt from someone who is not willing to establish an acquaintance or friendship.

This is a risky kink to have: the majority of society will find you insane and scary. I feel that many people do not consider the impact of their kink being public. Very few are willing to make their kink public for absolutely correct reasons. I would be branded a , slut, among other harsh words, and the legal charge of moral turpitude would put a hindrance on my career.

I wish more people would consider their words and actions when approaching others. When you treat someone else as nothing more than a doormat or object, you indicate that you will treat everything about your kink that way. That is not a way to inspire submission and trust with someone else. A BDSM relationship is something to be treasured, and everyone deserves a careful respect of life, regardless of the treatment of sex and maturity by the media and society.

Tigerabbit 73M

3/22/2012 11:03 am

Thanks for that post, kivrin - it really blew a lot of cobwebs out of my head and reminded me what life and relationships are all about. Thanks for that breath of fresh air!


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