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Hiatus is over Well, we took a little over a month break from kink as we had a lot of vanilla things going on the last month and it seemed if we tried to mix the two things together something would not go right. Also, I just wanted good straight sex for a time.  During the break we had a lot of time to talk while traveling to things and what we each wanted and what might change once we started again. The sex was also good but it seemed to be missing something. Getting into bed and just having sex was very nice but the dominant tones were not there and it seemed like my sub was more in charge, something he has not been in over 20 years. I felt that my sub seemed to enjoy his time of being able to fuck and cum in me without the Domme/sub aspect a little too much or being in his cage. After about a week or so I really missed being able to fuck with his head and making him do what I wanted. I also wanted to make sure he didn't think the "free sex" thing was a permanent deal. Because of work and school schedules, I was home alone a lot during the week so I was able to use our fucking machine and bullets more often to satisfy myself. In addition, I slowly limited the times we had sex with him mostly going down on me. When he tried to move up and enter me with his cock I would make an excuse or just tell him not right now. I would play with him for a while and then we would go to sleep or I would leave the room. I think he caught on after about a week and he started to drop back into his submissive role more times than not. He didn't sleep tied during this time as that was one of the things we said we would stop doing while on the break. I did let him enter me a few times but would not let him finish. The past week he would perform oral on me and when I was finished he would ask if he could do something and I would either tease him or just say no. Well this did not make him very happy, it didn't upset him all that much either. Though he said he was very horny. My birthday was this past Friday and I believe that he thought that we would have one wild night of fucking. Well, one of did.  He came home from work early and I had a chore for him to do before we went to dinner with the family which would cause him to get dirty and sweaty and would have to take a shower. Since he had shaved the night before I knew his cock would be perfect to be locked up. When he came out of the bathroom he saw his clothes for the evening laid out on the bed and underneath them all was his cage. I was watching TV in the room and watched his expression go from happy to sad very quickly. He asked why and tried everything to change my mind; it was my birthday, hadn't cum in a while, etc, etc, etc. I told him it was time and since it was MY birthday I wanted him locked up and left the room. This was one present that would not be unwrapped tonightSo after the evenings events and we went to our room I had him put on the facilitator and use it to fuck me. I came hard and fast. After the first orgasm I was using my fingers on my clit as well and came even harder as I came both inside and out. It was so nice being fucked with someones movements again. Once I was done with the facilitator I had him go down on me. I came another three times with his mouth before telling him to stop. I thought I would be nice and do something to him so I tied him spread eagle and played a smothering game and climbed on top. While on all fours I simply just push back on his face and had him lick me while he waiting for more air. This felt good for me and I came once in this position as well. After it seemed like he had enough, I played with his nipples with the clover clamps while teasing his balls and cock through his cage. The part that was most frustration for him was when I licked the tip of his cock through the slit in his cage. Just a tiny bit of pleasure but in no way enough to satisfy him. I teased him for almost an hour before turning off the lights and going to bed. He slept tied until about 3AM when he had to be released to go to the bathroom. I was nice and did not tie him back after he came back. I woke him up about 7AM and told him to use the facilities. When he returned to the bedroom he was tied spread eagle and I teased him again. He thought I was going have him go down on me again but I was still sore from the night before. I teased his nipples again and they were also sore but it didn't bother me at all.  After I was done teasing I left him tied and we both went back to sleep. It was 9:30 when I woke again and decided that since he has not been tied for over a month he would stay in bed. I kept him tied until 11:30. He must have missed it as well as he did sleep that entire time. I guess he will start being tied for bed again now in addition to be caged. So overall I think it was a very nice way to end the hiatus on my birthday, my sub knowing that I'm back in charge. I don't know the actual date but its been about 3 weeks since he has had a release so he is on the road to another long-term denial session.  Ms. Jay bleash; |
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Sometimes one does have to take a break in play for other activities that consume our lives in these times. But it does make it more fun, when you get the chance to restart the games with a fresh new outlook!
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY.. WHAT A FUN MONTH ..HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT BIRTHDAY MONTH....
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3/26/2016 9:33 am |
Again, beautiful touch. As you prepare, so shall you proceed......
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