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8/27/2019 5:12 pm

Building up his frustration

My sub has been in orgasm denial for a long time, more so in the past 3 1/2 plus years. He has had only 2 orgasms in that time frame. I used to have to milk him about every -21 days but in the past year I have even stopped doing that as often. Since his last release 4 months ago he has released by a milking twice. The milkings are prostate massages so his lil cock is limp and he receives no pleasure from it, just the feel of sliding of the semen. He's still as horny as ever.

As for anal orgasms, he had one a few months back because I wanted to show our friends what it was like. But before that I can't remember the last time he had one. When I do give him another anal orgasm I want do a forced, multi-orgasm scene where he is tied and not able stop the action but have to endure as many as I want him to have. I think his current record is 6 so I will have to at least double that, if not quadruple that. I'm just waiting for the right time to do that.

The past year he has not been able to wear his chastity cages very much due to work, but that has changed the past month and I'm able to have him wear them a lot more often. Especially since we are playing with friends again and I love knowing he won't be able do anything with his cock and just get more frustrated. With one of the friends we play with it's it's a full swap and he gets to service her in addition to the torment she gives and not expect anything in return, though he really wishes he could. It funny, he still never complains though. LOL. This last time we met it was on the 4 months anniversary of his latest denial period, and while he was kneeling next to her I gave her the option of letting him of his cage. She thought about it for about 2 seconds before saying "no, he can stay locked up". My sub was very disappointed but did everything he was supposed to do the rest of the time we were together for her like a good lil sub.

Something else I started about two months ago was not letting him touch or go down on my pussy. This was something I knew I would be suffering for as well but I think it was a tremendous mind fuck for him. He does give the best oral and can stay there for hours if I wanted him to without complaining. There have been times I've just about said forget it and have him do something but then remembered it's part of the training. Part of the reason why I have been able go this far is that I have resumed fucking other guys again and that takes a lot of the edge off of me.

For sleeping lately he is in a mask that can be worn overnight that lets him smell me but can't use his tongue. I love sitting on his chest and being so close to his mouth and seeing his eyes though the eye holes begging me to let him use his tongue on me. If I tie him early for sleep and leaving the room, I might finger myself first and then rub my finger just under his nose so he can smell me as he tries go sleep.

Since he's not allowed touch we bought padded gloves so he can't touch me directly. On nights when he has the gloves, mask and chastity cage he really can't do much except get super frustrated. LOL.

This weekend I had him in his cage most of the time, especially in the evenings. One of the evenings I was supposed meet a new guy, but when we got to his place, the house and neighborhood were so sketchy, I texted him to tell him I changed my mind. So we went home, and teased my hubby even more. I played with him through his cage till he had the whole cage completely filled and his erection backed up into his pubic area, I love the way that looks and feels. Then I would stop until he went down again and once he recovered I would do it all over again, till he was on the brink of cumming, then stop again. So much fun! The pictures were when I finally release him from the bed and his cock was still somewhat hard, you can see a bulge in the pubic area and his cock coming through the cage.

He asked me when he will be able to orgasm again, and I really don't have an answer for that. Will it be Christmas? New year's Eve? His birthday in March? That might be a good time, as we will be getting together with the other coupletwo we swap with that weekend, and between the two of us I'm sure we can plan some pretty devious things for how we can do it if I decide to let him cum. But on the other hand, I think it's a lot more fun just keep it as a surprise. Don't you?

Ms. Jay
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