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4 years of strict denial The blog post is the first comment as words get dropped off. Enjoy. Ms. Jay bleash; |
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March 4th marked the four years anniversary since I became very strict with long term denial with my sub. Just a recap, when we first started denial many years ago he would go 5-7 days and I gradually worked him up to going weeks or months at a time with no orgasms. The few years prior to strict denial period he was averaging maybe 1 orgasm every 3 months or so. His attitude on the long periods had made him very compliant and it would take a week or so to get him back into complete sub mode after an orgasm. Thus was my plan for the strict denial period, and with the exception of twice in Vegas ten months ago, he has not had an orgasm in that time. To fuck with him even more (or maybe not to, lol!) six months into the strict denial period I quit letting him put his cock inside me as well. In the past, I would allow him to go inside me and move in and out, but he did get pleasure from that and there was always the worry of an accidental orgasm, so I made the decision to no longer let him go inside me. Once again, the only exception was the time in Vegas, where he actually got to fuck me twice. I allowed him that small break for a couple of reasons. One, because I was extremely horny and finding someone there to fuck wasn't an option that trip. Two, I told him at the time that I would allow him to cum as many times as he could while we were in Vegas as a tease, then after the two times, made excuses why we couldn't do it again, and then when we got home said the time had passed and he was out of luck. And three, I told him I could do it again at any time, just suddenly decide I wanted to fuck for a day or two and then cut him off again without any warning. But I haven't done it again. Yet. Who's to know if I will or not, lol! These four years have gone by so quickly, (for me, at least), and I have really enjoyed all we have done during them. The different cages I use to lock him up, teasing him either with the cage on or off. When I am stroking his cock I love his reaction as I stroke him for a long time and then the look in his face when I stop and tell him no more. As for milking him that has changed a lot as well. Where I would milk him between 7-21 days before, he is now going over 30 days without having to be milked. I think the record so far is about 45 days or so which was very nice considering how long I have been teasing him. The pressure in his balls just doesn't have quite the build up it used to. I guess he's just getting too old. LOL. I've also really have enjoyed all the different guys I have fucked for my pleasure and for his humiliation. Once again, my only regret is that I didn't start cuckolding him much sooner once I took charge. There has been numerous men I have fucked in the past couple of years; some were definitely only worth a one time shot, some I enjoyed over and over again as they could fuck for a very long time. One thing I can say for all of them though - they were all bigger and thicker than my sub! Which is one of the main reasons he is locked up, and I am fucking them, and not him. I really love to tie him up and then watch a recorded session of me fucking another guy while I either sit on his face while I watch it, or just masturbate to it. If I'm feeling really mean I'll put a blindfold on him and then describe to him what the other guy was doing to me, and how much I loved it. It is quite the turn on for both of us. My sub has learned to please me in so many other ways over the years with his tongue, fingers and dildos that I have not really missed him fucking me much at all. True there is the missing intimacy but we are very intimate in other ways. As the anniversary comes, and goes, I don't see any reason to change the status quo. In the coming year, I may or may not allow him to cum like I did in Vegas, but the long term denial will not end. While I do allow him to pleasure other females with his mouth and fingers, he will never be allowed to fuck anyone else. I have teased him before saying maybe I will this time but I really had no intention to let him do it all. Another thing I have told him many times that he will have to go down on one of the guys I am fucking, to get him hard for me. I have had him only do it once so far and it was quite exciting to see. I am really enjoying fucking the other guys, and especially taping it for us to watch later. I had considered at one point allowing my sub to watch me fuck the other guys, but decided it is much better this way, letting him just imagine what is going on while it is happening and I don't have to worry about any eye contact interrupting my mood as we will see it later while I describe how I felt, and tease him. Since I only practice safe sex with the other guys, he can't clean their cum out of me, but he still gets to go down on me afterward, while I am still red and sore from their big, fat cocks. He says sometimes that he is done with the denial, but I can tell by the way he says it that he really wants me to tell him that he has to stay in it, and he doesn't really complain too much when I do. This lifestyle really suits both of us, and we wouldn't have it any other way. Ms. Jay bleash;
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Fantastic blog! keep it up (figuratively if not literally) hope this inspires more couples to adopt this.
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He is a very very lucky sub /hub to have you ...love reading your Blog thank you so much for sharing with us ..
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I have been following you for many years. I remember when you were just trying things for short times. I have seen you both grow. Remember it is all about you. What makes you happy. Again. Ignore his pleasures. Keep him locked and let him watch again and again; other MEN sexually satisfy you. And remind him his dick his useless to satisfy you. Keep up the good work. Why not go for another four years. i'm sue he will not mind...LOL
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A sus pies Señora me encanta su blog y decirle que yo tambien estoy en negacion y mi recor es de 83 dias , no tanto como su sub pero es muy bueno estar bajo el control de otra persona saludos
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thank you for sharing your post Ms Jay it helps foster my own thoughts about how best to serve
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Ms Jay, You have a wonderful dynamic!! Thank You for sharing. he is a very lucky sub/hub, most of us can only imagine how it would to be in his situation g
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Your denied man is THE luckiest cucky in the world! And I know being CUCKJED! 
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Mistress, during my 18 years of being seriously cuckolded, Her Bull and she allowed me to watch their fucking only once! And that was behind Him when he fucked her silly in the hot tub. He told me to guide His big cock into her from behind as she sat on the seat...and then He allowed me to caress His balls and the thick base of His beautiful cock while He fucked her. All the other times they fucked, I was only 3-4 times allowed to kneel next to the bed naked and blindfolded, then maybe 5-6 times I was across the hall in the small bedroom just trying to listen through two doors. But 95% of all their other fuckings, I was not in the same house or same city or same state, and many times I was even out of the country on business. This is what they wanted and You captured it beautifully above. Keep me out of their sight and minds...this was their time! While I was very grateful for the handful of times being in the same room, I know so well the place of a cuck...out of sight and out of mind. I am SO happy the way You have handled Your cuckold hubby! 😘
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enyoy reading your fucking stories
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