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BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F  
1643 posts
1/24/2021 4:55 pm
One month of denial and counting!

Looks like the blogs are still chopping off words from the original post so this will be repeated in the first comment.

Chastity and denial has been very good for us this year so far. Well, for me at least since I'm the one dolling out the denial. The past year with the pandemic I had been nice since my sub still has go into work daily and have allowed him to cum more often than in previous . Now when I say more it was still only about 2-3 times a month. LOL.

As I knew I was going start getting him back into a long-term denial session, I was very, very nice for his last orgasm and gave him a very rare blow job on Christmas morning. I guess you could say it was a Christmas miracle! 😂

Of course he had no clue to what I had in mind and thought he would still be able to go inside and cum in the New Year. On Monday it will be a month of denial for him. Another thing I did make it even more frustrating for him was, after the blowjob, I have made it a point not touch his coc I've played with his balls and nipples a LOT but not the shaft which really drives him crazy. Another way I have been teasing him is like the picture below and the result makes his balls so dark it's makes for a great blue balls pic.



Another reason that I haven't touched his shaft is that the majority of time it's been locked in the chastity cage. He was in the CB-6000s for the first few days of the year and then Mr Stubb arrived, and with the exception of about 3 hours, it has been on his privates since. This month there was only 2 days he has not been locked up which he hasn't been too thrilled with as he was just cut off. He will be out of it for a couple of hours on Monday but will be locked up again once he gets back home and showers and shaves.

This new device has been a dream, for me at least, for him it's more of a nightmare. 😂 It's much smaller than his others so is easier to wear under his clothes and is not as restrictive. Not only has he been able to wear it to work, but he's able to do the majority of home chores with it on as well. For those who have worn a CB or been part of a partnership with someone who wears a device one of the biggest turnoffs is the smell that comes with wearing them and while I can't say it's gone completely it very minimal. This is a huge plus as nothing was worse or more of a turn-off than playing in the area and having that funky smell on my fingers or just being there.

We will be going on a mini-trip this coming week and before the new device was ordered I thought he would have to be out of a cage. But once again Mr Stubb's saves the day and I've decided that he would be able to wear it for the drive as well as the hockey games we will be attending. I think my playing in the car will be a great tease for him and making him uncomfortable in the cage while I'll get cum as much as I want. And of course that's only the drive and not counting how many times we will be doing something in the hotel. 🤣🤣. I'm sure we'll be going a sex shop as well as there are a few very nice ones in the area. Poor baby will be so frustrated by the end of the wee Or should I say even more frustrated!

I think he's really regretting mentioning that there was a new device available seeing that it will be quite awhile until his cock is touched. How's everyone's else New Year going?

Ms. Jay
bleash;


BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F  
636 posts
1/24/2021 4:56 pm

Chastity and denial has been very good for us this year so far. Well, for me at least since I'm the one dolling out the denial. The past year with the pandemic I had been nice since my sub still has to go into work daily and have allowed him to cum more often than in previous years. Now when I say more it was still only about 2-3 times a month. LOL.

As I knew I was going to start getting him back into a long-term denial session, I was very, very nice for his last orgasm and gave him a very rare blow job on Christmas morning. I guess you could say it was a Christmas miracle! 😂

Of course he had no clue to what I had in mind and thought he would still be able to go inside me and cum in the New Year. On Monday it will be a month of denial for him. Another thing I did to make it even more frustrating for him was, after the blowjob, I have made it a point not to touch his cock. I've played with his balls and nipples a LOT but not the shaft which really drives him crazy. Another way I have been teasing him is like the picture below and the result makes his balls so dark it's makes for a great blue balls pic.

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Another reason that I haven't touched his shaft is that the majority of time it's been locked in the chastity cage. He was in the CB-6000s for the first few days of the year and then Mr Stubb arrived, and with the exception of about 3 hours, it has been on his privates since. This month there was only 2 days he has not been locked up which he hasn't been too thrilled with as he was just cut off. He will be out of it for a couple of hours on Monday but will be locked up again once he gets back home and showers and shaves.

This new device has been a dream, for me at least, for him it's more of a nightmare. 😂 It's much smaller than his others so is easier to wear under his clothes and is not as restrictive. Not only has he been able to wear it to work, but he's able to do the majority of home chores with it on as well. For those who have worn a CB or been part of a partnership with someone who wears a device one of the biggest turnoffs is the smell that comes with wearing them and while I can't say it's gone completely it very minimal. This is a huge plus as nothing was worse or more of a turn-off than playing in the area and having that funky smell on my fingers or just being there.

We will be going on a mini-trip this coming week and before the new device was ordered I thought he would have to be out of a cage. But once again Mr Stubb's saves the day and I've decided that he would be able to wear it for the drive as well as the two hockey games we will be attending. I think my playing in the car will be a great tease for him and making him uncomfortable in the cage while I'll get to cum as much as I want. And of course that's only the drive and not counting how many times we will be doing something in the hotel. 🤣🤣. I'm sure we'll be going to a sex shop as well as there are a few very nice ones in the area. Poor baby will be so frustrated by the end of the week. Or should I say even more frustrated!

I think he's really regretting mentioning that there was a new device available seeing that it will be quite awhile until his cock is touched. How's everyone's else New Year going?

Ms. Jay
bleash;


tiusup 67M/67F  
512 posts
1/24/2021 11:28 pm

I think its going to be a fun time for you Ms.Jay


whipkeith3 68M
127 posts
1/25/2021 3:36 am

i have never gone that long and totally empathize with him, lol, no really i do. i hope he pleases You once he is freed. Have fun at the hotel


likesmatures 55M
4843 posts
1/25/2021 5:02 am

Im curious about the smell. Is it from the plastic or is it from him in the plastic? I've always wondered how the male properly cleans himself/ stays fresh in a cb.

Ive always went the stainless steel route. I was amazed he is able to conceal the device.
I know alot of ss chastity devices are quite noticeable.

But smaller is something even a male can appreciate..
I luv my microcage because you cant even tell im wearing it/ keeps me tiny/ keeps me from having any sort of erection.
So it is so ideal for long term play


BDSMCouple_SoCal replies on 1/25/2021 10:04 am:
@likesmature - seems to be a combination of the cage design and him. This new one has 6 very nice air vents which seems to help a lot. The shorter design also seems better as there is less in the way when he pee's. He showers daily, twice depending on what he does during the day and it has been very good so far in terms of looking and smelling good. I wouldn't say he's daisy fresh at the end of the day but it's much, much better.

He's had some steel/metal devices as well and they had the same smell issue or just pulled way too much. He also has an issue with metals so not able to wear them very long. As for concealing, there is a buldge but nothing too noticable. I notice it but I'm looking for it. He wears loose pants so that helps as well.

I thought the last one we bought was going be the best but this one is much smaller and so far has worked out great. Not sure I'll torment him with the next smaller one. Not yet at least.

drmgirl622 68F  
26117 posts
1/25/2021 7:11 am

Sounds like a case of careful what you wish for....


BDSMCouple_SoCal replies on 1/25/2021 10:07 am:
@drmgirl622 - he wasn't expecting a long lockup but things just worked out for it.

maletramp 64M
2095 posts
1/25/2021 11:50 am

You've given me an idea that will make someone wealthy.. A company that sells plastic locks with what ever number the "buyer" wants.. SO .. How many days do you typically leave him locked up?


BDSMCouple_SoCal replies on 1/27/2021 5:50 pm:
There are already companies that sell the numbered locks ad ones that will make custom numbers, so unfortunately there goes your business model. As for how long do I keep him locked up, that varies and I never say or give hints how long a certain session will be.


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