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BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F  
1643 posts
2/4/2021 11:16 am
January Chastity Update

The system is still removing words so the post will be repeated as the first comment.

As I mentioned in a couple of recent blog posts, I'm slowly trying get my sub back into a denial period of my liking so slowly easing him into . Ok, wasn't that slow but on top of starting the denial again, he's back to chastity almost full time as well.

This is a chart that shows the month of January and how often my sub was locked in chastity and with what device. A "c" by the device is that it was off for cleaning and an "r" means he had a release from milking. Cleaning means it was off for a couple of hours . The second column is the amount of times he orgasmed that particular day. As you can see, his being allowed cum stopped pretty quick. The third column shows if he was tied that day, and if so, in what position. "T" is for tied in the bed, "B" is for a sleepsack and "CH" if he was tied in the chair which usually meant he was tied for bed later as well.



I think we started the year off pretty well, and with the new chastity device it made it so much easier to keep it going. I still have a little laugh when he thought this was going be a short session to try out the new device. I sure he's dreading to see how much he will finally be locked up for February and how all the cells will be filled.

Ms. Jay
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BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F  
636 posts
2/4/2021 11:17 am

As I mentioned in a couple of recent blog posts, I'm slowly trying to get my sub back into a denial period of my liking so slowly easing him into it. Ok, it wasn't that slow but on top of starting the denial again, he's back to chastity almost full time as well.

This is a chart that shows the month of January and how often my sub was locked in chastity and with what device. A "c" by the device is that it was off for cleaning and an "r" means he had a release from milking. Cleaning means it was off for a couple of hours only. The second column is the amount of times he orgasmed that particular day. As you can see, his being allowed to cum stopped pretty quick. The third column shows if he was tied that day, and if so, in what position. "T" is for tied in the bed, "B" is for a sleepsack and "CH" if he was tied in the chair which usually meant he was tied for bed later as well.

I think we started the year off pretty well, and with the new chastity device it made it so much easier to keep it going. I still have a little laugh when he thought this was going be a short session to try out the new device. I sure he's dreading to see how much he will finally be locked up for February and how all the cells will be filled.

Ms. Jay
bleash;


tiusup 67M/67F  
512 posts
2/4/2021 11:23 am

love this chart ..you are the best Ms.Jay


tiusup 67M/67F  
512 posts
2/4/2021 11:28 am

What is the X meam ?


BDSMCouple_SoCal replies on 2/4/2021 1:51 pm:
The "X" means that he was not tied in any manner that day for play or sleep.

subjim63 60M
415 posts
2/4/2021 12:26 pm

i like the chart but it would be meaningless for me since i can only selflock since my Mistress/Wife died. a chart like that for me would be quite large since i have been locked in one device or another since last May


BDSMCouple_SoCal replies on 2/4/2021 1:53 pm:
Sorry for your loss and impressive that you are still self-locking. This is the latest version of keeping track on him and what he's wearing/doing as it seems easier for others to follow along. Other methods made sense to us but would have taken a lot if explaining. My sub also has a variety of cages he's locked into time to time but right now I'm really liking the Mr Stubb so it's taking the most time. I still plan on switching him to the others from time to time.

drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
2/4/2021 1:32 pm

A very ingenious use of an Excel chart


Armstrong2 78M
226 posts
2/4/2021 3:27 pm

Let me see if I understand the chart correctly.

R is for rabid.
A is for rabbit.
B is for rarebit (a British "delicacy").
X is for start over.


subjim63 60M
415 posts
2/4/2021 4:42 pm

he is quite lucky to have someone like you holding his keys. my self locking brings back good memories of my Mistress.we were married 27 years. I have been doing it so long i feel naked without it


makinkycpl 66M/65F
208 posts
2/5/2021 7:08 am

Do you post it so he can see how he is doing?


BDSMCouple_SoCal replies on 2/6/2021 10:33 pm:
He knows how long he"s been locked and denied, but this was to give everyone else an idea of what happens.

maletramp 64M
2095 posts
2/6/2021 1:03 pm

I think you're being quite kind.. You could be making him cum or be milked 3 times a day for several weeks before beginning the abstinence .. There was a recent event where a person in an electronic chastity device had the controls hacked.. then they had to cut him out after paying ransom simply was responded to with another ransom payment demand.. So, there's a lot to be said for those old "lock em up with a padlock" devices..


BDSMCouple_SoCal replies on 2/6/2021 10:37 pm:
No, I prefer that even if he's going into a long-term session that its the same as any other time we start. Even though I said he was able to cum a lot more in 2020 it was still only 2-3 times a month, which for him is a lot.

Yes, we heard about the device that got hacked. Guess that guy got more than he expected. LOL.


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