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5/2/2022 8:07 am

Impact Play

As words are still being deleted in the main post, this will be repeated in the comments.

So I know I said this next post was going be about chastity, but I decided to change things up a little. The past 2 years it's been difficult to do any big BDSM play. Not having an empty house and hotels closed for the most part or staff watching your every move, we just haven't had a chance to do much.

I might get one swat with a paddle every so often but that was about it. He was tied for bed most night so I was able to tease and abuse his nipples, cock and balls. But those were short sessions right before we went to sleep, so neither of us were really satisfied with that.

The best time we had for impact play in a long time was in early March. We were watching a hockey game and it was at the beginning of when my team started to drop out of contention. That night they got killed in the 1st period, allowing 5 goals, and I was not happy. As we had an empty house, I got up and told him that we were going into the bedroom.

He thought he was going to go down on me but I told him to strip and lie face down on the bed. I attached his hands to the side cuffs and his feet were cuffed straight down to the foot of the bed. I placed the bondage belt around his waist and tied that off with the side straps. He was not going be able to wiggle much. I had also placed the incline pillow under him so his butt was at a great angle.

I only got out a few things as a hockey intermission is only 18 minutes so I didn't have a lot of time. A long wooden flexible paddle for warm up, my lollipop paddle, a leather and a rubber strap. The last two were gifts from friends who had mostly retired from impact play. I love them.

The long flexible paddle was used first to warm his ass up and I could do both sides of his butt at once. Quick short hits were done for about 3 minutes with no stopping. As he put it later, even though they weren't that hard, the constant hitting let him know he was getting hit. I then moved on to the lollipop and I did a couple of easy hits to get the distance right and then started hitting full force. The hits were about 5 - 8 seconds apart, not as fast as the flexible one, but he felt these hits a lot more. His ass was red by the time I finished.

I don't remember exactly which strap I used first but basically, I immediately started with heavy hits and used each of them for about 3 mins each. The leather one was used at a faster pace but the rubber one was used with about 15 second breaks in between as it's more severe.

We wrapped up in time for me to get back and continue for us to watch the game. Well, for me to watch it. Since I did all the work during the intermission, I had him sit on his sore ass on the floor and massage and worship my feet during the 2nd period. Unfortunately my team did no better in the period and let in another 2 goals. This time at intermission I just got up and said let's go. He tried arguing a case not to be hit again but I had my mind set. He was tied down in the same position and this time the lollipop was used first, followed by the straps. The flexible one wasn't used as I wanted solid hard hits. During the session I kept switching between the 3 to keep him off guard. He was trying to sqiurm but he was held down tightly. I really love the under the bed straps. LOL

When I was finally done his ass was the reddest it has been in a long time and very hot to the touch. I was very pleased with myself. I told him I was going to leave him tied so that I could come back in and not have to waste time securing him again. For those who are wondering why I didn't hit him without tying, I prefer subs to be g restrained so if they move the wrong place isn't hit. Before I left, I put a blindfold and ear muffs on him to isolate him more.

Unfortunately, I had to let him out before the game ended as we weren't going to have an empty house much longer. I got in a few more smacks before releasing him and let him get dressed to watch the rest of the game. My team only let 1 goal score in the 3rd so I probably wouldn't have hit him too much after all. Here is what his ass looked like after the second session.

It was nice as he had some bruises for the next couple of days. Even though this session was a couple of months ago, I am hoping to start this type of play again more regularly.

Ms. Jay
bleash;

BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F

636 posts
5/2/2022 8:08 am

So I know I said this next post was going be about chastity, but I decided to change things up a little. The past 2 years it's been difficult to do any big BDSM play. Not having an empty house and hotels closed for the most part or staff watching your every move, we just haven't had a chance to do much.

I might get one swat with a paddle every so often but that was about it. He was tied for bed most night so I was able to tease and abuse his nipples, cock and balls. But those were short sessions right before we went to sleep, so neither of us were really satisfied with that.

The best time we had for impact play in a long time was in early March. We were watching a hockey game and it was at the beginning of when my team started to drop out of contention. That night they got killed in the 1st period, allowing 5 goals, and I was not happy. As we had an empty house, I got up and told him that we were going into the bedroom.

He thought he was going to go down on me but I told him to strip and lie face down on the bed. I attached his hands to the side cuffs and his feet were cuffed straight down to the foot of the bed. I placed the bondage belt around his waist and tied that off with the side straps. He was not going be able to wiggle much. I had also placed the incline pillow under him so his butt was at a great angle.

I only got out a few things as a hockey intermission is only 18 minutes so I didn't have a lot of time. A long wooden flexible paddle for warm up, my lollipop paddle, a leather and a rubber strap. The last two were gifts from friends who had mostly retired from impact play. I love them.

The long flexible paddle was used first to warm his ass up and I could do both sides of his butt at once. Quick short hits were done for about 3 minutes with no stopping. As he put it later, even though they weren't that hard, the constant hitting let him know he was getting hit. I then moved on to the lollipop and I did a couple of easy hits to get the distance right and then started hitting full force. The hits were about 5 - 8 seconds apart, not as fast as the flexible one, but he felt these hits a lot more. His ass was red by the time I finished.

I don't remember exactly which strap I used first but basically, I immediately started with heavy hits and used each of them for about 3 mins each. The leather one was used at a faster pace but the rubber one was used with about 15 second breaks in between as it's more severe.

We wrapped up in time for me to get back and continue for us to watch the game. Well, for me to watch it. Since I did all the work during the intermission, I had him sit on his sore ass on the floor and massage and worship my feet during the 2nd period. Unfortunately my team did no better in the period and let in another 2 goals. This time at intermission I just got up and said let's go. He tried arguing a case not to be hit again but I had my mind set. He was tied down in the same position and this time the lollipop was used first, followed by the straps. The flexible one wasn't used as I wanted solid hard hits. During the session I kept switching between the 3 to keep him off guard. He was trying to sqiurm but he was held down tightly. I really love the under the bed straps. LOL

When I was finally done his ass was the reddest it has been in a long time and very hot to the touch. I was very pleased with myself. I told him I was going to leave him tied so that I could come back in and not have to waste time securing him again. For those who are wondering why I didn't hit him without tying, I prefer subs to be g restrained so if they move the wrong place isn't hit. Before I left, I put a blindfold and ear muffs on him to isolate him more.

Unfortunately, I had to let him out before the game ended as we weren't going to have an empty house much longer. I got in a few more smacks before releasing him and let him get dressed to watch the rest of the game. My team only let 1 goal score in the 3rd so I probably wouldn't have hit him too much after all. Here is what his ass looked like after the second session. It was nice as he had some bruises for the next couple of days. Even though this session was a couple of months ago, I am hoping to start this type of play again more regularly.

Ms. Jay
bleash;

tiusup 67M/67F

512 posts
5/2/2022 8:23 am

sounds like a lot of fun that night i hope you get a lot more very soon

sugen0 65M

68 posts
5/2/2022 9:03 am

mmm i have love it , and it have been i wounderfull evning

bootlckboy39 50M

69 posts
5/2/2022 9:07 am

Is she finally back?

casio26 63M

2563 posts
5/2/2022 9:14 am

My ladies used to spread my legs & pull my balls to expose them.
That really stung when they struck. Instead of swinging across me, they swung parallel with my back. 🙂

drmgirl622 68F