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Strapon Harness This post will be repeated in the comments So over the past 20 years or so I've haven't let me sub go inside me very often. Prior to me using others for sex, we would use didlos or a strapon for him called the ""Facilitator". We actually went through about 4 of them over the years they were used so much. LOL. The couple we use to get together with for playing had one of the last working facilitators and I hope she is keeping it in good shape. The bad part is that they quit making the facilitator about the same time I started cucking him so it wasn't as big of a loss at the time. However with things the way they are now I'm still very hesitant in meeting others and not having a good strapon that he could use while in his chastity cage is an issue. Of course he has volunteered many times to take one for the team and have sex with me and I just laugh at his comment. This current session of him not being allowed inside is just over 4 months so why would I want to stop now? We have tried a few different strapons but none fit over the cage in a good way. I really wanted both of us to feel the motion of having sex but these only allowed him to be cageless which left him being able to poke me while using them which I didn't want, or it put a lot of unwanted pressure on his cage. There were times he would just use his hands to use the dildo but that wasn't the same either. We kept looking and finally found a new version that looked like it might actually work. The cost was high so waited for a sale before purchasing as returning it was not an option. It had a little pouch for him to be in while it was on and the place that the dildo is secured at was higher up. When it arrived it looked nicer than the couple of pictures shown on the ad. We tried it on him later that night and the little pouch worked perfectly with the cage when he put it on. He didn't put a dildo in the harness so he had to take it off again to put one in so i couldsee how it looked. It looked very nice on him, so much that I figured why waste him putting it on and decided to take it for a test drive.  It felt really good having something inside me again with the normal rocking motion and it didn't take long before I had my first small orgasm. We didn't stop and and in about 3 minutes, while playing with my clit as well, I had my second and third very hard orgasms. I'm glad we had an empty house that night as I was very vocal that I'm sure the neighbors were wondering what was going on. We've used it a couple of more times and each time it has felt great for me as we've switched dildos each time. I just need to remember not to want too much and take our largest dildos too soon, it has been a while and need to work on girth. LOL For him it was very good as well as he was able to get really into using it and not have anything pull or strain on the cage. While he has been wearing his smallest cage while using it so far, I don't think any of the other three chastoty cages that are in the current rotation of wear will be an issue with being placed in the little pouch and having enough room while we play. So doesn't look very good for him to be allowed inside again any time soon!  Ms. Jay bleash; |
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So over the past 20 years or so I've haven't let me sub go inside me very often. Prior to me using others for sex, we would use didlos or a strapon for him called the ""Facilitator". We actually went through about 4 of them over the years they were used so much. LOL. The couple we use to get together with for playing had one of the last working facilitators and I hope she is keeping it in good shape. The bad part is that they quit making the facilitator about the same time I started cucking him so it wasn't as big of a loss at the time. However with things the way they are now I'm still very hesitant in meeting others and not having a good strapon that he could use while in his chastity cage is an issue. Of course he has volunteered many times to take one for the team and have sex with me and I just laugh at his comment. This current session of him not being allowed inside is just over 4 months so why would I want to stop now? We have tried a few different strapons but none fit over the cage in a good way. I really wanted both of us to feel the motion of having sex but these only allowed him to be cageless which left him being able to poke me while using them which I didn't want, or it put a lot of unwanted pressure on his cage. There were times he would just use his hands to use the dildo but that wasn't the same either. We kept looking and finally found a new version that looked like it might actually work. The cost was high so waited for a sale before purchasing as returning it was not an option. It had a little pouch for him to be in while it was on and the place that the dildo is secured at was higher up. When it arrived it looked nicer than the couple of pictures shown on the ad. We tried it on him later that night and the little pouch worked perfectly with the cage when he put it on. He didn't put a dildo in the harness so he had to take it off again to put one in so i couldsee how it looked. It looked very nice on him, so much that I figured why waste him putting it on and decided to take it for a test drive. It felt really good having something inside me again with the normal rocking motion and it didn't take long before I had my first small orgasm. We didn't stop and and in about 3 minutes, while playing with my clit as well, I had my second and third very hard orgasms. I'm glad we had an empty house that night as I was very vocal that I'm sure the neighbors were wondering what was going on. We've used it a couple of more times and each time it has felt great for me as we've switched dildos each time. I just need to remember not to want too much and take our largest dildos too soon, it has been a while and need to work on girth. LOL For him it was very good as well as he was able to get really into using it and not have anything pull or strain on the cage. While he has been wearing his smallest cage while using it so far, I don't think any of the other three chastoty cages that are in the current rotation of wear will be an issue with being placed in the little pouch and having enough room while we play. So doesn't look very good for him to be allowed inside again any time soon! Ms. Jay bleash;
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Looks like a good fit...very nice!
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Looks like a great setup! Where did you find it and what was the sale cost? -Thank you
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Wow, looks like you found exactly what you needed.
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I have had that issue in the past relationships with Dommes. Good to know if the situation requires it, that there is a good remedy.
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Hello very nice, it's realy wonderful ! 
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Very hot looking hope you get up to the big one very soon mmmmm.But a real nice big one will really feel good i bet and have the sub/hub tied up and watching 
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Just a suggestion. Make him kneel or stand beside your bed. Make him watch you bedding another man. Show him what a real cock is. And be as vocal as you want with him watching. Be sure to remind him if he was not lockked. MAYBE he could e the man in bed with you. As I said. Just a suggestion
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It looks like a nice unit, and the fact that it fits his cages is great!
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