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#400 - Who would have thought we would have gone this far This will be repeated in the comments.. According to alt this is will be our 400th post since we started blogging our adventures way back in April of 2008. I thought that we might have put a few blogs up here and there to keep our membership, but then I really enjoyed doing them. Early on it was almost exclusively just about me teasing my sub as I kept his lockups and orgasm denials longer and longer. Looking back at the earlier blogs I laugh at how we thought 5-7 days of being in denial was the worst thing for him. Now that's not even a warm up session as most denial periods are a minimum of 3 months or more. In re-reading the older posts it shows how we grew with our play to harsher BDSM play to including others in it as well. The various couples and single subs that we met and played with, some were great connections and others being blah and one and done. Probably the biggest growth for me is playing with female subs, once I did I found I enjoyed it very much. We also seemed to be one of the few that actually use real pictures of our adventures as so many will tell a story and then post an internet photo so it leaves a lot of doubt. Those who use them to say this is what they would like to try is fine. The long term orgams denial and chastity play that has been discussed has also let me explore cuckold play and getting together with guys who are much better endowed and long lasting to satisfy me and sharing those adventures with everyone as well. The past 5 years have been very tough keeping up the blog as the many issues that alt has with members constantly being restricted on what they can do on the site. In addition to the many spammers who have taken over the blogs and drown out the BDSM and other kink related topics because they want to be seen and talked about over nonsense rather than kink play. When we first started all the blogs were kink or sexual related. Comments are also way down compared to the earlier years and sometimes I wonder sometimes if just keeping a private diary to log the experiences might be a better idea. Probably the most irritating thing on the blogs though is how the system cuts off words in the blogs, and now we found out a lot of the photos that accompanied posts have also disappeared. I wanted to try and put a gif of various pics from the earlier years but found most have been removed. Over the years there have been so many friends on here who have disappeared. Some said bye, some we still communicate with on other sites, a lot have just gone without saying a thing. There are still a few friends that are still active on the site and we are very glad they are still here. As for the dedicated that read our blog everytime, we really appreciate that you do. Maybe this post would have been a better one for a milestone of 500 but as my sub says, we have to be realistic about how much longer we actually are going be able to keep play going as we have an expiration date. He has always said he doesn't want to be that guy who walks into a dungeon barely able to move and with a cane, and not the one he gets hit with. Unfortunately we have seen this a few times over the years and it was a session killer. Early on we posted a few times a week, then less and less to where now we try for once a week, so getting to 500 is 2 years out at a minimum. Of course who knows how this site will be by then as well, will the spammers have taken it over completely or will alt even still exist? So thank you to those who have enjoyed our stories over the past 13 years, at least we hope you have enjoyed them and will continue to read. Hopefully the gif of the earlier pictures is below, otherwise a few select ones will be placed in the comments.     Ms. Jay bleash; |
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According to alt this is will be our 400th post since we started blogging our adventures way back in April of 2008. I thought that we might have put a few blogs up here and there to keep our membership, but then I really enjoyed doing them. Early on it was almost exclusively just about me teasing my sub as I kept his lockups and orgasm denials longer and longer. Looking back at the earlier blogs I laugh at how we thought 5-7 days of being in denial was the worst thing for him. Now that's not even a warm up session as most denial periods are a minimum of 3 months or more. In re-reading the older posts it shows how we grew with our play to harsher BDSM play to including others in it as well. The various couples and single subs that we met and played with, some were great connections and others being blah and one and done. Probably the biggest growth for me is playing with female subs, once I did I found I enjoyed it very much. We also seemed to be one of the few that actually use real pictures of our adventures as so many will tell a story and then post an internet photo so it leaves a lot of doubt. Those who use them to say this is what they would like to try is fine. The long term orgams denial and chastity play that has been discussed has also let me explore cuckold play and getting together with guys who are much better endowed and long lasting to satisfy me and sharing those adventures with everyone as well. The past 5 years have been very tough keeping up the blog as the many issues that alt has with members constantly being restricted on what they can do on the site. In addition to the many spammers who have taken over the blogs and drown out the BDSM and other kink related topics because they want to be seen and talked about over nonsense rather than kink play. When we first started all the blogs were kink or sexual related. Comments are also way down compared to the earlier years and sometimes I wonder sometimes if just keeping a private diary to log the experiences might be a better idea. Probably the most irritating thing on the blogs though is how the system cuts off words in the blogs, and now we found out a lot of the photos that accompanied posts have also disappeared. I wanted to try and put a gif of various pics from the earlier years but found most have been removed. Over the years there have been so many friends on here who have disappeared. Some said bye, some we still communicate with on other sites, a lot have just gone without saying a thing. There are still a few friends that are still active on the site and we are very glad they are still here. As for the dedicated that read our blog everytime, we really appreciate that you do. Maybe this post would have been a better one for a milestone of 500 but as my sub says, we have to be realistic about how much longer we actually are going be able to keep play going as we have an expiration date. He has always said he doesn't want to be that guy who walks into a dungeon barely able to move and with a cane, and not the one he gets hit with. Unfortunately we have seen this a few times over the years and it was a session killer. Early on we posted a few times a week, then less and less to where now we try for once a week, so getting to 500 is 2 years out at a minimum. Of course who knows how this site will be by then as well, will the spammers have taken it over completely or will alt even still exist? So thank you to those who have enjoyed our stories over the past 13 years, at least we hope you have enjoyed them and will continue to read. Hopefully the gif of the earlier pictures is below, otherwise a few select ones will be placed in the comments. Ms. Jay bleash;
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I always enjoy reading your blog. The relationship you and your sub have is great to watch.
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Thank you for these shares, be happy and be well !!
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The image of you face-sitting him while attending to his nipples is the blue print for out after dinner exploration tonight. The she has a deliciously demanding pussy and the he has hungry nipples that move him to do...well, anything she asks.
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7/25/2022 12:45 pm |
Thanks for the many years you've captured our attention. Here's to many happy, healthy years ahead.
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We always look forward to your new adventures!!
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The gif did work but it looked like a psychedelic trip the photos were going by so fast. So I put the 4 up only of early play. Ms. Jay bleash;
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 Slave rick
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I have been hear a tad longer than you Ms.jay and you have given us so many great storys of you and sub/hub . I thank you for that please keep it up .. Its always something to look forward to . Alt needs to give you life Gold for what you do..BRAVO BRAVO Ms.j BRAVO looking forward to 500 .Take care
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Thanks for all the great stories!
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Thank you for sharing. He is correct. That time will come. But remember it is your decision, not his, if and how long he remains locked. He gave you those rights when he accepted chastity. Now iit is up to you what to continue to do with those rights. May you have a long life together and may you both enjoy whatever you decide to do with him.
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@carrottop2 @makinkycpl Tried to say thank you for your comments a few times but the system will not take them. So here is your Thank You! Ms. Jay bleash;
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Guess i better reread it
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I see four photos .. if that helps.. I always read your blog, though I might be a week or two late.. I rarely comment, as I don't feel I have much to offer other than brazen lust for HIS Mistress and I always figured that went without saying.. Please do keep writing as yours is one of the few I still check in on..
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7/31/2022 4:46 am |
Nice action and play. 
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You 2 look like you're having the time of your lives. Awesome.
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