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Sleeping Tied This post will be repeated as the first comment since words are being deleted... Here is another little change in our regular kink lifestyle. As I've mentioned on the blog numerous times over the years is that I prefer for my sub to sleep in some type of restraints. With 12 tie-down points around the bed, plus a metal bed frame, the positions are endless. My preferred choice is from him to be in a spread eagle so I can stretch out and cuddle with him throughout the night and also have full access to any part of the front of his body. It took a while for him to be able to sleep like this, but I was willing to wait. LOL. Actually it took a couple of months for him to get adjusted so he coupd sleep theough the night and it's been at least 20 years of him sleeping in this position most nights.  Unfortunately time takes a toll on the body and my sub was not immune to changes. The constant stretching of his legs and age has limited him being in a spread eagle for the whole night the past couple of years, so we have been making adjustments. The first was just securing his legs to the far foot cuffs at the foot of the bed, but that gave him too much play and wiggle room so that was short lived. The second was to have his feet cuffed together with the middle anchor point but that limited me playing with his cage and balls. It was good but could be better. The next option was using our small wooden spreader bar anchored to the middle point and cuffs on each end. This was good and has been in use for about 4 months now, but it still gave him too much wiggle room. If I was tickling his feet, he could move a lot, and I would have to constantly be grabbing his feet to hold him still. This is actually a photo of him on his stomach getting a paddling as we couldn't find one of him tied face up in this position.  So looking at the area and the two lower connections from the under-the-bed restraint system cuffs, we took off the cuffs and connectioned them to each side of the spreader bar and now it's a very tight fit. His only movement is shifting his feet from one side of the anchor point to the other, so about 2" inches. This also gives me plenty of access as well as it not allowing him to move away from me when I'm tickling, biting, or just tormenting him in general in the middle of the night. We've only been using this method for about a week and it seems like a good position for both of us, so it might be the new "normal" sleeping position for him.  What's your sleeping routine for your sub or yourself? Ms. Jay bleash; |
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Here is another little change in our regular kink lifestyle. As I've mentioned on the blog numerous times over the years is that I prefer for my sub to sleep in some type of restraints. With 12 tie-down points around the bed, plus a metal bed frame, the positions are endless. My preferred choice is from him to be in a spread eagle so I can stretch out and cuddle with him throughout the night and also have full access to any part of the front of his body. It took a while for him to be able to sleep like this, but I was willing to wait. LOL. Actually it took a couple of months for him to get adjusted so he coupd sleep theough the night and it's been at least 20 years of him sleeping in this position most nights. Unfortunately time takes a toll on the body and my sub was not immune to changes. The constant stretching of his legs and age has limited him being in a spread eagle for the whole night the past couple of years, so we have been making adjustments. The first was just securing his legs to the far foot cuffs at the foot of the bed, but that gave him too much play and wiggle room so that was short lived. The second was to have his feet cuffed together with the middle anchor point but that limited me playing with his cage and balls. It was good but could be better. The next option was using our small wooden spreader bar anchored to the middle point and cuffs on each end. This was good and has been in use for about 4 months now, but it still gave him too much wiggle room. If I was tickling his feet, he could move a lot, and I would have to constantly be grabbing his feet to hold him still. So looking at the area and the two lower connections from the under-the-bed restraint system cuffs, we took off the cuffs and connectioned them to each side of the spreader bar and now it's a very tight fit. His only movement is shifting his feet from one side of the anchor point to the other, so about 2" inches. This also gives me plenty of access as well as it not allowing him to move away from me when I'm tickling, biting, or just tormenting him in general in the middle of the night. We've only been using this method for about a week and it seems like a good position for both of us, so it might be the new "normal" sleeping position for him. What's your sleeping routine for your sub or yourself? Ms. Jay bleash;
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what a lucky slave . . . thank you for sharing . . .
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12/19/2022 12:31 pm |
Pretty sure i am not going to tell my Master of this hahahaha. i would not enjoy it too much. He may not like it either since i would not be able to get up to make His coffee and breakfast. He would have to get up to let me out and that would annoy Him. lol Good for You though glad it works
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Wow, some great ideas you have there, Ms Jay!
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nicely done. he's a lucky guy!
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very nice one very lucky sub/hub 
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