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BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F  
1643 posts
5/31/2023 9:47 am
Impact Play - Soft Butt


This post will repeat as the first comment since words are still being deleted..

I've mentioned that we haven't done much in the way of BDSM play since the pandemic and everything shut down. As of yet we haven't been able to get back to a dungeon or even an overnight hotel stay to play. Things just haven't worked out. Not to mention that we haven't been able to do much around the house either.

Last week we had the house to ourselves and I planned an impact session. My sub was tied face down on the bed, arms to the side and feet to the cuffs at the foot of the bed. His ass was propped up so it was a nice target.

Keep in mind that before the shutdown my sub could take quite a lot of impact on his body. At the dungeon or the hotel I would beat him for 20 - 45 minutes at a time, take a little break and then go at him again. When we met with another couple at the hotel, I would play with him for about 2 hours before they arrived, then she would torment him for a few more hours before going on to other activities.

The past 3 years he's gotten just a few smacks every now and then, nothing compared to what we used to do so his ass has gotten soft. LOL.

Back to last week, I did a little warm up on his ass with a leather paddle and then moved to a heavy wooden paddle gifted to us by a couple we know who has retired from play. It's a great paddle as it delivers some solid hits. I used it on him about mid-strength and he was only able to take about 6 hits before I had to stop. Normally it would have been a minimum of 20 with that paddle, take a break and 20 more. So I moved to my lollipop paddle and he couldn't take much from that either. Switching back to the leather paddle didn't help and I stopped and released him. He said his ass just couldn't take it and not sure why other than its been awhile. That was very disappointing.

We talked about what we can do and agreed that anytime we have a chance we do a quick session, and that over time they would get more intense to get his body back into being able to take a strong impact session.

Last night we did just that. Taking a paddle that was about medium intensity I used it as a warmup and kept hitting his ass with solid smacks to get his ass warmed up. Once he was warmed up I continued and about every 5-10 seconds I would give him a good smack. Going about it this way I was able to smack him continously for about 5 minutes and delivered about 15 good blows to the ass before I stopped.

Once we were done as a treat I modeled some clothes that we had bought earlier in the day. Between the paddling and the show, I could tell from the look of his cage he enjoyed both. Now to keep up with the training period.

For those that do impact play, how are your sessions going?

Ms. Jay
bleash;


BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F  
636 posts
5/31/2023 9:48 am

I've mentioned that we haven't done much in the way of BDSM play since the pandemic and everything shut down. As of yet we haven't been able to get back to a dungeon or even an overnight hotel stay to play. Things just haven't worked out. Not to mention that we haven't been able to do much around the house either.

Last week we had the house to ourselves and I planned an impact session. My sub was tied face down on the bed, arms to the side and feet to the cuffs at the foot of the bed. His ass was propped up so it was a nice target.

Keep in mind that before the shutdown my sub could take quite a lot of impact on his body. At the dungeon or the hotel I would beat him for 20 - 45 minutes at a time, take a little break and then go at him again. When we met with another couple at the hotel, I would play with him for about 2 hours before they arrived, then she would torment him for a few more hours before going on to other activities.

The past 3 years he's gotten just a few smacks every now and then, nothing compared to what we used to do so his ass has gotten soft. LOL.

Back to last week, I did a little warm up on his ass with a leather paddle and then moved to a heavy wooden paddle gifted to us by a couple we know who has retired from play. It's a great paddle as it delivers some solid hits. I used it on him about mid-strength and he was only able to take about 6 hits before I had to stop. Normally it would have been a minimum of 20 with that paddle, take a break and 20 more. So I moved to my lollipop paddle and he couldn't take much from that either. Switching back to the leather paddle didn't help and I stopped and released him. He said his ass just couldn't take it and not sure why other than its been awhile. That was very disappointing.

We talked about what we can do and agreed that anytime we have a chance we do a quick session, and that over time they would get more intense to get his body back into being able to take a strong impact session.

Last night we did just that. Taking a paddle that was about medium intensity I used it as a warmup and kept hitting his ass with solid smacks to get his ass warmed up. Once he was warmed up I continued and about every 5-10 seconds I would give him a good smack. Going about it this way I was able to smack him continously for about 5 minutes and delivered about 15 good blows to the ass before I stopped.

Once we were done as a treat I modeled some clothes that we had bought earlier in the day. Between the paddling and the show, I could tell from the look of his cage he enjoyed both. Now to keep up with the training period.

For those that do impact play, how are your sessions going?

Ms. Jay
bleash;


drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
5/31/2023 10:12 am

A good way to toughen him up again......


casio26 63M
2563 posts
5/31/2023 12:12 pm

Good for him!
Keep it coming, let his ass get calloused


tiusup 67M/67F  
512 posts
5/31/2023 5:19 pm

practice practice that will get him back to the way he was ..maybe gag him then put him in a leather hood and tie down so he can not move



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