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BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F  
1643 posts
8/25/2023 8:09 am
Anniversary


This post will repeat in the comments ss the system is still deleting words...

This past Sunday was our wedding anniversary, and I really thought we should celebrate it by having sex. And by me saying having sex, I mean me having sex with someone else, as my sub is still locked in his cage, and I intend to keep him that way. It was a last-minute, day-of thing, as we had originally had vanilla plans that fell through.

I talked to a few guys and even though they said they were up for meeting they backed out when I wanted to verify them with a phone call as they were afraid of the weather. Good excuse as it had been raining all day and there was a tropical storm warning that had been issued, but I think it was really when it came time to do it they chickened out. Too many flakes on these types of sites.

I finally decided on someone that had been messaging me for a while but we could never meet. He said he could get a hotel room and meet us there at 5:30. We were out running errands, so we just went straight over to the hotel and arrived at the same time he did, at 5 pm.

We went up to the room, and introductions were made. My sub set up the video camera (the guy wasn't willing to have the videos online, but I explained that I like to video tape the sessions as a tease for my sub for later). I then tied my sub to the chair in the room, with him facing the wall. He forgot to pack a blindfold, so he had to sit there with a towel wrapped around his eyes.

Once my sub was out of the way I went over to the bed, and we started kissing and fondling each other. We did this for a few minutes, then I told him that we both had too many clothes on. So we undressed each other and laid down on the bed and continued. He stroked my clit with his fingers and I had a couple of nice orgasms. During this time I was stroking his cock but he wasn't getting hard and I was getting a bad feeling. I then started to push his head lower on the bed and he finally took the hint and started to go down on me. It felt very nice, and a little strange, as he had a full beard and mustache, and it has been many, many years since I was with a guy with a beard. I had a few more orgasms, and then he put his fingers inside me while going down on me, and I came a couple of more times. He finally got hard so I thought we were finally going to fuck. But as he was putting on a condom, he came. So that was very disappointing.

We took a break, then laid back down, and started fondling each other again. I even told him I would go down on him to try and get him hard but even that wasn't working. I said it loud enough to tease my sub since he hasn't received a blow job in an long time. After about 10 minutes I had him start going down on me again as it seemed he needed additional time to recover. I had a few more orgasms and he still wasn't getting hard so we decided to call it a night.

Even though I had orgasmed over 10 times, it was disappointing that I wasn't properly fucked on my anniversary. Of course my sub volunteered to make sure I got fucked but I politely told him "no thanks". This was also the first time I didn't let him go down on me after a meet, as my clit was already very sore. He didn't know I wasn't going to let him until he was tied for the night. I'm going have to make up for the anniversary failure very soon.

Ms. Jay
bleash;


BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F  
636 posts
8/25/2023 8:10 am

This past Sunday was our wedding anniversary, and I really thought we should celebrate it by having sex. And by me saying having sex, I mean me having sex with someone else, as my sub is still locked in his cage, and I intend to keep him that way. It was a last-minute, day-of thing, as we had originally had vanilla plans that fell through.

I talked to a few guys and even though they said they were up for meeting they backed out when I wanted to verify them with a phone call as they were afraid of the weather. Good excuse as it had been raining all day and there was a tropical storm warning that had been issued, but I think it was really when it came time to do it they chickened out. Too many flakes on these types of sites.

I finally decided on someone that had been messaging me for a while but we could never meet. He said he could get a hotel room and meet us there at 5:30. We were out running errands, so we just went straight over to the hotel and arrived at the same time he did, at 5 pm.

We went up to the room, and introductions were made. My sub set up the video camera (the guy wasn't willing to have the videos online, but I explained that I like to video tape the sessions as a tease for my sub for later). I then tied my sub to the chair in the room, with him facing the wall. He forgot to pack a blindfold, so he had to sit there with a towel wrapped around his eyes.

Once my sub was out of the way I went over to the bed, and we started kissing and fondling each other. We did this for a few minutes, then I told him that we both had too many clothes on. So we undressed each other and laid down on the bed and continued. He stroked my clit with his fingers and I had a couple of nice orgasms. During this time I was stroking his cock but he wasn't getting hard and I was getting a bad feeling. I then started to push his head lower on the bed and he finally took the hint and started to go down on me. It felt very nice, and a little strange, as he had a full beard and mustache, and it has been many, many years since I was with a guy with a beard. I had a few more orgasms, and then he put his fingers inside me while going down on me, and I came a couple of more times. He finally got hard so I thought we were finally going to fuck. But as he was putting on a condom, he came. So that was very disappointing.

We took a break, then laid back down, and started fondling each other again. I even told him I would go down on him to try and get him hard but even that wasn't working. I said it loud enough to tease my sub since he hasn't received a blow job in an long time. After about 10 minutes I had him start going down on me again as it seemed he needed additional time to recover. I had a few more orgasms and he still wasn't getting hard so we decided to call it a night.

Even though I had orgasmed over 10 times, it was disappointing that I wasn't properly fucked on my anniversary. Of course my sub volunteered to make sure I got fucked but I politely told him "no thanks". This was also the first time I didn't let him go down on me after a meet, as my clit was already very sore. He didn't know I wasn't going to let him until he was tied for the night. I'm going have to make up for the anniversary failure very soon

Ms. Jay
bleash;


All4TheMistress 55M  
1559 posts
8/25/2023 9:52 am

Well that sucks!


drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
8/25/2023 10:36 am

Sounds a little disappointing but maybe soon.......


meltwill2 72M  
3809 posts
8/25/2023 12:22 pm

Yes, and I think they did!


tiusup 67M/67F  
512 posts
8/26/2023 5:35 am

Well at least you got a few OOOOOOOOOs out of it mmmmm


casio26 63M
2563 posts
8/26/2023 5:38 am

Sorry about your experience.
One thought would have been to lock your sub in the bathroom.
May have made your partner more secure


maletramp 64M
2095 posts
8/26/2023 2:28 pm

One reason I always enjoy reading your posts is the certainty of it being the truth. So I am very curious about this event: How often do males cum just from putting on a condom? Is there a back story to such events? Is there a personality type? etc.

and as to solutions to such a disappointment: Have you tried putting a strapon on the failing male?


BDSMCouple_SoCal replies on 9/1/2023 3:39 pm:
It's happened a couple of times over the years but the other person was able to remain hard. This person just wasn't able to perform that night no matter how much he wanted to. That might have been an issue as well, trying to hard.

Some of the others who haven't been able to perform as they did something beforehand and weren't to get hard as a result. That's very disappointing as well.

If a guy has to use pills to stay hard I have no problems with it as it makes for a much better time.

wantingnoregrets 64M  
805 posts
8/26/2023 6:23 pm

Sounds somewhat disappointing for everybody. Have you considered putting your strap on on subby hubby and having him fuck you that way so that he gets no enjoyment but you still get your penetration orgasm?


BDSMCouple_SoCal replies on 9/1/2023 3:33 pm:
He has one that fits over his cage, but I didn't want it at the time. That's why it was disappointing.

makinkycpl 66M/65F
208 posts
8/27/2023 9:19 am

Disappointing, but happy Anniversary!


JamieNicoleTV 75T  
23 posts
8/28/2023 1:23 pm

I am also so sorry to hear that you didn't get properly fucked, Ma'am. I am very happy though that you got to enjoy so many orgasms!😘😜

Very glad you didn't let subhubby do anything with you, except the EXTREME pleasure he had listening to all of your orgasms and to having a REAL man be with you. We useless sub hubbies should always be made to listen to our wives playing and fucking with men with gorgeous cocks!



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