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1 Year of Denial, almost This post will repeat in the comments It has been over 11 months since my sub had had an orgasm or been inside me. And except for a brief, five-second period a few months back, it has been 9 months since I've touched his cock at all. Of course I play with the cage all the time. LOL We will be going on a cruise in a couple of weeks, and the one-year anniversary will fall during the cruise. I have already told him that he should not be expecting a release during the cruise so he didn't have his hopes up, as I ended a 3 year denial period while on a vacation to Las Vegas once. He was told that it is expected that I will be having plenty of orgasms daily, either with his mouth and/or a strap-on. If things work out maybe find a new friend to have some fun with. We will be with vanilla friends so have to be careful and can't do anything too crazy. Knowing that I will be pleasured completely on our trip, while he will get nothing, is very exciting to me, and I am so looking forward to it. It is such a rush to me to know that during this time, I have fucked other men, touched their cocks, and even gone down on them, while he has received nothing. When I fuck the other guys, I can look over at him tied, blindfolded and caged, and the feeling it gives me is indescribable. It makes me orgasm harder, longer, and more often, knowing that he will be watching the video of me later. I will play videos of me being fucked by others while he goes down on me, so he can hear my moans and fucking sounds. It really gets me off, and it drives him crazy. Of course when we are alone I do love to tease him by playing with his balls as they are squeezed through the rings, or by stroking the cage and acting like I'm stroking his shaft and telling him how little his cock seems now and if he will ever be able to use it again. The one pleasure I do give him is nipple play/torture. His nipples are so sensitive I have to be careful I don't play too much as he could cum from it. It's not the same type of orgasm but I like to be careful. LOL. When I play with them they go from flat to hard points very quickly and I love to do things to do them. Over the years they have gotten very tough and can take a lot of punishment. We have so many different types of clamps as well as an electronic device with clamps. The newest device is a combination suction/electronic toy that I can put on different types of heads that rotate across his nipples at different speeds and pulses and drives him crazy. The sensation he gets from me playing with his nipples is pretty intense. As I mentioned he can orgasm from me playing with them. Sometimes he releases but most times not. He says it's a very intense sensation like an anal orgasm but not as hard. Once he hits that peak I love to keep him going as he squirms so hard in the restraints. Once I'm done tormenting him I usually leave him tied alone for a while to come back down. I know a lot of people would say that I'm being so cruel to him, having so many orgasms and being pleasured whenever, however and with whomever I want while he doesn't get any orgasm relief. But the truth is, he not only agreed to this, but he actually prefers it. It is a turn-on to him knowing I am being satisfied while he is in denial. The more I tease him, edge him, the more intense the feelings are for him. I love to sit on his face while he is tied for the night, grind my pussy into him, and smother him. I have to be very careful, though, because just doing that can cause him to release. He is on such an edge that he would release just from nipple torture if I wasn't very careful. And that is a big turn-on for me, knowing he is always right in the edge. He had been in the cage consistently for the past 8 months, with it only coming off for brief periods when he switches cages for variety, in addition to cleaning and shaving. He does play an impact sport so its off for that for a few hours but he wears a protective cup so he still doesnt have easy access to his cock. No matter what, he has slept in one of his cages every night this year and I don't see that changing anytime soon. He will be wearing the black mini-me for our entire vacation, and it will not come off at all. There is some truth to the myth of a cock shrinking due to prolonged use of chastity cages. Over the past 25 years his cages have become shorter and the rings smaller. The majority of time he is in either the clear or black mini-me, but sometimes wears the Ghost just to mix things up, though the Ghost seems so big on him now. His other CB-X series cages also look huge on him. Of course I don't let that go without commenting about the size difference between the guys I use and him. I love teasing him about his little cock and how it's so much fun keeping him locked up with him having no idea how long a denial session will be. Ms. Jay bleash; |
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It has been over 11 months since my sub had had an orgasm or been inside me. And except for a brief, five-second period a few months back, it has been 9 months since I've touched his cock at all. Of course I play with the cage all the time. LOL We will be going on a cruise in a couple of weeks, and the one-year anniversary will fall during the cruise. I have already told him that he should not be expecting a release during the cruise so he didn't have his hopes up, as I ended a 3 year denial period while on a vacation to Las Vegas once. He was told that it is expected that I will be having plenty of orgasms daily, either with his mouth and/or a strap-on. If things work out maybe find a new friend to have some fun with. We will be with vanilla friends so have to be careful and can't do anything too crazy. Knowing that I will be pleasured completely on our trip, while he will get nothing, is very exciting to me, and I am so looking forward to it. It is such a rush to me to know that during this time, I have fucked other men, touched their cocks, and even gone down on them, while he has received nothing. When I fuck the other guys, I can look over at him tied, blindfolded and caged, and the feeling it gives me is indescribable. It makes me orgasm harder, longer, and more often, knowing that he will be watching the video of me later. I will play videos of me being fucked by others while he goes down on me, so he can hear my moans and fucking sounds. It really gets me off, and it drives him crazy. Of course when we are alone I do love to tease him by playing with his balls as they are squeezed through the rings, or by stroking the cage and acting like I'm stroking his shaft and telling him how little his cock seems now and if he will ever be able to use it again. The one pleasure I do give him is nipple play/torture. His nipples are so sensitive I have to be careful I don't play too much as he could cum from it. It's not the same type of orgasm but I like to be careful. LOL. When I play with them they go from flat to hard points very quickly and I love to do things to do them. Over the years they have gotten very tough and can take a lot of punishment. We have so many different types of clamps as well as an electronic device with clamps. The newest device is a combination suction/electronic toy that I can put on different types of heads that rotate across his nipples at different speeds and pulses and drives him crazy. The sensation he gets from me playing with his nipples is pretty intense. As I mentioned he can orgasm from me playing with them. Sometimes he releases but most times not. He says it's a very intense sensation like an anal orgasm but not as hard. Once he hits that peak I love to keep him going as he squirms so hard in the restraints. Once I'm done tormenting him I usually leave him tied alone for a while to come back down. I know a lot of people would say that I'm being so cruel to him, having so many orgasms and being pleasured whenever, however and with whomever I want while he doesn't get any orgasm relief. But the truth is, he not only agreed to this, but he actually prefers it. It is a turn-on to him knowing I am being satisfied while he is in denial. The more I tease him, edge him, the more intense the feelings are for him. I love to sit on his face while he is tied for the night, grind my pussy into him, and smother him. I have to be very careful, though, because just doing that can cause him to release. He is on such an edge that he would release just from nipple torture if I wasn't very careful. And that is a big turn-on for me, knowing he is always right in the edge. He had been in the cage consistently for the past 8 months, with it only coming off for brief periods when he switches cages for variety, in addition to cleaning and shaving. He does play an impact sport so its off for that for a few hours but he wears a protective cup so he still doesnt have easy access to his cock. No matter what, he has slept in one of his cages every night this year and I don't see that changing anytime soon. He will be wearing the black mini-me for our entire vacation, and it will not come off at all. There is some truth to the myth of a cock shrinking due to prolonged use of chastity cages. Over the past 25 years his cages have become shorter and the rings smaller. The majority of time he is in either the clear or black mini-me, but sometimes wears the Ghost just to mix things up, though the Ghost seems so big on him now. His other CB-X series cages also look huge on him. Of course I don't let that go without commenting about the size difference between the guys I use and him. I love teasing him about his little cock and how it's so much fun keeping him locked up with him having no idea how long a denial session will be. Ms. Jay bleash;
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I have to say the relationship you have with your sub is just amazing. The communication and understanding you have is something to be proud of!
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 That is true after being in chastity for over 7 years mine has gotten smaller. I use to have a 7" thick cock but now a have a what they call a little boys penis only 2" Slave rick
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MMMMM Is two years in the makeing  Have a fun trip
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