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I think you need to actually resolve these issues.. before you seek out another relationship.. Because if not it may have an awful outcome There is nothing wrong with being by yourself a bit.. to work on yourself,,better yourself.. study and fix your yourself .. and personal issues Because even though.. you area sub.. you cant be running around like a victim/wounded little dog #1 its not atractive #2 there are worst predators who will pick up on this and you could end up in an even more unhealthy situation WHY DONT YOU DO A HOBBY LIKE YOGA, OR EVEN DANCE.. OR TAKE UP A SKILL OR NEW TRADE.. CONCENTRATE ON YOURSELF.. AND NO ONE ELSE FOR LIKE 3 WEEKS AT LEAST because if you are no good to yourself.. you surely cant be to any one else just like relax.. dont be a lil cry baby.. or anything.. You are probably so much stronger than you had ever imagined
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1 post 5/14/2009 7:55 am |
Thank you for the advice Miss Juliette, that is exactly what I'm doing. I didn't mean to imply that I'm looking right now. I'm still a ways away from that step. Yes, I'm avidly working to resolve the issues, and feel that I have a strong handle on them. Some of it is just going to take time to heal though. Really, I was just worrying about the future. The next time I look for someone I'm not sure how I'll react. No matter how much time I give it, I feel that it will still be an issue at the start. & thank you very much but I am not "running around like a little wounded dog". This post was more about the theme of trust in such a world and how the issue can be handled. I am not some sniveling victim and I'm a little annoyed that you would assume so. I'm not the type of woman who licks her wounds and cries about it for days, letting anyone who pleases walk by and take advantage of her. It's been a month, and I feel no real effects from the ordeal, I'm just worried that in the future, even though I'll feel fine, that it will affect a D/s or M/s relationship.
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I'd love to give advice. But I don't want to be someone who is telling you what to do. I just know that I thought I would trust less with each painful relationship. But it seems easier as time goes on. Due to the strength and experience that comes from each day through life. I trust easier. But only because its easier to spot the untrustworthy and stay clear of them. I always form a deep friendship before taking on a sub. Some think this is too vanilla. But safety is important. And not just physical safety. JJ
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i think i can sympathise with you - i know ive been thru what ur talking about - it just takes time like every1 says. u just cant rush it. lemme know if you'd ever like to chat 
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