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wideload888 55M
13 posts
10/7/2021 4:52 pm
Frustration


The Mrs isn't in the mood. No surprise . She's been treating the idea of a regular sex life like an alien concept for 20 years or so. She takes pity on and seems willing every two months or so. About once a year she's actually eager.

And I haven't been able meet the mistress in way too long.

The drought is getting to me. I'm getting frustrated and a bit cranky. Tonight, all I want to do after the mrs goes to bed is sit in the man cave, watch porn, drink some whiskey, and masturbate like a drunken monkey

Tbill1 58M
1795 posts
10/26/2021 8:58 am

Sorry for your frustration. Excuse me for saying but I do not think porn, masurbation and whiskey are your answers. Have you tried sharing your fantasies with your wife? I suggest admitting masturbation, porn and drinking to her.

andy


wideload888 55M
27 posts
1/16/2022 7:30 pm

Oh, they aren't answers at all. They are the results after eliminating pretty much all other options short of divorce.

When the falloff of sex started years ago, I asked questions without judgement - happy to discuss any issues/preferences/fantasies/etc. I was open and honest and patient and received little more than the "it's not you it's me" kinda of excuses. I suggested therapy for us, but she would have none of it. Of course, nothing changed.

Except for that singular issue, she's a wonderful wife. So I gave up on that issue and started looking elsewhere.

That's it. That's all there is to it.



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