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10/4/2011 12:32 pm |
i remember when i was at the stage you are as a slave. The fears that we face before finally taking that giant leap. It takes a great deal of change within to be able to say, i am afraid, but i will still move forward. i will not hide. i need to be who and what i am. i need to begin to find the One who will make all my dreams come and all my fears go. i wish you all the best and if you ever need to talk, i am here. hugs. a slave who understands, slavedebra We serve because it is our nature ~Owned and collared by Master Ron~
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10/4/2011 1:13 pm |
The fear to relinquish control needs to be overcome by mutual respect. In this way, the relinquish of control does not represent a dangerous situation because you trust the other to take care of you and for you. The fear to be found wanting is more of a mistake on the other's behalf in failing to recognize who you are and what you are able to give. The fear of losing yourself in another's strength, is this truly a fear at all? I think this also has to do with respect in that if the other is respectful, then losing yourself in his or her strength is actually trusting in their strength and hence could become a comforting thing. The fear of admitting weakness is not really relevant. There is no suggestion that you are actually weak at all. Submission or subservience is not really about weakness, is it? There are many very strong submissive and slaves. One that comes to mind time and again has already commented on this post. She is a wonderful, strong person who also just happens to be completely happy and adjusted to being a slave. Her strength is plain to see in her writings and does not appear to interfere in the slightest with her place beside her master. I think in reading your entire post you do completely understand what it takes. I think it is (as you perhaps suggest) more the fear that you will be mistreated and be hurt emotionally by it.
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Sorry I haven't responded. This is the first time that Alt has shown me the latest 2 replies - Thank you Uncle Spanks and MasterSlaveInLuv. I think the part of me being afraid of admitting weakness is not so much not having a stout heart but more that I can not go to the levels that I want to. I freely admit that the ol'bod aint what it used to be, age does that to folks, nevermind the wear and tear I've put on my body from all of the adventurous living and hikes through hell and back. I am accepting what a friend stated "Most folks would have rolled over and died if they had gone through 1/5th of what you have in your life". Yes I am strong and determined. I have lived my life my way on my terms and have alot of experiences both good and bad which I have learned from.
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