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1ChoiceDom 66M  
3 posts
5/30/2022 5:35 am
So, you wanna be a REAL slave! (ORIGIN UNKNOWN)


I want to be a 'real' slave.

No you don't.

Yes, I do.

Yeah, um... no, you don't.

I do so. Now, all I need to do is find the perfect Owner for me.

The perfect Owner for you?

Yes. Why would I become a slave to someone I don't want as an Owner.

Why indeed. Tell me something... what does slavery mean to you?

Why it is the most romantic, most deep and meaningful kind of relationship you can ever know!

It is?

Of course it is.

What about slavery is romantic?

Everything! Once I find the right Owner then deep, meaningful love, our mutual respect and my absolute devotion will all fall into place naturally.

You think slavery is about meaningful love and mutual respect?

Of course it is.

Slavery has existed for thousands of years.

Yeah, so?

In America, the last known openly practiced legal slavery involved the African slave trade.

Yes, I know. What's your point?

Do you think those people, the African natives, that were hunted down and captured in Africa, dragged across the ocean in chains, sold like cattle and put to work on plantations in horrible conditions constantly under fear of severe pain experienced "meaningful love" and "mutual respect" with their Owners?

No, but... I'm talking about 'consensual' slavery, not... you know... 'real' slavery.

I thought you opened by stating: "I want to be a 'real' slave?"

Yes, but... that kind of slavery is illegal. Therefore, the only kind of 'real' slavery left is 'consensual' slavery.

You are correct, but you have no idea what you are saying.

In many places, anal and oral sex is illegal. Marijuana is illegal. is illegal. Gambling is illegal. In many states, going even one mile per hour over the speed limit is illegal. Are you saying that if something is illegal then no one ever does it? Have you ever made an illegal U turn? Have you ever participated in oral sex?

Well, of course, but...

Right now, every male age 18 to 24 has to register for the Selective Service; the 'draft'. If you don't register, you are breaking the law and you can be punished by the courts. If the US Government ever institutes the draft, will the military 'come and find you'? The answer is: yes. If you do not report where and when they tell you to, they will hunt you down and drag you in if need be. They will force you to become a soldier whether you want to or not. How can they do this if slavery is illegal?

That's not slavery. That is the military; the government.

Semantics. It's all in the words and phrases used, the result is exactly the same. You can take a shredded<b> weed </font></b>and roll it into a cigarette and smoke it as long as that<b> weed </font></b>is not Marijuana (or any other illegal substance). Thousands of people roll their own tobacco cigarettes all the time. You can give gifts and money to a sex partner if you want to without breaking the law, it is all a matter of when, where how and why you have sex with them and when, where, how and why you give them money and gifts.

As for oral sex, well... that's just nobody's business, if you ask me. The same goes for the rare, recreational puff on Marijuana.

What does any of this have to do with slavery?

Slavery, 'real' slavery is just that: 'real' slavery. It is just like, exactly like, they been practicing for over ten thousand years all over the planet. What you want, what you describe as 'slavery', is not 'real' slavery. When possible, those who do practice 'real' slavery rearrange the words and phrases, but the result is exactly the same. At certain points, where 'breaking the law' cannot be avoided, they use more of a "it's none of anyone's (especially the government's) business" approach.

So you so-called 'real' slavery people just go out, find a random victim, knock them on the head, throw a net around them and drag them off to be a slave? You're saying that this goes on? And you approve?

Well, yes. That does go on. But, no, I do not approve; that is not 'consensual' slavery. That aspect of the practice of slavery is completely condemned by those who practice 'consensual' slavery.

So, then you agree that a slave should get to choose their Owner. Right?

Yes and no. A slave does decide when in their life they will become a slave. A slave will get to decide who they will make that initial transition from 'never have been owned' to 'being owned as a slave' with. After that initial transition, however, a 'real' slave has no say who owns them next or how they live or where they live or how they are treated or anything else for that matter; they are now a slave. So, obviously, the decision to become a 'real' slave is not something that should be quickly made.

It is a bad idea to 'romanticize' slavery. While sometimes, for short, sparse periods in a slave's life, it may seem like they are the lead character in some best selling erotic novel, the chance to live in those few, fleeting moments should certainly not be the reason to decide to become a 'real' slave. A 'real' slave is a slave for life. Unless, of course, an Owner chooses to emancipate them. For a 'real' slave, emancipation would be the absolute worst fate they could imagine. A 'real' slave desperately desires to be owned by a 'real' Owner. regardless of who that Owner is or the conditions of their life.

Well... my 'perfect' Owner would keep me forever. They would be monogamous. They would never lend me out to be used by others. They would love me as deeply as I love them. They would respect me and cherish me as their most treasured possession. My 'perfect' Owner is beautiful and sexy and wealthy and successful.

What if they got fat, were permanently disfigured from a car accident, lost their job and all their money and became an abusive alcoholic?

That would never happen to my 'perfect' Owner.

Okay. But, back here in the 'real' world, what if that did happen to your Owner?

I... I don't know. I guess we'd work through it. You know, like... lots of couples go through tough times.

So, you are 'like lots of couples' rather than actually Owner and slave, then?

What are you getting at?

Only this: if you were a 'real' slave then there would be nothing for you, personally, to 'get through'. At that point, if you were a 'real' slave, your status would remain exactly the same: you would now be a slave to an Owner who is fat, ugly, poor and an abusive alcoholic. As a 'real' slave, you would accept your fate and, of course, remain an owned slave. If your Owner decided to you out or even ignore you completely you would accept whatever new or changing circumstances in your life that occurred. That is what 'real' slaves do.

So, what are you trying to say? That it really doesn't matter who I pick to be my first Owner.

The first thing I am trying to say is: maybe you should re-think the whole idea about becoming a 'real' slave. It really isn't something you should just 'jump right into head first' without thinking it through.

What if... what if I do want to be a real slave. What if I consider all of the angles, accept all of the possibilities, and come to the conclusion that, in the end, it doesn't matter who owns me or how I am used; that the only thing that really matters is that I am owned as a 'real' slave?

Then I would say that, if you honestly have reached that conclusion, you are ready to become a 'real' slave and you should find an Owner willing to accept you.

So, then it really does not matter who I offer myself to? Then any one, any one at all, who claims to be a 'Master' or a 'Dominant' or an 'Owner' would suffice to be my first Owner?

Of course not. You said it yourself: the only thing that truly matters to a 'real' slave is that they are owned as a 'real' slave.

There are lots of people who claim to want to own a 'real' slave, but many (most) of them are just looking for a 'fantasy' relationship. Most commonly, they are looking for 'role-playing'. These people are no more ready to own a 'real' slave than those misguided masses who claim they want to be a 'real' slave. While the wannabe Owners may be a perfect match for the wannabe slaves, it is a very sad thing when a 'real' Owner winds up with a wannabe slave or a 'real' slave winds up with a wannabe Owner.

So, you are saying that the only concern I should have about my first Owner is that they are a 'real' Owner?

That is exactly what I am saying.

But... How do I know who is a 'real' Owner and who isn't?

Well, for one thing, they will understand exactly what 'real' slavery is; what is involved, how it is practiced and what it isn't. Another clue is that they probably won't 'hound' you, a real Owner probably won't invest too much time trying to seduce into becoming a slave. They might, if they find something outstanding about you that they truly want, but, as a rule, they tend to let you come to them.

Also, if you offer substantial resistance to the grittier aspects of slavery, they will probably dismiss you. They will assume you are a 'wannabe' yourself and want little, if anything, to do with you as far as owning you goes. I'm not saying they would reject the prospect of friendship (possibly even one with 'benefits', but they will stop considering you as a potential 'slave'.

A 'real' Owner won't continually push at you to become their slave. Very, very, few 'real' Owners will accept you as their slave immediately. Most Owners prefer the slave be the one begging and groveling, but there are some who do not appreciate 'pushy' slaves. They will want to know what you have to offer them.

They will want to be convinced of your dedication to becoming a 'real' slave. They will need to know your history and your background; they will need to know what taking you as a slave will be 'getting them into'. If they have a specific need they think you can fulfill (for example: they need bondage models for a web site) they might be inclined to accept you based only on this one requisite, but, as a 'real' Owner, they know that even if you own a slave for only one purpose, you still own all of the slave and all (if any) of the 'baggage' that comes with that slave.

This all seems complicated. Is that all I need to know?

Of course not. If you keep reading around this site, you'll gain more understanding; you're a lot smarter than most people give you credit for. I'm sure you can work it all out for yourself.


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