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What if I had said Yes... When I saw the second picture that is included in this post, it reminded me of a night a long time ago. It was one of the first times I ever went dressed. We went to a TV-friendly bar and my friends convinced me to wear a very short red dress and high heels. I was more than a little nervous about being in public like that, but they insisted that it would be OK. When we arrived, I felt very self-conscious about my appearance, so I quickly downed a couple of drinks to relax. We had been there for about an hour when the bartender handed me a drink and pointed out the gentleman who had bought it for me. I looked over and he smiled and began to walk toward me. I was literally shaking as he approached, so I took a few quick sips to try to calm down. He introduced himself and I thanked him for the drink. We chatted for a while and then he asked where my boyfriend was. I told him that i was there with friends and didn't have a boyfriend. I should have let him know that I wasn't interested in men, but I wasn't thinking at the time. He said he was shocked that a beautiful, sexy woman like me wasn't taken. I could feel myself blush, and I replied that this was one of my first times out and it was all still new to me.  I wasn't interested in him (at least I didn't think I was), but it just felt nice to be talking with a man like that, and have him looking at me that way. We sat down and continued our conversation. He was very easy to talk to and seemed be very attentive to my responses. I started to relax a little more, and he got us another round of drinks. He was getting a little flirty with me, including touching my arm and shoulder, and I really didn't do anything to discourage him. A little while later, he asked me if I would like go back to his place. I was having fun and considered it for just a moment, but then I realized what he really meant. Oh no, I couldn't do that! Looking back, it's pretty obvious now, but at the time I was shocked when I figured it out. I was just there to be out as Suzy, not to be with a man, but now a man wanted to be with me! I'm sure that he could tell how surprised I was, and I told him that I wasn't ready to do anything like that. He gently persisted, saying that he wouldn't make me do anything I was uncomfortable with. I was definitely flattered that a man would want me like that, but I insisted that I just couldn't.  I felt a little bad turning him down since he was so nice to me, and I hope it didn't come across as strong as this lady. I think this moment was when I first started having a interest in men. I liked him buying me a drink, complementing my appearance, wanting to spend time with me, and even wanting to get physical. I was surprised that it hurt to say no to him, and somewhere deep inside me I think I wanted to go, but I didn't know it and just wasn't ready. But now I wonder what would have happened if I went. It could have been a night of firsts - kiss, blow job, maybe even sex? Things would have been different if I had gone with him that night, and although I don't have any regrets about the way it all turned out, sometimes I still wonder.  Note: Somehow, multiple words were randomly deleted from this post. I hope I fixed all of them and it reads a little better now
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And now? I would ask him if we were taking my car or his!
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Suzy When I go out, I am not interested in finding a man , so I tell any guy quite early on, I am happy to chat but that is all! They can talk or move on! We may be "dressed" but we still have choices! I think this is a GREAT topic! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Good to see you blog again Suzy. That is one of many things a lot of us worry about. As nobody has seen me dressed in a bar (although I have been seen) it is nothing I have had to fear. Have you ever seen/heard of the film sliding doors. It is a film from 1998 about a chance meeting and what happens if you take the other turn. It's not a T film but a normal Rom/Com with Gwyneth Paltrow. Thanks for telling your side Suzy. Jo xx
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obviously he found you very attractive i think it would have been hard for me to have said no but i love that you stuck to your guns.
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Suzy When I go out, I am not interested in finding a man , so I tell any guy quite early on, I am happy to chat but that is all! They can talk or move on! We may be "dressed" but we still have choices! I think this is a GREAT topic! However, in my case I thought I wasn't interested but it turned out to be the complete opposite. His interest sparked a realization that I had not considered, so things actually worked out well!
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Good to see you blog again Suzy. That is one of many things a lot of us worry about. As nobody has seen me dressed in a bar (although I have been seen) it is nothing I have had to fear. Have you ever seen/heard of the film sliding doors. It is a film from 1998 about a chance meeting and what happens if you take the other turn. It's not a T film but a normal Rom/Com with Gwyneth Paltrow. Thanks for telling your side Suzy. Jo xx
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obviously he found you very attractive i think it would have been hard for me to have said no but i love that you stuck to your guns.
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