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Plzrmeister 67M  
2570 posts
12/16/2019 5:14 am

Last Read:
12/21/2019 6:23 am

The Pace of Blogging.....


Actual blog in the first comment.

And don't tap on the glass.

Make Women Female Again


Plzrmeister 67M  
10531 posts
12/16/2019 5:38 am

OK, so what are you driving at?

It appears to Me the pace of blogging has really slowed down.
I remember reading a comment a little while back where someone indicated the site had become boring (imagine) because 'recent posts' had the same blogs showing up for days.


I've noticed that. Most of the ones I see this morning are ones that were there yesterday.

Yeah, the blogs are moving at a snails pace. I counted the actual blogs that were posted yesterday, Dec. 15. Between 'Recent Posts' and "New Blogs', there was a total of seventeen (17).

And of those 17, I bet a few were from the same blogger?

If I remember correctly, yes. Maybe it's just Me, but this seems pretty weird compared to yesteryear when the blogs moved fairly quickly.

Well, it is the holiday season so people are busy with other things .... Even us pervs.

Yeah, there is that. I also shudder to think how many people (bloggers) have thrown up their hands with ALT's many faults and said, "Fuck it - I'm outta here!"

Fewer members certainly would equal fewer bloggers.
I remember many bloggers who have vanished into the sunset.


OK peanut gallery ..... Have you too noticed the blogs moving along like cold molasses? If so, what is your hypothesis on the cause(s)?

Make Women Female Again


Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
12/16/2019 7:00 am

It has definitely slowed down. I'm not really interested in posting these days. It seems the blogs have just become a place for people to bitch and moan, post pix of themselves, and post other people's quotes and writings.

The comments are just people scrambling to get points, and not even engaging with anything anyone writes. The community just seems dead.

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


Plzrmeister replies on 12/16/2019 10:35 am:
The blogs have just become a place for people to bitch and moan, post pix of themselves, and post other people's quotes and writings.

That's true, but I think that's been a constant through the years.

There are some really interesting bloggers that I enjoy reading. Some appear gone for good and some seem to hibernate for a while and then reappear.

Maybe it's just the ebbs and flows of the blogs - Like many things in life.

It could be .... I do hope it picks up soon.

Mark201040 52M
4 posts
12/16/2019 7:09 am

I have been here for I believe 12 years , found 2 beautiful subs on the site one was with me for 8 years. However the site has changed over the years. I remember a much more active blogging site and more activity in the chatrooms too.
The site seems to have more and more restrictions, you use to get 5 free chats a day even if you were a non paid member, now I can't respond to anyone unless I am a paid member much less initiate a chat. The company owning this thinks they can get more people to pay by doing that but to me it seems like it's driving more away.
Plus the influx of fake profiles, omg, it's ridiculous. The company can easily do a google image search and see the pic is off a porno site before they even approve the profile.


Plzrmeister replies on 12/16/2019 10:42 am:
The company owning this thinks they can get more people to pay by doing that but to me it seems like it's driving more away.

I couldn't agree with this more.

Me either and I see comments to that effect often.
Build a site that people are more than willing to pay for, not one that they are forced to pay for.


Plus the influx of fake profiles, omg, it's ridiculous

Ridiculous is putting it mildly.

Gawd I guess. The silver lining is that they're fun to 'out' if they post some BS blog.

lighthouse4297 56F
1680 posts
12/16/2019 7:56 am

Yes, I agree the blogs have slowed down. I have watched the blogs for a long time but until recently just started posting myself. I think people leave for many reasons, Maybe the fake profiles, Maybe they found someone, Maybe they have other things going on in their lives, Or sad to say maybe they have passed away. You just never know. I enjoy reading the blogs its pretty much all I do here. I never do I.M. I do speak with a few friends here and there and occasionally write a story. Smiles to you Plz. L


Plzrmeister replies on 12/16/2019 10:53 am:
Yeah, I'm sure there's a myriad of reasons people either quit blogging or leave the site altogether.

True. People come and people go - That's also been a constant through the years. I just don't ever remember it being this slow.

Smiles to you Plz.

I think she's trying to butter you up.

No butter for you?

Buttering us up?

Who in their right mind would want to butter you up!

Yeah and fuck you!

No .... Fuck You!!

Lking4mygirl 60M

12/16/2019 10:42 am

One of these days I'm going post something noteworthy.


Plzrmeister replies on 12/16/2019 10:48 am:
That's the spirit!

Roger that .......

rosaenaluin 65F
11073 posts
12/16/2019 10:54 am

It is almost winter time, i go in hybernation real soon....
But, i do blog, when i am in de mood, of have the energy for it.

The blogs are not that interesting anymore, i mean, i want to be invited to think about things, not just consume away....

Love some blogs and thats it.
winter time and a bad management on this site, maybe it are the Russian? Or the Chinese?


Plzrmeister replies on 12/16/2019 11:16 am:
Winter time and a bad management.

I suspect these two weigh heavily on the pace of things.

I don't know .... Blaming the Russians for anything and everything seems to be in vogue.

Fucking A .... Why didn't I think of that?

Because you don't think of anything worthwhile.

Fuck you!

No, fuck you!!

Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
12/16/2019 12:52 pm

    Quoting Daddyslilpunkin:
    It has definitely slowed down. I'm not really interested in posting these days. It seems the blogs have just become a place for people to bitch and moan, post pix of themselves, and post other people's quotes and writings.

    The comments are just people scrambling to get points, and not even engaging with anything anyone writes. The community just seems dead.
PLZ

I agree a lot of those components were here, but they were fewer and in between posts. I LOVE the posts where people write about their lives, their experiences in BDSM, politics, in essence things we can engage in. Jenny's posts about being grateful and about our days, always makes me stop and think. Reminds me to think about what I have and I stop and comment.

When people post a pic of the genitals or breasts, I'm all meh. If I was interested I could go to their profile and check those out. I like to get to know people, intelligence is something I find attractive in partners and in friends. A sense of humour and I am all over it LOL

I miss some of the bloggers as well, I wonder what has become of them, and miss their input in this little community.

Sigh

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


Plzrmeister replies on 12/16/2019 1:27 pm:
I LOVE the posts where people write about their lives, their experiences in BDSM, politics, in essence things we can engage in.

I can relate to these subjects other than politics.

Gawd .... No shit. I feel one of the main purposes of this site is for 'lifestylers' to find acceptance and not be judged. Be able to feel how you feel, do what you do and be who you are without being lambasted for it.

Throw politics into the mix and see how that shifts that 'judgement' equation.

All bets are off. Name calling, condescension, insults and judgments with a capital 'J'. "Don't agree with Me? You're obviously a fucking idiot".

And regardless of which party affiliation you aspire to.

Yeah. Political discussions only invite conflict.

TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
12/16/2019 3:47 pm

I'm afraid I'm one of the ones that has slowed down!

I notice my last post was way back in October! I keep thinking I will get around to posting something but the lack of pace in the number of posts suggests to me that there is barely anyone left either reading or writing.

I will post something soon but I'm determined not to write about how crap this site has become...

...And often that's about all I have to say! So I stay schtum!


Plzrmeister replies on 12/17/2019 5:36 am:
not to write about how crap this site has become...

I know .... That has become a common thread throughout the blogs and I'm as guilty as anyone.

And often that's about all I have to say!

I hear ya .... We're in the same boat.

Well, if you weren't so fucking boring, you'd have other things to talk about.

Me???? If you weren't such a fucking idiot, you'd think of other things to write about.

Fuck you...

Yeah and fuck you too!

InderioMinx 54F  
19853 posts
12/16/2019 4:50 pm

I've noticed the slowdown, and I contribute to that. I just haven't had much time to get over here, flesh out a post and post. I've got a blog in the wings, but now to just make the time to *write* it out. One of these days.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


Plzrmeister replies on 12/17/2019 5:40 am:
I've got a blog in the wings, but now to just make the time to *write* it out.

Is that how you spell procrastination?

I think it might be.

C'mon Minx, you can do it!!!

Yeah .... There's no time like the present.

submale1955 68M
460 posts
12/20/2019 1:49 pm

Bring Back Vlad!?


Plzrmeister replies on 12/21/2019 4:39 am:
Uh .... Not sure that's the solution - LOL.

I'm not thinking so. See 75% of the blogs being the same blog gets old very quickly.


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